Hindu Marriage Act

[Mel&Lal 12]

If you are able to move to India, why not do it now before getting denied? If you move and get married in India ASAP then you can be added to all his bank accounts, rental agreements, health/life insurance even his mobile bill etc as his wife. This will only help your case as it shows that he has taken steps to mingle finances etc with his wife. I think that in the long run it should help alot because if his family is against you but he has taken the measures to add you to his accounts then it shows a strong relationship even in the absence of family support.

Just something to think about if you have the option/ability.

It has crossed out minds, but my 15 year old son does not want to move to India. He loves my fiance like a dad but he does not want to give up his life here and I understand that. My fiance and I are going to at least try for my sons sake.

[Kat&Abhi 42]

It has crossed out minds, but my 15 year old son does not want to move to India. He loves my fiance like a dad but he does not want to give up his life here and I understand that. My fiance and I are going to at least try for my sons sake.

Ooh I totally get that....I thought he might be younger where a move wouldn't be a huge adjustment. At that age it would be a big deal and if he is not willing its not worth it I think! Although I will say there are amazing schools and facilities available if you can take the time to find them (and pay for them since they aren't cheap) so if he does come around to the idea you can make it a smooth/easy transition for him.

you really are in a tough spot...i feel for you its not easy! I think if you are still worried, you could go to india, get married and have you added to his accounts/bills all in the matter of about 10-14 days if necessary. Then you would have further documentation to submit with the i130.

I will keep thinking about this and if I come up with any other ideas/thoughts I will let you know! best of luck!

[Mel&Lal 12]

Ooh I totally get that....I thought he might be younger where a move wouldn't be a huge adjustment. At that age it would be a big deal and if he is not willing its not worth it I think! Although I will say there are amazing schools and facilities available if you can take the time to find them (and pay for them since they aren't cheap) so if he does come around to the idea you can make it a smooth/easy transition for him.

you really are in a tough spot...i feel for you its not easy! I think if you are still worried, you could go to india, get married and have you added to his accounts/bills all in the matter of about 10-14 days if necessary. Then you would have further documentation to submit with the i130.

I will keep thinking about this and if I come up with any other ideas/thoughts I will let you know! best of luck!

Yes and I agree, which is why we are going to try again with CR1 and pray pray pray that this will go our way this time. My son understands that he might have no choice in the matter and he understands but he does not want to leave his school and friends. I just hope the CO would see it like this and not my fiance wanting to immigrant to the USA.

We already planned on adding me to his bank account while I am in India. I want to do the same here in the USA, but I dont think it will be possible to do that with him not being present, but I am going to talk to the bank about it and see if they can give me a letter head stating that I did try to add him to the account. I going to take his last name. Not sure what else I can use as for evidence of marriage since he is not living with me or I with him.

I am still very worried about this, because I feel the odds are against us. I still been trying to figure where he went wrong with his K1 interview. Alot of VJ friends tell me not to worry its just a test and we will get approved this time. I am trying so hard to think positive.

Edited February 19, 2014 by Mel&Lal

[tessnsam 2]

We got married in India under the Gujarat act 2006. Although we under administrative processing we were able to register our marriage with the court in jetpur he added me to his bank account and to his passport and I was able to get a family visa for return trips to India based on our marriage cert but I think because of a few other red flags are why we are under ap.I'm 19 years older than him and previously divorced but 1 child that's in his 20's