BIG CHANGE IN MY LIFE!!! NOTHING I EXPECTED!

[Ontarkie 14,221]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits , from K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures~~

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

The US doesn't need more people to come here and live illegally. Don't let him use you. Tell the embassy that it is off. Don't let him come here, for the good of the country.

[Ingrid28 69]

Do what your heart tells you to, only you alone can make that decision, follow your heart love.

[Boiler 45,486]

I think the technical term is Aiding and abetting.

What is there to think about?

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

The technical term is human trafficking and she will be looking at huge fine and jail terms. To assisting in transporting people into the US against immigration laws falls under trafficking laws. The OP should look up the penalties

[baron555 934]

You'll be party to committing visa fraud

[LaVegano 12]

I know he will be here illegally, but I don't know if this will affect me. No I haven't contacted the embassy, I have mixed feeling about all this

My wife and myself have been in AP for little over 2 weeks. You will be responsible for him once he is here for 10 years. Think about that. You signed the affidavit of support. Sounds to me like you want to be with him. Be careful.

Why were y'all in AP for 8 months? And did y'all know about AP at time of interview??

Edited February 1, 2014 by LaVegano

[lost_at_sea 995]

My wife and myself have been in AP for little over 2 weeks. You will be responsible for him once he is here for 10 years. Think about that. You signed the affidavit of support. Sounds to me like you want to be with him. Be careful.

The OP is not currently on the hook for 10 years. That will only be true if they marry and file for his adjustment of status, including the I-864.

He has a K1.

[Boiler 45,486]

There is no 10 year limit anyway.

[livindadream 156]

I agree.

But again...they never collected the I-134. I know of some members here where they did not ask for that form either. I am not sure why, but the only thing that I have in writing is the intention to marry. Now lets that he comes here, and I do not marry him, how can I be penalized when I can say that he lied to me. It does happen to other people that bring their fiances, and their relationship did not go well after coming to the US and before the 90 days.

Call me crazy, but I think you are making a big mistake by airing your intentions on a public forum, with your names and pictures attached. If you are not wise enough to see that being this open about the possibility of perjuring yourself here is a bad idea...then you probably aren't going to be able to successfully pull off this ridiculous scheme of "let me bring this man to the States (because I feel bad for him) and then let him run loose and I'll say it just didn't work out". I know you feel bad for the man, but if he's not someone you LOVE enough to marry, then don't commit fraud to bring him to the States as your fiancé.

Edited February 1, 2014 by AYOsGirl

[rade2rising 205]

Just be sure once u stop the process in few months time ur feelings dont change again. Be careful.

If you are certain then stop the process but if there is some doubt then why not let things run their course? Worst case u dont marry him. Best case?..........

[Ontarkie 14,221]

You broke it off in August you should of stopped it then. Since you still feel the same as you did then put a stop to it now. His family and him are already trying to manipulate you to change your mind do not let it get any further then it has.

[Gosia & Tito 199]

So, I haven't been on here for A LONG TIME.. and in the time that I have been MIA things have happened.

First of all, after being on AP for quite sometime, I unfortunately found things out about my now EX fiance. It has been a hard situation for me to recover. Secondly, I grew out of love for him and no longer wish to be with him. October was the last time I ever contacted the embassy along with the senators help but nothing was solved and no answer was given as to why we were on AP(FYI, I broke the relationship off in August 2013). I thought to maybe do the favor of finishing up with this process and maybe if he would get to the US, fix us up. Nope, that couldn't be done b/c of his actions, so I never thought to follow through with CEAC website or call the embassy/NVC or even log on to VJ.

I went back to DR in December, to have a nice time by myself and with my dear family and friends. I saw my "ex-fiance", after all the nonsense that he spoke about me, I went to collect a few documents that he had of mine, and took advantage of the fact that I was there in his house to confront him about everything he said and done. I concluded that I would be making the biggest mistake if I bring him over to the US. I decided that I didn't want to go through this process any longer, but before I told him the desicion I had made, I sent an email to the embassy asking what was the status of our case being that it was exactly 8 months on AP. The next day early in the morning, I received an email from the embassy stating that they were pleased to inform me that the AP has been concluded and that they would need for him to resubmit his medicals in order to issue his visa. Confused, with mixed emotions, I told my ex-fiance this information, still thinking that it might have been the right decision. That same week he went and did his medicals. Well, that was mid January, he received a call from the embassy today and was told to take his passport back to the embassy so they can issue his visa.

Guys, I don't want to go through this, but he called me crying today, his family and friends are telling me that he loves me that he has changed so much that even if I don't want to bring him to the US, not to leave him etc.... This is a very hard situation for me. I took the time to write what happened during the time I didn't log on VJ to kind of update you guys who are my friends on what has been going on. (I apologize for the long story)

My question is; If he comes to the US, and I do not marry him, he will obviously be here illegally. Is that going to affect me in any way? Thank guys. Fast response would be greatly appreciated.

You will not have much of a problem; but, your actions in allowing the opportunity to travel into the US even when you know well you will not marry this person is what causes APs and long waits for others. If he does travel, knowing that you are not marrying him, he is lying at the POE, if that is not fraud....and you are an accomplice in that.

Up to you and your conscience.

[Sandra G. 5,047]

Lady do you know the quote " Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me". What part of the "fool" you didn't understand yet?

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

I agree.

But again...they never collected the I-134. I know of some members here where they did not ask for that form either. I am not sure why, but the only thing that I have in writing is the intention to marry. Now lets that he comes here, and I do not marry him, how can I be penalized when I can say that he lied to me. It does happen to other people that bring their fiances, and their relationship did not go well after coming to the US and before the 90 days.

The difference is that others still have the intent to marry AFTER the beneficiary arrives, the couple lives together under

one roof and the petitioner after a month or two says oh hell no and calls it off for whatever reason. That is not fraud.

The key word is AFTER and INTENT. You know you no longer intent to marry him because he lied to you about something and therefore

it becomes fraud to "help" him come here anyway without INTENT to marry him.

The intent died along with the relationship and with the commitment to marry. No intent = fraud. Yes you can be penalized.

I hope I answered your question and you understand the difference.