Vawa Part 5

[melanieuk 19]

Seriously I admire Sandra's patience!!! Some of you don't even bother to read the previous threads. Just so you know there's loads of information from members who have gotten thru the same journey... Only difference now is that Vermont is takin way short periods of time t decide. I personally waited a year and 4 months before getting an approval for I-360...any way what is the freaking rush to travel outside of the US??? Read before making yourselves "victims " again. We all have grandparents, some of them dieing in our home country, there's been mother's who haven't seen their children in years in this forum. There's plenty of variety of tough situations here, some of you people are just lazy to read or click into the links Other people share for your knowledge!!! If you are in such rush to visit your countries just go back, you should worry to become an asset to this country which has plenty of opportunities for all of us regardless of our immigration status. Why do you think dreamers are educated? Because they didn't stay still to whine.

Btw I forgo to mention that IO asked if I have gotten married since I divorce, I haven't and not even looking for a partner now, but some had pop that question... Again go back and read what Sandra had advise in regards to that. You all have a nice day.

Your post has nothing to do with anything. I asked because Hypnos mentioned that since this was challenged at court, it was safe to travel with AOS pending on AP.

[citragirl 25]

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Edited August 4, 2014 by citragirl

[mamaof3! 9]

Seriously I admire Sandra's patience!!! Some of you don't even bother to read the previous threads. Just so you know there's loads of information from members who have gotten thru the same journey... Only difference now is that Vermont is takin way short periods of time t decide. I personally waited a year and 4 months before getting an approval for I-360...any way what is the freaking rush to travel outside of the US??? Read before making yourselves "victims " again. We all have grandparents, some of them dieing in our home country, there's been mother's who haven't seen their children in years in this forum. There's plenty of variety of tough situations here, some of you people are just lazy to read or click into the links Other people share for your knowledge!!! If you are in such rush to visit your countries just go back, you should worry to become an asset to this country which has plenty of opportunities for all of us regardless of our immigration status. Why do you think dreamers are educated? Because they didn't stay still to whine.

Btw I forgo to mention that IO asked if I have gotten married since I divorce, I haven't and not even looking for a partner now, but some had pop that question... Again go back and read what Sandra had advise in regards to that. You all have a nice day.

I get you Citragirl, no need to be harsh about your point. We are all here for help and support, and this should be given without this kind of tone. Some newbies (that includes me) actually did read all the previous vawa posts(crazy long), all parts and some don't simply because they do not know it exists.

It is frustrating when the same questions are been asked; Yes.. but people in our situation need help, IF YOU DON'T ASK..U WILL NEVER LEARN..

Sandra does alot giving her time answering questions and helping us... Can we try using the search button at the top right hand corner of the page to find what we need before posting repetitive questions.

Always put vawa in the sentence, if it is vawa related!!

Have a great week guys!! KLOVE

[citragirl 25]

I am not harsh I simply don't sugar coat.

[citragirl 25]

Look ladies and gentlemen, because he have men here too. There's no problem in asking but when you have been given a response or a link take it, the fact that you keep pushing the question time after time won't change the law.

[mamaof3! 9]

I am not harsh I simply don't sugar coat.

Well some of us still waiting for approvals are going to ask these questions, if you feel like you are going to have this tone, then will rather hear from those with empathy

[mamaof3! 9]

people need help and are going to ask, if you feel too big, keep your comments to yourself, I cannot stand people being rude, the waiting is very hard on all of us, that doesn't mean people can't express that they need help with something.

Sandra an amazing person and will get blessings for all the help she renders to others. If you cannot be positive in helping others, then we don't want to hear is citagirl...

Edited August 4, 2014 by mamaof3!

[citragirl 25]

I don't see why you insist on label me as rude, to begin with I don't even know what your question is, I don't feel big, if I was I wouldn't had share my experience with you all. You are upset by God knows why. I simply made my point and I never said it was wrong to ask but keep pushing the same question is definitely not smart. Now it does bother me that people seem to be in a rush to travel outside the US, you tell me how that is of help to this thread? Is more pleasant to read successful stories of mothers just waiting on arrival of GC to go see their children not people just insisting on a AP to board a plane ... I do feel for people who are struggling to survive and pay their rent while waiting on their approval. You don't know my story so you can't judge me, I waited what I had to wait only God provides at the perfect time.

[melanieuk 19]

I don't see why you insist on label me as rude, to begin with I don't even know what your question is, I don't feel big, if I was I wouldn't had share my experience with you all. You are upset by God knows why. I simply made my point and I never said it was wrong to ask but keep pushing the same question is definitely not smart. Now it does bother me that people seem to be in a rush to travel outside the US, you tell me how that is of help to this thread? Is more pleasant to read successful stories of mothers just waiting on arrival of GC to go see their children not people just insisting on a AP to board a plane ... I do feel for people who are struggling to survive and pay their rent while waiting on their approval. You don't know my story so you can't judge me, I waited what I had to wait only God provides at the perfect time.

You just judged me for asking a question even adding that I should just leave because I want to travel abroad, but now you can't be judged? I asked a question, Sandra could have ignored it, but in her kindness she opted not to, maybe because she knew it was important for me to know. I just think it's very ironic that you had your interview recently and your journey is almost over and for some reason you think of yourself as superior to others here when you were once in he same or worst circumstances as me. Enough with the off topic.

[biko 0]

LoL..rude

[missymd 5]

Lol! Melanieuk you,re right..

[mamaof3! 9]

I don't see why you insist on label me as rude, to begin with I don't even know what your question is, I don't feel big, if I was I wouldn't had share my experience with you all. You are upset by God knows why. I simply made my point and I never said it was wrong to ask but keep pushing the same question is definitely not smart. Now it does bother me that people seem to be in a rush to travel outside the US, you tell me how that is of help to this thread? Is more pleasant to read successful stories of mothers just waiting on arrival of GC to go see their children not people just insisting on a AP to board a plane ... I do feel for people who are struggling to survive and pay their rent while waiting on their approval. You don't know my story so you can't judge me, I waited what I had to wait only God provides at the perfect time.

You know what citragirl.. what you wrote was bollocks, go back and read your post.. I was pissed just reading the "go back to your country bit", hence my many replies to you. It came across very rude and heartless. Sandra has no problem replying, and if she did, I'm sure she won't and hopefully someone else will chip in.

melanieUk made a good point, i guess it's easy to talk rubbish when you have your approval, just watch what comes out of your mouth.

Goodluck to us that are still waiting, the wait is a pain but be positive and strong.

KLOVE

[Czzr 13]

cat fight!!!

[citragirl 25]

cat fight!!!

lol that's hilarious :-)

[melanieuk 19]

lol that's hilarious :-)

It really isn't. Mainly because you like to judge me without even knowing why I need to travel abroad. This incident is just a bad example of how uneducated some immigrants are, "I got mine, screw everyone else".