Told he had no chance of getting tourist visa

[lisaf83 0]

He gets paid his full check on the begining of each month and gets a partial payment or something like on the 15 of the month. His family owns a coupe pieces of land which they rent out to people. His father is in the military over there. So he lives mainly with his mother and younger siblings. He one sister though that is married to an American which I have to talk to him through skype as well. He was the one to tells us about the k1.

[RhettVoe 282]

Well, not much else to do except have him apply...but don't get your hopes up too high....

[lisaf83 0]

thats what I told him to do was just to go to the embassy and actually try to apply for not to talk to anyone outside of the embassy and if that dont work and gets denied after that I will just have to get my passport and have him pay for the around trip ticket. Which he did say he would do.

[Jamie & Izzy 98]

thats what I told him to do was just to go to the embassy and actually try to apply for not to talk to anyone outside of the embassy and if that dont work and gets denied after that I will just have to get my passport and have him pay for the around trip ticket. Which he did say he would do.

I`m sorry to say this,but i don`t think he will get a Visa ,You will have to visit him in the end ....but if he can afford it he should try but the chance are very very low ! I`m half German half Moroccan and i visited my husband 3 times in the US using VWP ,he did visit me 4 times 2 times in Germany 2 times in Morocco,and each time i fly i get chosen for a RANDOM inspection before entering the plane, and him moving to Morocco did not work in the end cause of our 2 big dogs and ofcourse him getting a job ,that`s when we decided to apply for i130 so we don`t waste money visiting each other and being treated like a criminal each time i enter the US...but anyways.

How long have you two been chatting ?

Izzy

[lisaf83 0]

its only been for a few months, I not saying im going to apply for the k1 to begin with just view my option if we are still talking say by my birthday then yeah I will apply for the k1 im a little cautious like I told him if hes serious about being with me then he will wait til july thats my birthday. They longer we talk the more we find out about each other. Taking it one step at time. So i guess you could say we are still with in the beginning of the relationship. We have been talking since shortly after thanksgiving.

[SennaBrigante 92]

You've only been chatting a few months? Errr yeah that might raise red flags during his interview if the CO asks how long you two been a couple.

If money is no object to him, he can apply for a tourist visa as often as he wants until he gets approved. I had to apply 3x before I got my tourist visa but eventually I was able to visit my BF in the US (after a 2-year long online relationship and meeting his stepmom here in the country). He can't come visit me here because he's on probation and can't leave the country. Worst case scenario you'll have to travel to Morocco but like you said, leaving the country might risk your custody chances for your kids so you have to ask yourself if it's really worth it.

Also if you apply for a K1 later on you'll have to sponsor him so if you're struggling financially now (or in July), you'll have to find a co-sponsor for him. Plus with a K1 visa he won't be able to start working yet until he adjusts his status which can cost hundreds of dollars so you're looking at supporting your husband and and kids with your income for a couple of months.

Edited January 21, 2014 by SennaBrigante

[Boiler 45,558]

Sounds like you need to prioritise your children and meanwhile he can apply for a visitor visa.

The good news is that there is no restriction of how many times you can apply or how frequently, so if he at first does not succeed, try try again.

[Cathi 5,757]

You really need to talk to others who have gone before you. Not to sound harsh, but your understanding of immigration and visas through Morocco, or any other country for that matter, is naive. It isn't just meeting in order to be approved, especially through morocco, you have to prove an ongoing, bonafide relationship, chatting online for a few months and only one meeting to appease the consulate just isn't going to fly. And financially you will invest a few thousand in the process just in fees and other incidentals, not including traveling costs. And what about the affidavit of support? You are a struggling single mother, whose children are at risk of being taken away for good if you travel to meet him. As a mother myself, it is appalling that you would risk the custody of your kids for some guy you barely know who lives 7 thousand miles away. You say you will go " if you have to". Why would you? Why? I would die before I put some man I don't know over my children. Do you know anything about his culture and religion? Does his family really approve? There are so many red flags in your case and you really need to do some studying about getting a visa through morocco and talk to other women who have gone through his consulate.

[Rebecca616 38]

Oh I do hope you get past the butterfly stage of your relationship before you make such a serious commitment. Are you guys around the same age? Do you share/understand his beliefs (if any), Does he know about the situation with your children, does he have any? I hate being a Debbie downer here but your situation is kind of screaming "Red Flag". Please be careful.

[Cathi 5,757]

Sounds like you need to prioritise your children and meanwhile he can apply for a visitor visa.

The good news is that there is no restriction of how many times you can apply or how frequently, so if he at first does not succeed, try try again.

Truer words have never been spoken. What parent would put a man she doesn't know before her children? I'm trying not to be judgmental, but if someone goes to meet a man she doesn't know, knowing ahead of time she will most likely lose her children forever, deserves what she gets. Just sayin'

[lisaf83 0]

im not putting him before my kids i was just gathering information trust and believe that is something i would never do. i was always told to ask question if someone said something i didnt understand or didnt believe to begin with so i asked. but everyone thought i was putting him before my children thats bull. MY KIDS DO AND ALWAYS WILL COME BEFORE ANY MAN. Sorry for asking and telling what I had been told by a guy

Edited January 21, 2014 by lisaf83

[algerinou 2]

i tell u somthing dont listen people here they just wants to make u scared .u can meet him one time to moroco to be better and never consul will denied his visa they will seen that u come to moroco even 7 days .other things its not matter 2 years chat .and people who is here said that this case red flag tell them u not work in conslat .u have a right to bring your man .i have my freind he is now in new york with his wife she come to him one time to algeria .when he going to interview he was one year with her its mean they tolk by chat and meet everything one year they didnt ask him .i have other freind his wife visit him one time to algeria and get married in the first visit and het get visa and he is with his wife . people here they tolk like they are consul .so by the way go to him in moroco spend few time and back to usa and send the file and wait .

[SennaBrigante 92]

i tell u somthing dont listen people here they just wants to make u scared .u can meet him one time to moroco to be better and never consul will denied his visa they will seen that u come to moroco even 7 days .other things its not matter 2 years chat .and people who is here said that this case red flag tell them u not work in conslat .u have a right to bring your man .i have my freind he is now in new york with his wife she come to him one time to algeria .when he going to interview he was one year with her its mean they tolk by chat and meet everything one year they didnt ask him .i have other freind his wife visit him one time to algeria and get married in the first visit and het get visa and he is with his wife . people here they tolk like they are consul .so by the way go to him in moroco spend few time and back to usa and send the file and wait .

I think you forgot the part where she could risk losing custody of her kids if she left the country...

[Misha'sgirl 44]

Perhaps an international relationship is not in the cards right now or you can meet him in a border country closer to you.

Meet in a Country that is closest to you. When my fiance and I met, I was sick (recieving treatment) but we wanted to meet so badly and begin the K-1 process, so Mexico is super close to me and we met there in Cancun.

[milimelo 4,486]

i tell u somthing dont listen people here they just wants to make u scared .u can meet him one time to moroco to be better and never consul will denied his visa they will seen that u come to moroco even 7 days .other things its not matter 2 years chat .and people who is here said that this case red flag tell them u not work in conslat .u have a right to bring your man .i have my freind he is now in new york with his wife she come to him one time to algeria .when he going to interview he was one year with her its mean they tolk by chat and meet everything one year they didnt ask him .i have other freind his wife visit him one time to algeria and get married in the first visit and het get visa and he is with his wife . people here they tolk like they are consul .so by the way go to him in moroco spend few time and back to usa and send the file and wait .

Umm, no. She has a right to petition government agency (USCIS) to allow the husband to apply for US visa after the petition is approved, but getting a visa to immigrate is not a right.

Also, ever heard of punctuation and spacing?