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SingleDad2usc   71

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Yes, having him sign a document before moving out is testament to control

Vawa was created to help aliens fleeing domestic violence and or extreme cruelty, not to people adjust status because left everything behind in their home Country.

Your friend has to prove she suffered extreme cruelty to the point she is now suffering major depression and or pos traumatic disorder. She needs to have a psychological evaluation to prove that. Extreme cruelty is a repetitive pattern of humiliation, degradation,threats, control,offensive language etc...

I saw many cases some women described "my husband was abusing me, he demanded I clean the house, cook, take care of his kids,well this is not abuse, it means the alien got married to a mean person.The abuse suffered must change the alien's behavior, such as the person was upbeat, outgoing,caring etc, now the person lives in fear, walking in egg shells,became hyper vigilant, the alien is having problem to sleep, eat to function properly.

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Boiler
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You said she has been teaching for 15 years but then you describe 14 year old behaviour. She is a stranger in a strange country, she has family etc back home and nothing here to stay for.

Cathi
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If she came to the US to be with him, and she doesn't know anyone else, why would she want to stay?

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What a mess. If as originally posted--if everything is true--the guy ought to be strung up. But the "if" is such a big thing. At first--I was almost certain that this was about me and my wife--who

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happens to the best of us, buddy. Congrats on your marriage!

thanks bud......Yea its been a year and a month now...we connect well on all levels though. First marriage happened to also be a Filipina and that was 31+ years.

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*screamed.......not proof reading and watching football, ha.

I watched the Chelsea game, but now they have American Football on.

Go Broncos.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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glad to hear a nice human story, this is what this board dearly misses. every breakup is bitter, every ex- is lynched. people find no interests outside of gossip and whistle blowing; it's like Orwellian prophecy my friend

thanks bud......Yea its been a year and a month now...we connect well on all levels though. First marriage happened to also be a Filipina and that was 31+ years.

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Up the Baggies.

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Ron and Rhea   42

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glad to hear a nice human story, this is what this board dearly misses. every breakup is bitter, every ex- is lynched. people find no interests outside of gossip and whistle blowing; it's like Orwellian prophecy my friend

I hear you....hahaha, so true.

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glad to hear a nice human story, this is what this board dearly misses. every breakup is bitter, every ex- is lynched. people find no interests outside of gossip and whistle blowing; it's like Orwellian prophecy my friend

There was a buy one get one free deal on at the time.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Like I do say. Wisdom is everything. Why not let her be patient with him and do whatever it take until she gets what is hers...

Even if she take the Bio-metrics with you, they might invite both of them for interview for green card. What happens?

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An astute option.

But how many posts have you ever read that starts out saying "Help, my marriage ended and I need to know how to set up my Ex WIfes old dental practise in Ogbomosho?"

What we normally hear from USC is "Help, I need to deport my scamming Ex Wife back to her thatched hut".

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Love is a gift and not to be earned, therefore one should never hold any regrets for giving love regardless of the outcome...

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Lets get back to basics:

She has been here shorter than some people come on vacation.

She knows one person, someone she had not seen for 10 years.

No money it seems.

No qualifications that would be of use in the US.

What is she intending to do, nails? What sort of life could she expect on a minimum wage job, assuming she could get one, when/if she is allowed to work.

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“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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If my husband treated me that way i would not desire to stay in USA i would more than be happy to return home to my loved ones. Considering i had given up my all or not back in my own country i would still want to be back in it and not in USA where i know no one , have no family, no finances.

If i was her i would go home . But that is my opinion anyway . :)

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