What will/do you do to show your love

[Fandango 1,439]

Here are some things I HOPE I do:

1) Kiss often...

2) Give her space and time to assimilate into her new life...

3) Weekly massage...

4) Tell her I love her daily...

5) Be considerate of the impact this move makes on her and her family...

6) Pinch, smack or squeeze her little booty daily...

7) Take her out for a nice dinner at least once a week...

8) Leave love notes for her to wake up to...

9) Take hand-in-hand walks...

10) Make her breakfast in bed once in a while...

11) Bubblebaths from time to time...

12) Pleasure her sometimes without expecting return of favor (maybe...)...

What are yours?

Firstly, if you did all those things to me I'd run screaming. "Smack her booty daily?" ~ I'm sorry but...#######? Secondly, a list? If you need a list to keep your relationship alive you're already in trouble.

Dearie me.

this whole list thing is just high on the ick factor, but 6 and 12 just make me wanna take a shower.

[Marilyn. 340]

I am not understanding why some of you think that all the things he has on his list are icky... yeah, some of them might be... but not all of them

1) Kiss often...

2) Give her space and time to assimilate into her new life...

3) Weekly massage...

4) Tell her I love her daily...

5) Be considerate of the impact this move makes on her and her family...

6) Pinch, smack or squeeze her little booty daily...

7) Take her out for a nice dinner at least once a week...

8) Leave love notes for her to wake up to...

9) Take hand-in-hand walks...

10) Make her breakfast in bed once in a while...

11) Bubblebaths from time to time...

12) Pleasure her sometimes without expecting return of favor (maybe...)...

[babybunny 2]

Here are some things I HOPE I do:

1) Kiss often...

2) Give her space and time to assimilate into her new life...

3) Weekly massage...

4) Tell her I love her daily...

5) Be considerate of the impact this move makes on her and her family...

6) Pinch, smack or squeeze her little booty daily...

7) Take her out for a nice dinner at least once a week...

8) Leave love notes for her to wake up to...

9) Take hand-in-hand walks...

10) Make her breakfast in bed once in a while...

11) Bubblebaths from time to time...

12) Pleasure her sometimes without expecting return of favor (maybe...)...

What are yours?

Firstly, if you did all those things to me I'd run screaming. "Smack her booty daily?" ~ I'm sorry but...#######? Secondly, a list? If you need a list to keep your relationship alive you're already in trouble.

Dearie me.

this whole list thing is just high on the ick factor, but 6 and 12 just make me wanna take a shower.

dayum..I think the ICK factor comes into play when people talk too personal about things. its good he wants to make a christmas list of things he would like to do for his lady. I think # 1 #4 is the best he has on his list.

1. kiss her often < I added the word her >

2. tell her you love her daily.

these 2 things you should never ever forget or take for granted.

[Marilyn. 340]

Here are some things I HOPE I do:

1) Kiss often...

2) Give her space and time to assimilate into her new life...

3) Weekly massage...

4) Tell her I love her daily...

5) Be considerate of the impact this move makes on her and her family...

6) Pinch, smack or squeeze her little booty daily...

7) Take her out for a nice dinner at least once a week...

8) Leave love notes for her to wake up to...

9) Take hand-in-hand walks...

10) Make her breakfast in bed once in a while...

11) Bubblebaths from time to time...

12) Pleasure her sometimes without expecting return of favor (maybe...)...

What are yours?

Firstly, if you did all those things to me I'd run screaming. "Smack her booty daily?" ~ I'm sorry but...#######? Secondly, a list? If you need a list to keep your relationship alive you're already in trouble.

Dearie me.

this whole list thing is just high on the ick factor, but 6 and 12 just make me wanna take a shower.

dayum..I think the ICK factor comes into play when people talk too personal about things. its good he wants to make a christmas list of things he would like to do for his lady. I think # 1 #4 is the best he has on his list.

1. kiss her often < I added the word her >

2. tell her you love her daily.

these 2 things you should never ever forget or take for granted.

[JenT 0]

This seems to fall in the 'duh' category to me.

You 'HOPE' to do them, OP?

Jen

[mrsushi66 0]

I think what the original poster is trying to point out that we are all human and while we want our relationships to be perfect all the time, sometimes life gets turned upside down. We get busy we get involved in the lives of our children or work or parents and those we are closest to and love the most suffer a bit because they get neglected.

You can either look at this like, You need a list??? or you look at like he is going to do these things but when things get hectic and he ends up being human and not doing the these the list will help remind him.

Those who claim to have never taken a partner for granted are far better than I.

Paul misses Anna

[Marilyn. 340]

I think what the original poster is trying to point out that we are all human and while we want our relationships to be perfect all the time, sometimes life gets turned upside down. We get busy we get involved in the lives of our children or work or parents and those we are closest to and love the most suffer a bit because they get neglected.

You can either look at this like, You need a list??? or you look at like he is going to do these things but when things get hectic and he ends up being human and not doing the these the list will help remind him.

Those who claim to have never taken a partner for granted are far better than I.

Paul misses Anna

I was wanting to say something like that but couldn't figure out how to word it....

[Fandango 1,439]

I am not understanding why some of you think that all the things he has on his list are icky... yeah, some of them might be... but not all of them

1) Kiss often...

2) Give her space and time to assimilate into her new life...

3) Weekly massage...

4) Tell her I love her daily...

5) Be considerate of the impact this move makes on her and her family...

6) Pinch, smack or squeeze her little booty daily...

7) Take her out for a nice dinner at least once a week...

8) Leave love notes for her to wake up to...

9) Take hand-in-hand walks...

10) Make her breakfast in bed once in a while...

11) Bubblebaths from time to time...

12) Pleasure her sometimes without expecting return of favor (maybe...)...

Well, since I mentioned the 'ick' factor, I'll explain....

the non bold things just made me throw up in my mouth a little....but I said the list thing was high on ick cos 1) it's a list...like who needs a list? I am a huuuuuuuuuge list maker, but to say 'oh don't forget to kiss often!' just seems wierd and 2) why publish to the public what should be between the two of you? Does anyone here care whether the OP is gonna go down on his wife without expecting a hummer in return? Or the fact that he's going to leave her love notes, make her bubblebaths and give her a massage?

Ick.

Edited December 29, 2006 by LisaD

[TracyTN 237]

Not taking your partner for granted - I DO think its great to remind yourself not to do that.

But as Lisa pointed out, do we really need to know that he intends on pleasuring her without expecting anything in return?

[Marilyn. 340]

Not taking your partner for granted - I DO think its great to remind yourself not to do that.

But as Lisa pointed out, do we really need to know that he intends on pleasuring her without expecting anything in return?

yeah, that might be TMI but I don't think we should bash the whole list because of it....

[Fandango 1,439]

Not taking your partner for granted - I DO think its great to remind yourself not to do that.

But as Lisa pointed out, do we really need to know that he intends on pleasuring her without expecting anything in return?

yeah, that might be TMI but I don't think we should bash the whole list because of it....

it has spoiled the list! the list is spoiled!

I feel like I'm in Seinfeld all of a sudden

[mawilson 2,133]

But as Lisa pointed out, do we really need to know that he intends on pleasuring her without expecting anything in return?

Yes, we do.

[Marilyn. 340]

Here are some things I HOPE I do:

1) Kiss often...

2) Give her space and time to assimilate into her new life...

3) Weekly massage...

4) Tell her I love her daily...

5) Be considerate of the impact this move makes on her and her family...

6) Pinch, smack or squeeze her little booty daily...

7) Take her out for a nice dinner at least once a week...

8) Leave love notes for her to wake up to...

9) Take hand-in-hand walks...

10) Make her breakfast in bed once in a while...

11) Bubblebaths from time to time...

12) Pleasure her sometimes without expecting return of favor (maybe...)...

What are yours?

is that better?

[Mags 112]

Here are some things I HOPE I do:

1) Kiss often...

2) Give her space and time to assimilate into her new life...

3) Weekly massage...

4) Tell her I love her daily...

5) Be considerate of the impact this move makes on her and her family...

6) Pinch, smack or squeeze her little booty daily...

7) Take her out for a nice dinner at least once a week...

8) Leave love notes for her to wake up to...

9) Take hand-in-hand walks...

10) Make her breakfast in bed once in a while...

11) Bubblebaths from time to time...

12) Pleasure her sometimes without expecting return of favor (maybe...)...

What are yours?

Firstly, if you did all those things to me I'd run screaming. "Smack her booty daily?" ~ I'm sorry but...#######? Secondly, a list? If you need a list to keep your relationship alive you're already in trouble.

Dearie me.

this whole list thing is just high on the ick factor, but 6 and 12 just make me wanna take a shower.

With bleach....

I'm sorry, but this whole thread just seems "off" to me. It just ain't right to post stuff like this.

Edited December 29, 2006 by mags

[daveandlirio 0]

Okay...I have been bashed repeatedly in numerous threads over the past couple days. My posts were taken WAY out of context and interpretations were far from my intent. I'm bored, I'm lonely, I miss my fiancee, and I felt like VJ was a bit of a brotherhood where we could share our VJ problems, assist each other with the process based on personal experiences, share our concerns, and laugh together when we really needed it.

If any of my posts ever offended anyone (or made them throw up a little in their mouth for reading it), then I'm very sorry...never EVER meant to do that!

I will make this my last VJ post and wish you all well.

Dave