Visa Denied! :(

[Michele1003 12]

If I were you, I would STRONGLY urge the boyfriend refrain from trying the third time. First step proving the good "potential" of becoming a good citizen is OBEYING to law of the land.

When you chose to break the law, there should be consequences. Now learn to deal with it. Don't try to find a way around it!

Yes but his last entry hasn't been since 2005 and left 2010 so we can try to do things right and for him to be a better person and be able to have his family with me and our daughter.

[Robby999 1,024]

Here is a site that will help you more than this site can. http://www.immigrate2us.net/

[JDGam 6]

This is a support group. So, PLEASE be supportive. If not supportive than keep comments neutral. Thank you.

If I were you, I would STRONGLY urge the boyfriend refrain from trying the third time. First step proving the good "potential" of becoming a good citizen is OBEYING to law of the land.

When you chose to break the law, there should be consequences. Now learn to deal with it. Don't try to find a way around it!

[Jawaree 717]

20 yrs non-waivable bans, your lawyer should have known if

you told him/her the truth....an advisory opinion would be a waste

of time and money, because it is what it is he EWI twice, and your

lawyer,or a Congress-person/Senator cannot help.to reverse the DOS

decision, it stands.

Have you thought of moving to Tijuana & obtaining a job in San Diego

U could work US funds and live with your husband in Mexico, crossing the

border twice a day in itself can be tiresome....the next site will also tell

Uno relief until about 15 yts when you can file for a waiver after another

interview and DOS (Embassy) approves you to file waivers

Edited January 16, 2014 by Jawaree

[rylforever 18]

So sorry for the news this must be a really difficult time for you two. I know you have an attorney already, but i think you should get a second opinion. Also go over to the immigrate2us.net page it has tons of information on waivers and bans. Good luck.

[Nawlinshoney 7]

I have talked to a lawyer about this cause he" thought" my boyfriend overstayed his last visa. Anyways the only way around that is you Have to go to his country and marry him. Then come back to the USA and petition for him here. You MUST prove extreme hardship without him here. Depression, maybe he is the breadwinner of the family you may have to see a doctor to claim depression for him not being here, etc...

[Nawlinshoney 7]

This is a support group. So, PLEASE be supportive. If not supportive than keep comments neutral. Thank you.

I agree try to be supportive.

[Hypnos 6,576]

Anyways the only way around that is you Have to go to his country and marry him. Then come back to the USA and petition for him here.

You cannot apply for a waiver of a 9C bar until ten years have passed from the most recent departure from the US. In this case the OP's fiancé will not be able to apply for the waiver until 2020.

Edited January 16, 2014 by Hypnos

[Jessicacallum 14]

Not to be offensive but if you knew this why would you even try, does it not seem pointless? Couldn't you see that they would say no if you're banned from entering. Go to him, that would be your best choice I believe love

[skysofialila 45]

Yes but his last entry hasn't been since 2005 and left 2010 so we can try to do things right and for him to be a better person and be able to have his family with me and our daughter.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It must be so tough. The website and forums at http://www.immigrate2us.net/ have cases similar to yours and you might find some support there.

I gave similar advice to someone who was going through something similar and moved to Brazil to be with her husband because he was barred from entering for 10 years for the same reason: If going to Mexico and living there for a while is not an option, you can try immigrating to Canada if you or your fiance went to college or trade school and can show that you're skilled workers. (Visit the official Canadian government site for more info: http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/index.asp)

Good luck! I hope everything works out for the best!

Edited January 16, 2014 by skysofialila

[Boiler 45,486]

There is a Lawyer.

The Lawyer knew it was a 9C case.

But still proceeded.

Sounds like a report is needed to the local Bar. And all the costs refunded.

[blooms 63]

Hi,

Sorry to hear about the denial. I know how you both want to be reunited here and sucks to wait for 10 years.

I second the suggestions from other members to consider moving to Mexico until the ban is over.

Or Canada? That way you are closer to home?

What did your attorney suggest you do now after the denial? Just curious.

Good luck to you both.

Blooms

[TBoneTX 45,273]

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[suzukiwookie 1]

I would save your money, call off the lawyer, and move on to someone that can be in the same country as you, and work, etc. I know the heart wants what the heart wants, but you have to be logical about it too. If you can't even have this guy in the country, and I assume you wouldn't move to Mexico, what's the point? Have a good cry for a couple of weeks and find yourself an American, although harsh, is my unsolicited advice.

[Boiler 45,486]

The point of moving would be so that they could be together.