Marriage Fraud Question

[foifoi 11]

My point is you need to move on. You have done what you can. His GC, his wife, his life, stopped being your business when you divorced him, and did what you could to get him into any sort of trouble you could dig up. So what if he moved on to someone YOU don't think is up to your standard. Is she a kinder person? Calling her names, denigrating their relationship, whatever it may be, makes you look petty, vindictive, and out for blood. It's stalking. As much as you would like us to believe you are best buddies with the FDNS, we aren't buying it.

so when friend heard that he got married and told me about it, I am stalking him? you are actually starting to not mind your business now considering that your assumptions are offensive to me...i have reported everything while we were divorcing so this wife has nothing to do with me being vindictive if he was confirmed as fraud way before getting married to this lady of his....i've done my job looooong time ago, I am not doing anything new now that he's married. except that he is hurting himself considering that he just sot himself on the foot the last minute when he got married again while already under watch. He hurted himself more now. If you call me a stalker again, I promise to offend you badly considering that you obviously don't know the circumstances of things and just starting to offend me not knowing how i learned of the marriage in the 1st place.

so when friend heard that he got married and told me about it, I am stalking him? you are actually starting to not mind your business now considering that your assumptions are offensive to me...i have reported everything while we were divorcing so this wife has nothing to do with me being vindictive if he was confirmed as fraud way before getting married to this lady of his....i've done my job looooong time ago, I am not doing anything new now that he's married. except that he is hurting himself considering that he just shot himself on the foot the last minute when he got married again while already under watch. He hurted himself more now. If you call me a stalker again, I promise to offend you badly considering that you obviously don't know the circumstances of things and just starting to offend me not knowing how i learned of the marriage in the 1st place.

[foifoi 11]

clear as day: not one contributor to this topic believed OP's relationship with USCIS.

What's not clear: how foifoi decides to keep pushing USCIS into action vs Beckham, when she was his sponsor to begin with, presenting bona-fide marriage to them. What was bona-fide about that marriage? (I apologize for not understanding anything about immigration. My only experience is in taking care of two children from birth for the past 100,000 hours)

have u asked yourself couple of questions before deciding to believe me or not?

or so you don't believe me and that's fine but does that really change the reality?

so does that mean that im not in contact with them based on your own opinion assessment of the situation? how does your opinion change the situation of my ex when it comes to fraud? so basically if you or someone else don't believe that fdns is on his tail that means hat fdns isn't on his tail )) i love the logic. you see how you're a waste of space here now right? good day

[lala7500 8]

all i see is spite spite spite leave him b get your own life quit being a bad person

[foifoi 11]

all i see is spite spite spite leave him b get your own life quit being a bad person

site for what specifically?

[ir0nK1visa 2]

Foifoi - FIRST, you MUST recognize when others are just being antagonist and not worthy of your time or replies. Some people come on here EXPECTING others to spill their whole story in a public forum and if you do not or appear to be against them ATTEMPT to belittle, harass you or say things like we do not believe you, we need more information and do not give you any constructive or valid feedback. Ignore them and do not stoop down to their level should you reply to them.

As for your issue. I think you have the answers you wanted. I for one believe, you can update the FDNS rep as long as he is reaching out to you, but at some point you NEED to MOVE ON with your life. As much as you might say you are, to certain extent you are not and it does weigh on your life to some degree. I and no one else can attest to that other than yourself, but it naturally will stress you and bother you to see he might get away with some fraud. I would say move on, forget, FORGIVE him and continue with your life.

I think you want to do the right thing to prevent another person from being used and I commend you for that. So many of us turn and look the other way to often, but at some point you need to let it go.

[foifoi 11]

spite for what specifically?

[foifoi 11]

I have zero skin in this, and so should you...You post a marriage fraud topic on forum (as his fraud). But it was not merely on forum, when you brought this marriage to USCIS: a marriage based on immigrant's trust in your sponsorship. So it wasn't enough that you cancelled promises to both parties, you just won't let it die - despite everyone's opinion here. This was NOT my opinion: not a single contributor here appeared to understand your communication with USCIS, of which you have not actually quoted any...But I'm trying, unemotionally, to understand a USC's position of decrying fraud marriage - to which the USC is a willing participant. If your marriage was based on your promise of sponsorship, then why do you call your own marriage fraud marriage? Why do 50% of domestic marriages fail, but they're not fraud; maybe your immigration promise is fraud. My opinion is no fraud

LOLOl

so the immigrant cheats me financially on top of immigration wise, lies to many in many fronts for which i have evidence, but the USC shall sponsor them )) awesome! please do go away...do me a favor. willingly participating in fraud is when both parties are aware of the fraud from the inception of the marriage smart ###. anyways, this will be last reply to you ad the person who posted below you described you and a few others very well here. i loved the part where you keep saying no proof of the communication with the fdns lol would you love to see the email of the fdns officer maybe? maybe I should post all of my communication here for you to start believing me...should i feed your ego this way? really...go take care of your babies, you'll be much more productive today doing just that ) oh oh ! i do have one great idea, how about i give u the email and the name of the fdns officer and that way you will email him yourself to ask him if he has been in touch with me or not...))

Foifoi - FIRST, you MUST recognize when others are just being antagonist and not worthy of your time or replies. Some people come on here EXPECTING others to spill their whole story in a public forum and if you do not or appear to be against them ATTEMPT to belittle, harass you or say things like we do not believe you, we need more information and do not give you any constructive or valid feedback. Ignore them and do not stoop down to their level should you reply to them.

As for your issue. I think you have the answers you wanted. I for one believe, you can update the FDNS rep as long as he is reaching out to you, but at some point you NEED to MOVE ON with your life. As much as you might say you are, to certain extent you are not and it does weigh on your life to some degree. I and no one else can attest to that other than yourself, but it naturally will stress you and bother you to see he might get away with some fraud. I would say move on, forget, FORGIVE him and continue with your life.

I think you want to do the right thing to prevent another person from being used and I commend you for that. So many of us turn and look the other way to often, but at some point you need to let it go.

yes )) i am starting to recognize that there are some obnoxious people here no doubt )) thank you!

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

Of course one should report fraud and there is nothing wrong with that at all. You have done that and you say they confirmed it. Not sure

how they can "confirm" that to you because it would violate his privacy immensely.

But ok let's assume they did confirm it, what some here and including myself were advising is not to get caught up in the OUTCOME

of your fraud report. That is where you seem very fixated on. Understandably we want justice to wrong doings but you seem a bit over the top

with it because it has been almost a year since your divorce and you still seem to be overly attached to the outcome.

You say you have the confirmation that they are on this case. Then why make a thread to stir yourself all up with it again.

Your question in your topic was will they look at his marriage as another red flag so to speak, of course they will look at that.

They already confirmed that to you personally as you say right ?

What more then is there to say ?

It is one thing to report fraud and submit evidence and it is another to be consumed with bitterness one year later waiting to gain

satisfaction that his behind gets what he has coming to him, that is what I see people verbalizing here.

You said you have done this fraud report "successfully" then what is left ? That part is not clear.

I think you want to be reassured that his butt will be shipped back but that is not under your control.
You have mentioned several times that the "old, fat, skin hanging on her neck" woman he married needs to be protected too,
it seems when calling her all that you are not so much worried about her well being but you yourself are hurt and want revenge and

simply can't wait to see that day come. Careful, bitterness is no joke on one's own body, mental and emotional health.
That's all some are saying here.
If you have nothing else to submit for evidence then just let it go in your heart, mind and soul and stop regurgitating it for your own

benefit. Let the USCIS do their job and make their decision and stop biting your nails wondering what exactly they will do and decide.

Your level of prolonged involvement may indicate that you have not cut the cord from him emotionally yet.

When the day comes that you no longer care then you are truly free.

[verysadguy 170]

foifoi, forget about singledadusc, he is "different."

If you have evidence of fraud, as you have, then you must present that to USCIS. Immigration in the USA is messed up enough that we don't need a bunch of users and frauds and cons coming to this country. You did this. Great. If you find more, continue to turn in the evidence.

As for the BS line of you are 50% of the promise to come to America that is just pure BUNK. You were cheated. You have no further obligation to your Russian adonis. You turned him in as you should have. You owe him NOTHING. Just stop arguing with the fools on your thread. They are antagonizing you.

As for your own piece of mind, do get some counseling or find your happy place. I don't believe in karma like most of this board constantly talks about. Your Russian will simply move on to his next victim until USCIS catches up with him. Good job on keeping US Citizens a wee bit safer.

Please also note the majority of detractors to your actions are foreign nationals defending God knows what principles. They look at immigration from a different perspective than Americans. USCIS needs to toughen up and in a big way. ICE has the lowest moral of any government agency because the administration makes it almost impossible for ICE to toss out the trash. There is no room in America or anywhere else for that matter for frauds and criminals, but that sadly is a part of human nature. There are users in the world, and those of us who care for the welfare of others and this nation have an obligation to turn those fktards in to the authorities.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Someone wrote in the VAWA thread

"According to immigration laws, the US citizen spouse is not obliged to sponsor anyone for a green card"

SingleDadUSC's logic on the marriage you acquired on your promise of sponsorship is so twisted.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Nothing twisted (in this case). Adonis married the USC solely for her sponsorship

[verysadguy 170]

Someone wrote in the VAWA thread

"According to immigration laws, the US citizen spouse is not obliged to sponsor anyone for a green card"

SingleDadUSC's logic on the marriage you acquired on your promise of sponsorship is so twisted.

singledaddy-o-usc is hanging his hat on the engagement and marital vows, and thus the petitioner must grant the beneficiary the promise of a green card or whatever. He is completely throwing out the fraud portion of the relationship.

If I marry someone, and I DID, all those vows are not held valid if the other party entered in to that relationship on false pretenses which my ex and foifoi's ex did. So please forget all the BS about you promised and you brought someone from a foreign land and it didn't work out etc.

THESE ARE FRAUDS. Con artists. We do not owe them jack. Report, divorce, and take them to justice on Earth and with God. Singledad, Please stay on the VAWA thread with your own story of being the male recipient of abuse and good luck to you. The USC's on this thread who are the true victims of criminal actions will continue to fight for what is right which is deny green cards to those trying to get benefits fraudulently.

[Ontarkie 14,324]

~~Thread is closed, as it seems to be more of attacking the OP rather then helping. FoiFoi if you have any further updates that you wish to share later down the road you may start a fresh thread.~~