Marriage Fraud Question

[destiny64 222]

Geez , all of you give her a break. I think if any one of you were in her situation you wouldn't want your ex spouse to get away with getting a green card if it meant using you. No one wants to see a murderer get away with murder , or any other crime for that matter . If any one of us who brought our spouse to the U.S found out they used us to get here we would feel the same. In fact I feel if you have solid proof of fraud being committed towards you for the sole purpose of a green card, it should be considered abuse and punishable the same way as domestic abuse, that way there is no way to achieve a green card as you would have a criminal charge. There is no certainty that this loser won't get his green card another way , however we can all hope that USCIS does their job and has him flagged as a previous fraud offense since she indeed stated they confirmed it, if that's the case then committing fraud in the past would surely affect any attempt to another green card.

To the poster, hope time heals this horrible event in your life and hopefully in time you will find your true love and be able to forget him and what he did to you.

[Misha'sgirl 44]

To all the people who found my comment rude in regard to being obese. So would you believe that a 250 pound 5'5 woman marries to a David Beckham look alike would be real? Seriously...you must have high opinions about yourselves. This is not being rude, it's just being real. Second of all, it is still my business because he is taking an older lady on a ride now for his green card needs seeing that he was not successful in obtaining green card through me. I have reported fraud, and it is my business if my ex tries to commit yet another fraud. That' being proactive and a good citizen imo. If I can expose fraud, then why not. Also, I am spending time in posting a question for which I need an advice pertaining to the specifics of the situation and certainly not wasting my time just to hear from few that I should move on. Leave that up to me please.Thanks.

I'm sure everyone on the forum and off, would find it rude. Judging someone and their relationship is wrong in the first place, but wrong and rude to say its fake only because she is chubby. Besides, a lot of men find larger women sexier than skinny women. It's just a preference.

With that said, it does sound like a sham. I think there will be no problem disapproving the relationship. I just feel so sorry for the woman, who probably thought it is her lucky day!

And with that said, please move on. He's your ex and its really dragging your spirit down to hold onto him. He's fake anyway, obviously. Good looks aren't everything, even David Beckham would agree.

[cdneh 3,112]

Are you going to let this person define the entire rest of your life, or are you mature enough to put it behind you, where it already long ought to be and MOVE ON?

What the investigation found out, what he did or didn't, do are things all in the past. The past. As in behind you. Following your ex around the rest of your days seems to be a poor career choice. It isn't up to you to keep him from taking his new wife "for a ride". And sure as the sky is above you isn't your job to punish him either.

The USCIS will do as they please with him Not your business either.

The direction people are meant to be looking in is ahead. As in what are your plans for the rest of your time on the planet.

[verysadguy 170]

Way to go foifoi. We are Americans and we should be whistle blowers. And we should put the finger on criminals. Fraud is a crime. Romance fraud is especially hurtful. Foifoi is doing the right thing. She will find happiness just as I have, but as Americans it is our duty to act against these "terrorists." The Russian piece of ####### needs to be denied every benefit of being in the USA. Send his cheating, lying, con artist butt back to Russia. Let him find his large dream girl there. Allowing him to hurt another USC is not justice and it is weak politics and a perversion of justice.

You keep fighting foifoi. In the meantime find your inner peace but don't back away from justice.

Y'all should read changevawanow.wordpress.com

Thousands of Americans are being used by foreign "terrorists" stepping on innocent hearts just to get to US soil and the many free benefits of being a LPR. This Russian is just another user. Time for America to toughen the hell up. Karma is a joke. Removal proceedings are real and that is the karma that needs to happen.

Foifoi, two things.

1. Post on here how you contacted USCIS, reported the fraud to FDNS, and then followed up on it. Many will benefit from that learning.
2. How did you meet this person and would a background check or private investigator in advance of marrying him helped?

Edited January 5, 2014 by verysadguy

[Ingrid28 69]

In life there is always two sides to a story.

[verysadguy 170]

Usually one side is far closer to the truth and the other side is a serious behavioral health issue.

[cdneh 3,112]

There are actually 3 sides. Her side, his side, and somewhere in the middle the truth is to be found.

[verysadguy 170]

There are actually 3 sides. Her side, his side, and somewhere in the middle the truth is to be found.

No, the truth speaks for itself via evidence. There are just 2 sides in these situations. foifoi needs to defend innocent Americans while finding her own inner peace.

[Darnell 8,478]

To the repliers: I want to specify again that it is not just me who accuses him of fraud. I provided extensive info to the USCIS including his concealed previous marriage back in Russia that he did not even mention about in hi papers and to me, so it is the USCIS who (with my help) confirmed that marriage fraud was committed. At this point it isn't just me anymore. I am trying to understand how this will play against him when he re-applies all over again from scratch with his new wife. Also, I mentioned that for his I-751, he has no joint evidences with me, so even if he files the waiver, he has nothing to submit it with. Whose going to approve him just by the I-751 application by itself and the max he could provide are affidavits, so that I-751 route through our marriage is blocked for him, not to mention that I accused him of fraud. I think the only way for him is to get approved through his new wife, but then there's the fraud situation, so this is what I am trying to understand how that will play out and at which point he might get denied. I've been in touch with the FDNS officer for a while now and gradually had sent him evidences. I know it is unusual that they get directly involved, but it is the case in this situation (luckily!). Getting married 2 weeks prior to the expiration of his green card with me and to an older woman must have raise issues for him, wouldn't it?!

I do wish visitors to your topic would actually read. This path of 'leave it to God' tells me many are not reading .

Your ex has a slim chance of filing the I-751 in time - if he does file it with the divorce waiver, then any subsequent marriage won't be useful (you probably knew this already). The FDNS officer put stuff into his A-File, so most likely his ROC case will be denied.

otoh, if he doesn't file in time, he's out of status. IMO, a new marriage with a new AOS filed (I-130 + I-485) won't 'help' him either, as the A-file will be reviewed as well (and the FDNS officer's stuff is in the A-File). It won't matter how long he's out of status after this new marriage, as the FDNS officer's stuff is in the A-File. The 'overstay' between his expiration of his green card and receiving a new green card is usually forgiven, when married to a USCitizen, however....

It's exceptionally difficult for me to think that he'll get approved for anything, as any review includes reading on and acting on the FDNS officer's stuff in the A-File.

[verysadguy 170]

I do wish visitors to your topic would actually read. This path of 'leave it to God' tells me many are not reading .

Your ex has a slim chance of filing the I-751 in time - if he does file it with the divorce waiver, then any subsequent marriage won't be useful (you probably knew this already). The FDNS officer put stuff into his A-File, so most likely his ROC case will be denied.

otoh, if he doesn't file in time, he's out of status. IMO, a new marriage with a new AOS filed (I-130 + I-485) won't 'help' him either, as the A-file will be reviewed as well (and the FDNS officer's stuff is in the A-File). It won't matter how long he's out of status after this new marriage, as the FDNS officer's stuff is in the A-File. The 'overstay' between his expiration of his green card and receiving a new green card is usually forgiven, when married to a USCitizen, however....

It's exceptionally difficult for me to think that he'll get approved for anything, as any review includes reading on and acting on the FDNS officer's stuff in the A-File.

Ya now Darnell, I believe you as you are astute and wise about this fraud thingies and USCIS. Sadly however I have had ZERO, and I mean ZEEEEROOOO success contacting anyone in FDNS regarding the massive amount of hard evidence I sent in. I don't even know if there is a case #. It is maddening. Any hints?

I think USCs have a right to point the finger and put the thumb on fraudsters. Immigration or not.

[Darnell 8,478]

go in person for the followup. That's the only usable hint I can give you.

[foifoi 11]

I do wish visitors to your topic would actually read. This path of 'leave it to God' tells me many are not reading .

Your ex has a slim chance of filing the I-751 in time - if he does file it with the divorce waiver, then any subsequent marriage won't be useful (you probably knew this already). The FDNS officer put stuff into his A-File, so most likely his ROC case will be denied.

otoh, if he doesn't file in time, he's out of status. IMO, a new marriage with a new AOS filed (I-130 + I-485) won't 'help' him either, as the A-file will be reviewed as well (and the FDNS officer's stuff is in the A-File). It won't matter how long he's out of status after this new marriage, as the FDNS officer's stuff is in the A-File. The 'overstay' between his expiration of his green card and receiving a new green card is usually forgiven, when married to a USCitizen, however....

It's exceptionally difficult for me to think that he'll get approved for anything, as any review includes reading on and acting on the FDNS officer's stuff in the A-File.

Ok, I've got an update today. That 2nd marriage is already known to the FDNS and after writing to the officer yesterday, he told me today 1) please continue sending us info which you might think will be helpful; 2) our office and the office where he lived at prior to moving to the 2nd wife's city within the state are taking this case VERY seriously. The officer wrote the word very in capital letters. Further good sign that they are on him huh?

Forget about the I-751....my ex has no evidence of any docs and that's why eh took the 2nd marriage route to an older lady otherwise he would not have married her for sure taking into consideration the looks of my ex, so this marriage was for convenience for him so he will file for a brand new g.c. without touching our's that's been expired now I just don't get if he's out of status now or not because we did marry 2 weeks before our own expiration you know..not sure how that works for the uscis. So glad to hear from FDNS that they are continuing to take this VERY serious. )) By the way, I also provided info to the FDNS that my ex claims a fake NGO on Facebook t collect money So that's another proof. My ex was married in Russia, but "forgot' to mention that on his application and when concealing something on application is a big issue with the USCIS. He was divorced but still...I learned of this 6 months into the marriage. I showed the USCIS how he did not mention his 1st marriage on our marriage certificate where it asks for info on previous marriages.

[verysadguy 170]

Ok, I've got an update today. That 2nd marriage is already known to the FDNS and after writing to the officer yesterday, he told me today 1) please continue sending us info which you might think will be helpful; 2) our office and the office where he lived at prior to moving to the 2nd wife's city within the state are taking this case VERY seriously. The officer wrote the word very in capital letters. Further good sign that they are on him huh?

Forget about the I-751....my ex has no evidence of any docs and that's why eh took the 2nd marriage route to an older lady otherwise he would not have married her for sure taking into consideration the looks of my ex, so this marriage was for convenience for him so he will file for a brand new g.c. without touching our's that's been expired now I just don't get if he's out of status now or not because we did marry 2 weeks before our own expiration you know..not sure how that works for the uscis. So glad to hear from FDNS that they are continuing to take this VERY serious. )) By the way, I also provided info to the FDNS that my ex claims a fake NGO on Facebook t collect money So that's another proof. My ex was married in Russia, but "forgot' to mention that on his application and when concealing something on application is a big issue with the USCIS. He was divorced but still...I learned of this 6 months into the marriage. I showed the USCIS how he did not mention his 1st marriage on our marriage certificate where it asks for info on previous marriages.

foifoi, I sent you a private message, please respond

Darnell, I went back in person, they told me the FDNS officer would not speak to me. I've emailed the special agent numerous times and got nothing in return. How is it foifoi is being contacted but I'm told that FDNS officers NEVER call back after a case is filed.

[sanyata 16]

foifoi ~ pursuing this as aggressively as you are, should there be any concern for your personal safety?

[foifoi 11]

foifoi ~ pursuing this as aggressively as you are, should there be any concern for your personal safety?

You feel that my ex might get back at me eventually? He did threaten me a year ago saying that if i report him..or I should say if I mess up his docs, I should know that he will have nothing to lose the last minute before he leaves and I'll pay for it