PLEASE HELP ME :(

[Emily and Nathan 39]

How long ago was u and your ex's thing? are we taking like a year or 2 ago? I believe that the 1st one is good for only a few months anyways. As far as I am aware the K 1 visa expires and then I don't see any legalities.

well we filed our 129f march 2012. So almost two years..

And then we did nothing else with it..

We never got a receipt number or anything

[JnRMo 16]

I would try to get in touch with the base's JAG/Legal services unit - possibly his commanding officer if you can figure that out. Hopefully someone there will be able to lean on him to get him to do the right thing.

[ama537621 3]

I agree with JnRMo,

get the his commanding officer involved thru the proper military channel. Hopefully they can help him to do the correct thing.

[Jawaree 719]

OP can U text or email him begging him to be honest and

cancel because due to his cheating & unwillingness to

get treatment was what brought about the break-up...get

him to say NO where U can have some proof...it may work

and tale print out to interview

[raven52 234]

Documentation is everything here to you, and it sounds like you are doing the right things, but "hear-say" will probably not get you by, but your very good idea of copying his "posts" is a vital piece of information when interview time comes.,.,but you are doing the right things..,., but I know nothing of the Canadian Embassy, but I sure could tell you about the one in the Philippines..,.,., both good and bad...,.,.,,.hahhahahah

GOOD LUCK! (DOCUMENTATION IS THE KEY)

[Emily and Nathan 39]

I would try to get in touch with the base's JAG/Legal services unit - possibly his commanding officer if you can figure that out. Hopefully someone there will be able to lean on him to get him to do the right thing.

working on that- trying to figure out his chain of comms difficult because he doesn't have much info on his page regarding his position etc.

And the info I have found for the military.. I'm not sure where to go from there.

I agree with JnRMo,

get the his commanding officer involved thru the proper military channel. Hopefully they can help him to do the correct thing.

I can't text him because he is in Afghanistan..

But I did have a facebook conversation with him begging him to do what I asked..

That's what I'm going to print off and bring to the interview.

I'm going to look up old emails etc so I have as much proof as possible

OP can U text or email him begging him to be honest and

cancel because due to his cheating & unwillingness to

get treatment was what brought about the break-up...get

him to say NO where U can have some proof...it may work

and tale print out to interview

Thanks a lot.

I really am going to bring as much stuff as I can proving that we are no longer in a relationship etc.

Documentation is everything here to you, and it sounds like you are doing the right things, but "hear-say" will probably not get you by, but your very good idea of copying his "posts" is a vital piece of information when interview time comes.,.,but you are doing the right things..,., but I know nothing of the Canadian Embassy, but I sure could tell you about the one in the Philippines..,.,., both good and bad...,.,.,,.hahhahahah

GOOD LUCK! (DOCUMENTATION IS THE KEY)

[christeen 966]

Well good thing it is not up to you glitters am! It is a USCIS decision... And calling someone a liar is a violation of TOS for the site... It will be reported as abuse... To the OP... Yo have gotten some good advice, PTSD is a serious issue and it is upsetting to hear they have him back deployed despite his condition. I wish you the best

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[Emily and Nathan 39]

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[Nawlinshoney 7]

well we filed our 129f march 2012. So almost two years..

And then we did nothing else with it..

We never got a receipt number or anything

I would believe 2 years ago that visa would be expired by now. Even if it got approved its only good for like 3 or 4 months. So that's long behind you in my opinion. If it was an issue I don't think NVC would have sent you a "GO" on this K1 visa.

[Emily and Nathan 39]

Hey- Thanks for the positive thinking.

I hope it is ok too.

I just know people have had difficulty when they have another pending application in the system still.

Even someone who had a pending application from 8 years ago had it come up in the interview.

Sigh- hoping I have some good karma coming my way.

I would believe 2 years ago that visa would be expired by now. Even if it got approved its only good for like 3 or 4 months. So that's long behind you in my opinion. If it was an issue I don't think NVC would have sent you a "GO" on this K1 visa.

[Emily and Nathan 39]

Anyone know if of the 129F form - when it asks what consulate you will be going through..

We put Ottawa.. since that is closest to me.. but come to find out Ottawa doesn't do K1s... only Montreal does.. is that RFE worthy.. or will they just switch it?

[kitthekat 1,317]

They will just switch it, no worries.

[Emily and Nathan 39]

sigh thank god

They will just switch it, no worries.

[Emily and Nathan 39]

A little follow up- Even though I doubt anyone is still reading this.

BUT - I emailed the Montreal Consulate.. a few months ago.. Telling them the situation and asking if they had anything about me in their system.

I got a response a week ago- saying there was nothing under my first and last name.. but to send my FULL name and DOB.. as well as the case number ( which I don't have).. I replied with that info.. and got a response a few days ago saying.. they have absolutely nothing under any of the info.

I'm taking this as a positive... but I'm going to still print off these emails to bring to my actual interview.. as well as the messages between my ex and I where I attempted to get him to cancel the app.

fingers crossed***