Partner might be cheating... what to do?

[Udella&Wiz 325]

We weren't actively spying on each other so much as we had a jolt of morbid curiosity and found nothing. We had a good laugh about it. We both did it just on a whim and didn't look very long and then felt really stupid afterwards, lol. And we do trust each other... we've been through a lot of ####### together and came out stronger for it. And we've had previous relationships where people betrayed us, so I understand how potent our fears can be sometimes. But it's not a component of our relationship. Our relationship is plenty "good" with plenty communication and trust. And I highly doubt it's a cover up because his profile is almost completely empty but more importantly, he's never cheated on anyone, including me, and I just don't see him doing it.

We don't have rings and didn't have a wedding- it's not our style

Sometimes a good jolt makes you realize what's important

[warlord 73]

And we do trust each other... we've been through a lot of ####### together and came out stronger for it. And we've had previous relationships where people betrayed us, so I understand how potent our fears can be sometimes.

Yeah that past baggage would do it. I can see how that would come about then when I think of it in those terms. The good news is you both found out and both realized it was just due to your own insecurities and that was all. And now you won't have to worry about what to do