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Hi guys, I m new to this site, I see how helping you guys have been, May God bless and reward you guys. I, myself in need of some guidance. Married my USC spouse 6 mnths back. Knew each other for two yrs before. I was holding a visit visa. My spouse was going to do a Consular processing. But then he suggested me to come and have a vacation on visit visa and then I was supposeto go back. But unfortunately, it dididn't happen, he emotinally got me to stay here. He used to say its ok even if u get illegal, no one will get you deported. I disliked this idea and eventually he applied from onshore not lettin me go back to my place. Meanwhile, he used to abuse me a lot, make me wrk, not let me go out anywhere, I used to do everythng out of love for him. But later realized, he taking me for granted. Eventually I got pregnant, once I got pregnant I thot he would change himself for good. But no, he came up with another issue, telling me to file for a free gov. Insurance and that too as a single mom, not showing marital status to him. I didliked the idea of his. He used to go like don't you trust me and get mad at me. Eventually he started blackmailing me that if I dun't do what he's asking me to do, he will send me back n get married to someone else, I said ok. But for that also he got mad at me and went worse with his abuse, spitting on my face continuously, covering my head and punching me in the face. Scaring the hell out of me. Later he would come and say sorry and again repeat the same thing again. I got so scared to death, my heartbeat used to race looking at his behaviour, I thot some day if he kills me no one would kno, so I started voice recording, where he used to tranform into a monstor. One day he went crazy and wouldn't stop, being pregnant I couldn't take it anymre n called the cops on him and since the cops saw no scars on my face they left him, and I managed to fled from there for my safety. Next day I went to the cops again & this time made them hear the recordings, they heard them and got him arrested, I applied for an order of ptotection and got it. A hearing is scheduled for it within a week or so. I do have an EAD but, now its all a mess, interview was siupose to b nxt mnth. But with all this nuisance goin on, I dunno wat I m suppose to do soon. EAD will b gone. I have no family here, all alone and ptegnant. Please suggest me what should I do in this situation. Or from here

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jamaica
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Apply for vawa. Get sn attorney and file asap and take tge notice to your interview andvask tgem notbto deny your i485 but to connect it to your i360. Good luck

08/2012 Discussed my immigration issues with a lawyer

08/2012 Started gathering evidence

11/2012 Paid my deposit (forgot to sign documents)

01/2013 Signed documents

02/19/2013 Vsc received my application

02/22/2013 NOA mailed out

My lawyer has a prima facie never collected it Caz I don't need any benefit at this time.

03/05/2013 EAD mailed out (actual ead date, it will expire 03/04/2014)

03/08/2013 Lawyer received biometrics for 3/17/2013 (day after my edd, [expected due date] did early walking 3/12/13)

03/29/2013 Card in hand (lawyer received it abt a week earlier but I delivered so was unable to collect it)

Waiting for my i360 approval but I'm in no rush (good things come to those who wait)

8/14/13 i360 approved. :)

10/8/2013 aos interview. .. approved :)

10/9/2013 status adjust to lpr and welcome package mailed out.

8/15/2013 I484 transfered to local office. :)

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