any red flag? ? ?

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Sorry, it seems I offended you (again) in trying to cover all bases regarding the posters question. I'm not sure why you show such bitterness in my comments or why you take such offense to them. I find it VERY hard to believe you haven't met a Nigerian family with more than 6 children in over 30 years. MYY goodness. I used to think you were pretty informative and experienced considering the hoops you had to jump through to bring your spouse to the States, but now I question your accuracy in what you say. 30 years really? hmmm....

You've never offended me. I don't take internet that seriously.

PS: Debbie also hasn't met a Nigeria family of 12 here in the US too and she lives in Houston.

Edited November 16, 2013 by Gowon

[yecatsoya 2]

You've never offended me. I don't take internet that seriously.

PS: Debbie also hasn't met a Nigeria family of 12 here in the US too and she lives in Houston.

Yes, Houston has a big Nigerian community, much larger than Boston. And I can't imagine anyone saying they don't know a single Nigerian family with 6 children or more. In fact, I was just having a conversation with a friend back home, Chiomy, who was talking about how his mum had 5 girls before he and his two brothers were born and that is the reason he can't cook. Aside from my Nigerian friends back in Boston with large families....I've lived with my Nigerian spouse here in Ghana for years. HUGE Nigerian community here.........HUGE. I wasn't just pulling random facts out of the air to throw a wrench in things, I'm speaking from my own personal observation and was just innocently covering all angles with the poster.

You're on this forum a lot, and tend to get things ruffled quite often, so I thought you did take it seriously. This pettiness is embarrassing and wayyy off subject. My apologies to the poster for the ridiculousness. Good luck Obi on your journey.

[Obichizi 6]

Sorry, it seems I offended you (again) in trying to cover all bases regarding the posters question. I'm not sure why you show such bitterness in my comments or why you take such offense to them. I find it VERY hard to believe you haven't met a Nigerian family with more than 6 children in over 30 years. MYY goodness. I used to think you were pretty informative and experienced considering the hoops you had to jump through to bring your spouse to the States, but now I question your accuracy in what you say. 30 years really? hmmm....

[Obichizi 6]

Thanks a lot guys!! And yes! He filled the i-134 stating that the said amount will be made available to us every month.And that he has four kids 14-5Years of which he suPports patially. Also he stated that he has deposits of 170K. This is ok right?

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Thanks a lot guys!! And yes! He filled the i-134 stating that the said amount will be made available to us every month.And that he has four kids 14-5Years of which he suPports patially. Also he stated that he has deposits of 170K. This is ok right?

Looks good but still not sure about the 2k per month. Seems unnecessary.

Good luck on the process.

Edited November 16, 2013 by Gowon