packet at embassy, but there is another problem

[Mari26 19]

Heyy look,tell your fraud girl to stop wasting her time because truly she dosent love you if she think waiting is too long...

0_o!

I love my boy with all my being, we just started this process and I am agonizing over HOW long it'll take.

I DO think it's TOO long... T_T

A week it's too long...

A minute it's too long...

I just want to be with him.... Forever! Now! HOW is that not loving someone? 0_o

I mean, I don't know about this girl or guy ... but I am going MAD (and I JUST started, go picture me in 5 months xD!!!!)

Anyway ... idk x_X

-Mari-

[Aztec&Taino 144]

Was she completely for sure when she said this or was it just a moment of frustration and hopelessness? Along the process it is easy to give up hope for the long wait, so I am more hopeful than others in that maybe it was just a bad day, PMS, or plain momentary frustration.

If it is for sure, I am very sorry and hope you can recover from the heartache soon...

[lc2627 0]

I am so sorry you are going through this.....long distance relationships are verrrrryyyy defficult and it is more so to be apart from the one you love.....but if that person truly truly truly loves you would wait for you not 3, 4, 8, 10, but 1000 months if necesary, whatever it takes to be together...I've been with my husband for 7 years total, apart seven years.....he was down in DR and I was here in NJ we had to wait years to be together and there was never even the though of him breaking up because it was just taking tooo long.....my thoughts to you is take care of you...know you learn from all relationships and this one to me does not seem worth a second thought.....when you are in a long distance relationship you are not waiting for a visa, you are waiting for the one you love.........God Bless!

[Joe and Ann 6]

I am hoping and praying that the waiting time has not completely destroyed what you have together. Ann and I not only had to deal with the K-1/K-2 visa process, but had to go through the less than transparent Philippine court system to obtain an annulment for Ann before the visa process could even begin. Two years later, we knew it had all been worth it when she, her son, and I stepped off the plane together at Dulles International Airport. The waiting was hard and there were at times upsets and disappointments and trials, but we soldiered through. We have now been happily married for two and a half years, we are active in our local Eastern Orthodox Church, our son is doing well in school and flourishing, and we are expecting a new addition to the family in February 2014. I just want you and your fiancee to know that true love and patience will be rewarded if you keep your mind and heart set on why you started on the journey in the first place. May God bless you both, wherever life takes you.

Joe

P.S. Married life is also no endless garden of delights ... it takes a great deal of commitment, hard work, and understanding as well.