packet at embassy, but there is another problem

[ricpope 13]

packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

[Pitaya 2,577]

~Moved from K-1 Process to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

[Jawaree 718]

Better now than later...Dude recognize

when there may be someone else in the

picture, people don't walk away that

easy it was a game, it ended ..move on

sorry it went bad.

[Darnell 8,478]

Any advice over at

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/457943-dont-want-to-wait-another-4-or-5-months/

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/457943-dont-want-to-wait-another-4-or-5-months/

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/457943-dont-want-to-wait-another-4-or-5-months/

??

[Jon and Krissy 452]

packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

Sorry, but it sounds like she's just not that into you. I met my wife in early 2007. We weren't permanently together until early 2011.

[Nette_Valdi 4]

Wow, Im so Sorry u have to go through this. But be great full she broke it off now rather than going through the entire process and then she decides she aint with it. Honestly long distance relationships are really hard and if she really loved you she would stick by you no matter how long it took. Stay strong God bless

Edited November 6, 2013 by Nette_Valdi

[TBoneTX 45,661]

Somewhat the same happened to me, albeit earlier in the process. If you want to save the relationship and believe that it's worth saving, beat it down there now, sparing no expense, to spend time with her. Rebuild things. In fact, reserve the air tickets (before purchasing them), call her, and tell her that you're on your way and here are the dates.

You said it yourself: It's very hard to be separated from the one you love. She might be feeling the same thing, which has led to her pullback.

[MRS.MONTILLA 4]

Im not a relationship therapist but if she isn't worried about it and its so easy for her to give up then let it be. No need to waste more of u r money on the relationship by going down there. U did ur part just sad she couldn't do hers. Sorry aboyt the outcome.

[ANJOS 27]

does she know that the interview can be within 3 to 4 months??? I mean it will fly by. I know it's hard a heck because we are all on the same boat and know how difficult this is. I've personally had bumps due to the distance and always smooth things out. If you honestly think she is in love with you and you're in love too, try to work it out. Don't allow anything to break the relationship!

[jalvarez320 8]

packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

how long have you been waiting??? if she cannot wait some months then where is the love. I have not seen my fiance in a year and 3 months and we have a child that is 10 months and he has not seen. So if the love is strong then you pull thru it. if not then it's not worth it... think about it....

[janet&adonis 57]

Now that the case is at the consulate, she is just scared. There are a lot of unknowns. Definitely have a heart to heart. This process is not easy. You still have a long road ahead of you

[Girl from Celebes 588]

Since you both are sharing this account, have you seen your fiance previous post before? Darnell showed you the link and there were a lot advises that you could take for your sake. I don't understand how people are now easily gave up for such small things like this.

I met my fiance back in 2008, met in person 2011, and imagine some other people on VJ have had endured long distance courtship much longer than what I'm having now. It is up to you for making decision and wish all the best for your future life.

[jalvarez320 8]

Any advice over at

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/457943-dont-want-to-wait-another-4-or-5-months/

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/457943-dont-want-to-wait-another-4-or-5-months/

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/457943-dont-want-to-wait-another-4-or-5-months/

??

now I remember these post are from the same person...

[Girl from Celebes 588]

now I remember these post are from the same person...

Or is there any chance both of them are sharing this account? Previous post seems "a girl" and this post apparently is "a guy" or petitioner unless they are trying to "play game" on VJ.

[aamirpearl 47]

packet received today, but she says it is taking to long and wants to end the relationship. i dont know what to do? well it has been a fun ride. i wish every one else much success. keep strong, it is very hard to be separated from the one you love.

Heyy look,tell your fraud girl to stop wasting her time because truly she dosent love you if she think waiting is too long...