13 Year Old Boy Killed Carrying A Pellet Gun

[Janelle2002 3,865]

It seems like something you should never have to ask someone right?

And for many black people you do not. Danno is worried about the people who are not the norm of the black race.

So I am asking him how will he fix the problems of the "not normal" black Americans.

[Danno 1,228]

Not necessarily disagreeing with what you wrote. But....

In your discussion about doing the wrong thing, you use the example of unwed mothers. I think we need to also focus on the men. I think just as much emphasis needs to be put on men being faithful spouses and good fathers. The decline of the family is the fault of both men and women.

Also, while statistically these problems may be more prevalent in the black community, I wonder if there is a more direct correlation to socioeconomic status rather than race.

1. Men who don't pay child support are pursued vigarously by the court. They can lose professional license and have wages garnished.

But practically speaking, women are the gate-keepers to having kids. If I get my female cat fixed, no other cat in my hood can get her knocked up.

If I depend on all the males cats to be snipped to prevent kittens I am stupid.

Sure we should socially and legally hold men accountable, that makes a good community but to limit the fatherless children we must accept the women holds the key as there will always be a male in-waiting. Men and women are equal though not the same.

[We Keep Receipts 9,238]

You are obsessed with me having Black friends, I only invited one Black person to my wedding (it was fairly small anyway).

News flash Marvin, once people establish their lives they rarely have close friends who are of other races.

There are exceptions, people in the military, people who marry across racial lines. etc.

Even dating is still fairly exclusive and with even less mixed relationships producing marriages.

Bankers don't tend to rub shoulders with Plumbers, Lawyers only hang out with e-cons when they are on the job.

People who are young don't hang-out with older people.

People who snort drugs do not hang out with straight laced people.

People typically are drawn to people like themselves with ROMANCE often being the one exception (Love breaks all the rules

This even extends to intelligence, your friends are most likely of similar intelligence as you are.

The fact that Blacks enjoy black-bars should not mean they are racist or a white guy who joins a nearly all white environmental org.

Some times races and incomes and ages and all of that cross, often times it does not.

LIFE IS FULL OF GENERALITIES Exceptions don't change that.

That my best friend is not black means nothing. Except I am average.

That your mom probably doen't have a White BFF is quite normal.

Well,

Here's my point. You are obsessed with anything black. You bring it up in every thread. If it's a Hmong killing, solar panels, mass shootings with no black people in sight, a picnic, doesn't matter. You are hell bent to bring the plight of black people to this forum, to shine a light on a problem every single person here is fully aware of, myself and Janelle more than others, yet, you don't even break bread with the folks you swear you're trying to help.

And BTW, my mother does have a white BFF, she's the one I got my washer and dryer from in our house. Fact check before you make yourself look even more silly.

Edited October 25, 2013 by Su and Marvin

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Well,

Here's my point. You are obsessed with anything black. You bring it up in every thread. If it's a Hmong killing, solar panels, mass shootings with no black people in sight, a picnic, doesn't matter. You are hell bent to bring the plight of black people to this forum, to shine a light on a problem every single person here is fully aware of, myself and Janelle more than others, yet, you don't even break bread with the folks you swear you're trying to help.

And BTW, my mother does have a white BFF, she's the one I got my washer and dryer from in our house. Fact check before you make yourself even more silly.

solar panels!!!!! hahahahahahahahaha

Not only did you make me spit my apple sauce out on my computer, I laughed out loud. Everyone is going to think I'm crazy now in my office laughing at myself.

Edited October 25, 2013 by Janelle2002

[We Keep Receipts 9,238]

solar panels!!!!! hahahahahahahahaha

Not only did you make me spit my apple sauce out on my computer, I laughed out loud. Everyone is going to think I'm crazy now in my office laughing at myself.

Do you know what the sad part is? The picnic one is the ONLY made up thing on that list. There is a thread on here that someone posted about solar panels, and somehow it got turned into how little money black people make. Guess who brought it up?

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Do you know what the sad part is? The picnic one is the ONLY made up thing on that list. There is a thread on here that someone posted about solar panels, and somehow it got turned into how little money black people make. Guess who brought it up?

I 100% believe you man! 100%

[We Keep Receipts 9,238]

I 100% believe you man! 100%

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/420697-top-solar-panel-maker-goes-bankrupt/

Didn't even make it to the next page.

[decocker 7,198]

1. Men who don't pay child support are pursued vigarously by the court. They can lose professional license and have wages garnished.

But practically speaking, women are the gate-keepers to having kids. If I get my female cat fixed, no other cat in my hood can get her knocked up.

If I depend on all the males cats to be snipped to prevent kittens I am stupid.

Sure we should socially and legally hold men accountable, that makes a good community but to limit the fatherless children we must accept the women holds the key as there will always be a male in-waiting. Men and women are equal though not the same.

1. no they are not pursued vigorously by the court.. especially if they leave the state the order was filed in. as far as garnishing wages, simple as switching jobs every couple months. deadbeats don't care about appearing reliable.

2. practically speaking, it takes two to make a baby. contraception and consequences are responsibilities of everyone involved. men are not helpless to their sexual desires and they are most certainly capable of their own fertility.

why do you hate men so much danno?

[Danno 1,228]

And for many black people you do not. Danno is worried about the people who are not the norm of the black race.

So I am asking him how will he fix the problems of the "not normal" black Americans.

I don't think I used that term (Not normal) as the dysfunction is quite NORMAL in certain (sizable) parts of the Black communities.

One thing I don't do is PRETEND.... and thats why I am controversial. When we pretend, things only get worse.

When 1 out of 4 young Black men is involved in the criminal justice system..... how can that be over looked or minimized?

[decocker 7,198]

When 1 out of 4 young Black men is involved in the criminal justice system..... how can that be over looked or minimized?

when they are arrested at a much higher rate than whites for a comparable offense, it's easy to overlook. of course they are stuck in the cjs, they're getting time and whites aren't.

Edited October 25, 2013 by val erie

[Janelle2002 3,865]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/420697-top-solar-panel-maker-goes-bankrupt/

Didn't even make it to the next page.

hahahahahahahahahahaha here it is, first page!!!

How much Money does the average Black family have in "The market"?

JUst because you and your buds are seeing market gains, don't forget, lots of people lost jobs houses and years due to this economy and I don't blame it all on Obama but he only made it worse.

Even his advisors have lost faith in him.

Now we are like the patient with an infection, though we hired a doctor to help us, our infection will have to run it's course.

[Danno 1,228]

Do you know what the sad part is? The picnic one is the ONLY made up thing on that list. There is a thread on here that someone posted about solar panels, and somehow it got turned into how little money black people make. Guess who brought it up?

I think if you look, I often reply to a misrepresentation of a fact of the issue and from there it takes off.

Perhaps I will try to let some mistruths slip past to avoid taking it farther off topic.

[decocker 7,198]

lol.

[We Keep Receipts 9,238]

hahahahahahahahahahaha here it is, first page!!!

How much Money does the average Black family have in "The market"?

JUst because you and your buds are seeing market gains, don't forget, lots of people lost jobs houses and years due to this economy and I don't blame it all on Obama but he only made it worse.

Even his advisors have lost faith in him.

Now we are like the patient with an infection, though we hired a doctor to help us, our infection will have to run it's course.

Now you see where my problem lies. Danno says he wants to talk about race. This isn't true. He wants to place the blame on blacks, that's all his ears want to hear.

[Danno 1,228]

1. no they are not pursued vigorously by the court.. especially if they leave the state the order was filed in. as far as garnishing wages, simple as switching jobs every couple months. deadbeats don't care about appearing reliable.

2. practically speaking, it takes two to make a baby. contraception and consequences are responsibilities of everyone involved. men are not helpless to their sexual desires and they are most certainly capable of their own fertility.

why do you hate men so much danno?

Again your thinking and logic has taken us to the place we are at.

I was asked how to correct it and I began to answer.

PS: YOUR WRONG ON CHILD SUPPPORT TOO.

Anyone who leaves the state to avoid child support has now made his case a federal case.

I would post the law but you of course are not interested in those pesky details.