I-751 waiver and ex wife threatening me

[MrMadCat 18]

I just thought I would update.

"On June 27, 2014, we ordered production of your new card. Please allow 30 days for your card to be mailed to you. If we need something from you we will contact you."

I filed for my I751 waiver in early April, went to biometrics May 2nd. Waited, and got this.

The evidence I had was:

List of contents

· Cover Letter

· Personal Statement

· I-485 Green Card Welcome Letter (with barcode).

· Check made payable to U.S. Department of Homeland Security for $590.

· Form I-751 signed and dated.

· Paper showing additional address.

· Copy of green card. Front and back.

· Copy of British passport biometric page.

· Copy of my birth certificate.

· Copy of marriage certificate.

· Copy of divorce decree.

· Copy of ex-wife drivers license showing name change.

Financial Co-mingling

· 2012 Joint Tax Return Transcript.

· Health insurance card listing myself as a dependent.

· Life insurance policy form filled by wife.

· Credit card in both names where she listed me as an authorized user.

· Joint checking account statements spanning over many months of our marriage.

Additional Information

· 1 affidavit from my mother in law.

· 2 affidavits from mutual friends.

· Photos spanning our marriage together.

· Additional documents.

So no interview, even though we separated at 7 months into the marriage, even though our financial mingling was limited, even though I was in the UK for 4+ months right after getting my conditional green card. All I had was a 2012 tax return, a joint bank account and some other little pieces of info. No cars together, nothing like that. I think her mothers affidavit might have helped a lot, because it did state that her own daughter basically likes to use men, and some not so nice words about how her daughter treated me bad. When a mom talks bad about her own daughter, it doesn't look good (on her kid).

The craziest bit of news I got was finding out from her own mother a few days ago that my ex wife is pregnant with the man she cheated on me with (the man she married like a week after our divorce). That floored me a bit, but I don't feel sorry for him because he knew about me, but decided to pursue something with her anyway. No mater what sob stories she gave him about how much of a monster I am, he still made a decision to get involved in my marriage, based on her lies. None of my business about their life now though, I know, but her mother and I know that she really dislikes kids and has said some really disturbing things, like "If I ever have kids and they disobey me I am going to beat them black and blue". Sad thing is she was serious. Oh well. Anyway, time to move on with my life. I just wish the guy realized that if she cheated on her husband (me) with him, she's going to do the same thing to him, and with a child mixed up in the mess, there is only going to be one victim here.

So what next? I guess citizenship. I'm not sure if the years I have been a conditional resident apply to the 5 or so years, or not. Guess I will do some research into it when I get time. All I know is I must file my taxes every year so far.

I posted this mainly to give hope to everyone out there going through the same thing. Maybe you don't have that much evidence, like me. I avoided the interview entirely and I am so thankful for that, I also got no RFE. If you get all your evidence together properly, it should be ok. My case I believe was quite suspicious due tot he ways the marriage broke down, and if I can do it I know people with stronger evidence can do it.

Good luck everyone!

[Birdo 16]

Don't even worry about citizenship.. Enjoy the relief you must feel now, get your life going and do the citizenship thing when you feel like you can really enjoy that process.

[MrMadCat 18]

Don't even worry about citizenship.. Enjoy the relief you must feel now, get your life going and do the citizenship thing when you feel like you can really enjoy that process.

You're right, I have plenty of time to prepare. Right now I'm just going to be happy that I'm not longer in constant fear of what might happen.

I still can't believe that I went through without an interview, but I guess whoever was reviewing the case saw that I was genuine and wasn't trying to game the system. Wish I could write a thankyou letter to whomever reviewed it and gave it the thumbs up, but alas that person will be my unknown hero for practically my entire life.

[user19000 18]

The craziest bit of news I got was finding out from her own mother a few days ago that my ex wife is pregnant with the man she cheated on me with (the man she married like a week after our divorce). That floored me a bit, but I don't feel sorry for him because he knew about me, but decided to pursue something with her anyway. No mater what sob stories she gave him about how much of a monster I am, he still made a decision to get involved in my marriage, based on her lies. None of my business about their life now though, I know, but her mother and I know that she really dislikes kids and has said some really disturbing things, like "If I ever have kids and they disobey me I am going to beat them black and blue". Sad thing is she was serious. Oh well. Anyway, time to move on with my life. I just wish the guy realized that if she cheated on her husband (me) with him, she's going to do the same thing to him, and with a child mixed up in the mess, there is only going to be one victim here.

Yes, you're right, none of your business. Divorces are rarely pleasant. But life goes on, people move on. You've landed yourself a girlfriend already. Maybe she's changed and grown to like kids; maybe she's found the man she really wants to have a life with, share things with and have children with.

I wish you happiness and the peace of mind.

[mananto 36]

Glad your case was approved. I have learnt to disregard naysayers You were a genuine person from the beginning and it paid!