husband is cheating

[mrs j 0]

hello vj's

i been on this site for a long time and i had never tought i will be posting some thing like this but i know how helpfull you all are and i don't know anybody except my husband here

so i meat my husband in another country and we been living together for 2 years before i came here on k1 visa in august . we had good relationship and he was an angle and even when i got here he has been good in a lot of ways . a week after i got here i found out he been cheating on me for a long time, so i ask him he say sorry so i thought that was over . its been almost two month now and i found out he have more than one , i try to talk to him but he is not willing to talk, all he say is " he is a man and its in his nature and as long as he come home there is nothing wrong with him seeing other womens" my father passed away two weeks a go and i still can't talk with my family because they are upset with me coming here .

my qestion is now if i want to go back home and if he refuse to give me a ticket what can i do?

[andreaj14 4]

You need to focus on yourself at this point. Find a support group to talk about your feelings. I suggest co-dependents anonymous. There are no dues or fees and you can get support that way. I also suggest finding members of your community to connect with. Once you have gotten past the emotional part of this issue, ask yourself if you want to stay here in America. If you do, then find an immigration attorney and go over your options. If you don't want to stay here, then work as hard as you can to purchase a plane ticket and go back home. You have work to do, girl! You can get through this.

Peace and Blessings,

A

[mrs j 0]

thank you am trying to do that and keep my sanity.

how can i work and get my ticket if i don't have work authorization.

[Sandra G. 5,057]

Contact your community to help you to buythe ticket,file for divorce and ask at least for him to pay your ticket in your divorce, find a pro bono lawyer to help you with the divorce.Your husband is a scumbag and he proved that he does not love and respect you then show some self respect removing yourself of his presence for good.You lived your entire life in your home COuntry don't you have a single relative or friend to help your?.Good luck.

[Brian1967## 119]

OP. I empathize with you and I am sorry this has happened. You made yourself vunerable and a person has walked all over you. Your husband has a very "intresting" view on life. He does not respect you, which is the cornerstone of a solid marriage which leads to trust which there seems like there is none of. You can divorce and remove conditions on your own, or divorce and go home it is up to you. But I want you to know I have been there and a cheating spouse id hard to get over. You have my total empathy. If you need support message me god bless

[Caryh 5,206]

OP. I empathize with you and I am sorry this has happened. You made yourself vunerable and a person has walked all over you. Your husband has a very "intresting" view on life. He does not respect you, which is the cornerstone of a solid marriage which leads to trust which there seems like there is none of. You can divorce and remove conditions on your own, or divorce and go home it is up to you. But I want you to know I have been there and a cheating spouse id hard to get over. You have my total empathy. If you need support message me god bless

The OP can't remove conditions, she came on a K-1 and does not have a green card. You cannot adjust status from a K-1 by yourself, you must adjust status with your spouse or return home.