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Avery Cates Proficient

Avery Cates   1,141

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You say fiance, but then mention adjustment of status. Doesn't that have to be done after you're married, making him your husband?

Also, define how he's "acting very funny."

November 14th, 2013: She's here!

December 12th, 2013: Picked up marriage license.

December 14th, 2013: Wedding

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mamichou   8

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You say fiance, but then mention adjustment of status. Doesn't that have to be done after you're married, making him your husband?

Also, define how he's "acting very funny."

we already got married 2 months ago and sent the information for adjustment. but she is acting like she wants to leave and has told her family once she receive her green card she will leave me

what do I need to do

Avery Cates Proficient

Avery Cates   1,141

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we already got married 2 months ago and sent the information for adjustment. but she is acting like she wants to leave and has told her family once she receive her green card she will leave me

what do I need to do

Well... I hate to say it but that sounds pretty solidly like you've been scammed I'm sorry to say.

I'm not sure if you can pull the adjustment. Someone more knowledgeable about that will most likely come along.

November 14th, 2013: She's here!

December 12th, 2013: Picked up marriage license.

December 14th, 2013: Wedding

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Jeanna   21

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You should confront her and if she is, indeed, wanting to leave after she gets her green card, you could try contacting USCIS and letting them know you believe you have been scammed. I am very sorry for you, I can't imagine how bad that must hurt. Before acting hastily please speak with her and make sure it isn't just someone being jealous and spreading lies.

"Verily, after hardship there is ease" Holy Qur'an 94:6

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TBoneTX Grand Master

TBoneTX   45,893

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*** Thread moved from K-1 Process forum (OP is past that stage) to the Effects of Major Changes forum, for a greater concentration of advice. ***

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Cathi   5,783

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Very strange seeing that in your former threads you said your fiancee' is a "he", now you say "she" and if you are married it would be spouse not fiance, your story isn;t adding up


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Brian1967##   119

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Umm OPminday morning if the USCIS offices are open walk in and cancel the I864 asap you are going to be a victim of marriage fraud..., cancel the i 864 NOW!! Spare yourself the greif and heartache and file for divorce and then confront her nd say bye.. If you confront her now i bet 10 to 1 you will be back here for advise on how to beat a false #omestic violence charge. Any questions pm me on this also send a letter to USCIS since fingerprints done, send letter canceling i864. Use overnight express and also call 1800 do not waste time get this done now and I mean now

Darnell Grand Master

Darnell   8,479

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I echo Brian's post -

withdraw the I-864, affadavit of support.

Do that, and there is no way she can adjust status and no way she'll receive a green card .

You could certainly mail off the letter of withdrawal via postal mail (certified, tracking, etc) but you could also walk in to a local USCIS office (best done via an infopass appointment - see http://infopass.uscis.gov ) and give it over to an immigration officer.

It's the weekend - practice writing up the letter of withdrawal on the I-864, then when yer ready, do stuff on Monday.

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

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Brian1967## Collaborator

Brian1967##   119

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OP do this and do not tell the spouse, if you do the cost of a possible false domestic violence charge could get nasty CANCEL THE FORM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Go to local USCIS office and canel via infor pass..

walk in tell them it is a emergancy and you need to speak to someone, have them sign for the letter

MAIL the OVERNIGHT DELIVERY with tracking if fingerprints are already done.................DO IT ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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TBoneTX Grand Master

TBoneTX   45,893

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If this Monday (Oct. 14) is Columbus Day, government offices will probably be closed.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

Darnell Grand Master

Darnell   8,479

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Yup, there's that, O TBoNeZ.

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

-=-=-=-=-=R E A D ! ! !=-=-=-=-=-

Whoa Nelly ! Want NVC Info? see http://www.visajourney.com/wiki/index.php/NVC_Process

Congratulations on your approval ! We All Applaud your accomplishment with Most Wonderful Kissies !

 

USC1961 Enthusiast

USC1961   251

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This story doesn't add up all the way around. I don't know why someone from Spain would want to get a green card and go back. For the most part Spaniards can travel and do what they want just like USA citizens can. There perhaps is a lot more to this story than the OP is letting on.

 
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