The SteveAndTiff Dultimatum

[NikLR 13,231]

Is it broken?

can you move your toe without extreme pain?

It's too swollen to move to be honest. I cant bend it but it doesnt hurt to try. If anything is broken, its likely the tip not the joint. I cant walk on it tho without pain tho. I am just glad my foot isn't broken.

it's Friday the 13th

may be that's why poor Niki smashed her toe....

Maybe. Remind me to adopt a black cat so that the bad luck happens all the time, vs just in one big kaboom.

[SAT 9,609]

I think your toe is OK nik.....

If it broken, you'd barely move it without pain, no less walk on it.

[dwheels76 5,468]

It is said that 99% of all lawyers give the rest a bad name, si man.

Well when I get done with law school I will be that 1% that makes the 99% look good.

[dwheels76 5,468]

is ok - he'll learn, eventually, about age gap red flag for Lagos. If'n he studies.

Well now I have been labeled a "scammer helper" and laying the templates for scammers to defraud innocent middle age women.

So I guess helping and advising and well doing what anyone can do with research and google is a crime to a certain someone who has their knickers in a knot. I am so not amused right now.

People really need to get off my D%&K.

[SAT 9,609]

Well now I have been labeled a "scammer helper" and laying the templates for scammers to defraud innocent middle age women.

So I guess helping and advising and well doing what anyone can do with research and google is a crime to a certain someone who has their knickers in a knot. I am so not amused right now.

People really need to get off my D%&K.

That'll learn ya to hep people....

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

Well now I have been labeled a "scammer helper" and laying the templates for scammers to defraud innocent middle age women.

So I guess helping and advising and well doing what anyone can do with research and google is a crime to a certain someone who has their knickers in a knot. I am so not amused right now.

People really need to get off my D%&K.

That is why I help no one unless they have a question about USCIS errors or something that can't easily be answered. Plus, our first approved I-130 had no evidence, so I have absolutely no idea what someone would need.

Maybe I'm just weird, but I don't get what two people in vastly different countries and in vastly different financial situations can have in common enough to brew a long term relationship (unless both are ridiculously grateful for each other). The Dane and I have enough cultural differences as it is and we are practically twins in most things.*

*Totally not directed at you, but I just don't get like 60-70% of the immigration relationships.

[Caryh 5,206]

That is why I help no one unless they have a question about USCIS errors or something that can't easily be answered. Plus, our first approved I-130 had no evidence, so I have absolutely no idea what someone would need.

Maybe I'm just weird, but I don't get what two people in vastly different countries and in vastly different financial situations can have in common enough to brew a long term relationship (unless both are ridiculously grateful for each other). The Dane and I have enough cultural differences as it is and we are practically twins in most things.*

*Totally not directed at you, but I just don't get like 60-70% of the immigration relationships.

Me either, and that includes my own. Maybe when she leaves me and returns home I'll figure it out.

[oohpartiv 484]

I've been sitting on hold with the financial aid office at hubby's school for a half hour now. Mood is creeping towards homicidal. Mrrph.

Nik, I hope your toe feels better soon! I've broken a few fingers and toes that way. Not a fun experience.

I don't really wander into the upper forums anymore. Too many lazy people with easily answered questions who can't be bothered to use the search engine. No patience for anymore "how long" questions.

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

Me either, and that includes my own. Maybe when she leaves me and returns home I'll figure it out.

You probably just both really value and love each other.

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

I have a serious rant about how expensive legos are. We already have a ton, a lot of them hand me downs from me, but the little one is getting this this year (not from us), but I couldn't believe how expensive it was:

[NikLR 13,231]

Yes legos are very very expensive. Ugh.

Thanks for the well wishes btw.

[dwheels76 5,468]

That is why I help no one unless they have a question about USCIS errors or something that can't easily be answered. Plus, our first approved I-130 had no evidence, so I have absolutely no idea what someone would need.

Maybe I'm just weird, but I don't get what two people in vastly different countries and in vastly different financial situations can have in common enough to brew a long term relationship (unless both are ridiculously grateful for each other). The Dane and I have enough cultural differences as it is and we are practically twins in most things.*

*Totally not directed at you, but I just don't get like 60-70% of the immigration relationships.

Well I am not a marriage broker. I could give a good hot damn if people should or shouldn't be together. My job and I take it very seriously is to gather what i have from what I have read and reasearch and help people when they ask.

What a boring F'd up place this would be (VJ I mean) if we all sat around with our preconceived ideas and opinions and didn't help or assist when we see people obviously in some situations literally drowning in their own naivete and stupidity.

If they get scammed, if they break up, thats on them and their God not I. Its up to each person to totally fully vet their love one.

Me personally a woman raised not in US (first 10 years of my life) totally get the international flavor. I am a bible girl and ummm all throughout the bible people were sent thousands of miles away to seek out and find Isiah, David, Jacob a wife. Not a girl from the hood. So I totally get it not a mystery for me.

I know its not directed to me but I will defend it to my death. I feel that strongly about the difference we all bring to the table. And I say Visa la differance!!

I am done. I;m out throwing up dueces.

Edited December 13, 2013 by dwheels76

[dwheels76 5,468]

Smashed my big toe with hubs old printer. Put it on my desk but apparently not far enough. Toenail is black...twice the size it should be. No insurance until jan 1. #### my life.

So sorry to hear of your ouchie. So busy with my rant I was seeing red. I need to now go get some tempura sushi rolls and calm down. Oh a drink yummy.

Take care put foot up. We need you healed and hoppin.

[Darnell 8,479]

Well now I have been labeled a "scammer helper" and laying the templates for scammers to defraud innocent middle age women.

So I guess helping and advising and well doing what anyone can do with research and google is a crime to a certain someone who has their knickers in a knot. I am so not amused right now.

People really need to get off my D%&K.

ya, that's why i try to write sparse and use a dry tone when 'talking' with these fellas. You might want to adopt that approach, or have your pm box full and leave it full

I say don't sweat this, Debs. Go out and kick a tree in the interim, but not with your toes, use the instep area of yer foot instead.

[NikLR 13,231]

Yeah injured toes suck. Hopefully it'll be well enough by monday to drive my jeep which of course is a standard.