The SteveAndTiff Dultimatum

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

It is just based on income and that is pretty measly for the moment. We have an IV-D case, so it is pretty strictly enforced. I think I will keep collecting it until he pays in total what a normal person would have paid for those 4 years. I also didn't get it until she was 18 months old or so, so he does owe me some retroactive, but it is such a pain with all the paperwork that it isn't worth it.

I give up on American men.

[JTB11 1,079]

Well.....I can see problems arising in the future if he doesn't change his outlook......and honestly, if he changes his outlook when he's 50, what can he do then?

I am trying not to think about it...when I did..I did not sleep so I shall take it one day at a time and see how far we get. He is trying in some areas and I appreciate it.

But when we move out and he tells me I am to drive him to work and anywhere he wants, I shall suggest he gets a license or calls mom.

*mailing cornbread*

tomorrow....cheddar cheese puffs...hopefully will work out well.

[SAT 9,609]

Well, if a hundred bucks is 17%, then he's doing pretty bad. Interest on child support owed varies by state.

[JTB11 1,079]

It is just based on income and that is pretty measly for the moment. We have an IV-D case, so it is pretty strictly enforced. I think I will keep collecting it until he pays in total what a normal person would have paid for those 4 years. I also didn't get it until she was 18 months old or so, so he does owe me some retroactive, but it is such a pain with all the paperwork that it isn't worth it.

I give up on American men.

ok so he lives in a million dollar home yet is unable to pay what he is supposed to ? How does he live there with a very low income ?

Sorry, I got no clue how things like that work and it just seems so....ugh and

[Merrytooth 5,748]

I am trying not to think about it...when I did..I did not sleep so I shall take it one day at a time and see how far we get. He is trying in some areas and I appreciate it.

But when we move out and he tells me I am to drive him to work and anywhere he wants, I shall suggest he gets a license or calls mom.

*mailing cornbread*

tomorrow....cheddar cheese puffs...hopefully will work out well.

Sounds like Dr Sheldon Cooper in The Big Bang Theory.

[JTB11 1,079]

Sounds like Dr Sheldon Cooper in The Big Bang Theory.

[SAT 9,609]

The IV-D will straighten out the stiff......

[SAT 9,609]

There's still good American dudes left.....

There's a few right on this thread

(Old geezers, but we're OK)

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

There's still good American dudes left.....

There's a few right on this thread

(Old geezers, but we're OK)

CABA applies to men too. Actually, I do think think there are a lot of good men and women around, but I like to tease.

Well, if a hundred bucks is 17%, then he's doing pretty bad. Interest on child support owed varies by state.

Because he only works 20 hours a week at a research position he makes #######, but $100 is less than he should be paying. I forgot the percentage, but it was calculated based on Colorado charts because that is where the case was filed and he was considered below the poverty line so he had to pay less than the normal percentage. Ridiculous.

ok so he lives in a million dollar home yet is unable to pay what he is supposed to ? How does he live there with a very low income ?

Sorry, I got no clue how things like that work and it just seems so....ugh and

Trust fund brat and a little inheritance.

[JTB11 1,079]

Trust fund brat and a little inheritance.

bleh.

[SAT 9,609]

I'm pretty certain it's 17% across the board for 1 child. It's the interest rates that vary by state.....

But if you don't get your 17% now, and he has another child, and that child gets 17%.....first come first serve, the second gets 8%.....

[JTB11 1,079]

cornbread is tasty, will be making it tomorrow again for thursday. I better not screw up.

[SAT 9,609]

Corn bread is super good when you use like a half a bar of salted butter on it

it's starting to storm out.....and I still have to go do a bit of shopping at the local supermarket........Kinda dreading it......

[Novembro 1,763]

I have to make sweet potato casserole tomorrow. At least it's an excuse to drink some kahlua...

[SAT 9,609]

Lush.....

Where are you having thanksgiving wacklar?