Just starting proccess having difficulty

[SwissAmerican 33]

Love at first sight DOES exist! BUT the steps you're trying to initiate are serious and binding. You only knew her for like 10 days in person. Os that enough? Be careful not being fooled by someone who just wants a "better life". You mentioned that you do not speak Spanish. Does SHE speak enough English? To be honest ( and I TRULY HOPE I'm wrong) this sounds like fraud! Wishing you the best!

[Sandra G. 5,045]

you met the girl once for 10 days just two months ago and are you planning to get married? really? date her at LEAST 2 years, go to see her a few times and then get married, less than that you are asking to be scammed.

[Jawaree 717]

Dude this was a summer fling, sand sun & drinks

10 days R U crazy?, U would make a lifetime decisions

after 10 days, with someone accepting money from U

already?, U just became the brand new ATM, it happens

everyday everywhere, its called games, how does a

woman not know or cannot get the proper information

to obtain her own passport in her own country?

If a male or female on vacation then returns home &

begin to wire money to those they met, something's wrong

a nice card snail-mail with even a souvener might be

fitting, money hells no....no telling how many guys passed

thru that summer and is now sending funds for assports...Lets

hope there's no pregnancy that needs to be rid off.....I've

heard it all.....Think smart dude peace out

[marjon2011 4]

Listen I would give her the benefit of the doubt because there are people that really don't know anything but to be honest using "common sense" which I think you have there is no way that you need to be present at the time for her to get a passport. Lets say that you weren't her fiancé that means she wouldn't be able to travel because she couldn't get a passport? No dude, all she need at the that time is her birth certificate (inextensa) that you get at the local junta central electoral close to her home. Then she goes to the passport division and pays the fee which is like 1650.00 pesos ( $40) and it takes like 3 days to get it.

Listen another thing, I don't mean to discourage you but I'm also bringing my fiancé her I've known each other for 2 and a half years and I travel 10 times already during that period. I do love him when one thing I always did and do is always research on my own when ever we where going to do something. Like if we needed to buy something I just didn't when by what he say I would make him send me the picture of the tag from the store simply because people in DR are desperate to get out of there and they would do ANY?THING to make you give them a visa so I wasn't going to be stupid and do anything he wanted. So you have the best tool in your hands which is the internet Google EVERYTHING and find out on your own and until you are sure 100% don't do anything. You could have the best intentions in your heart but you don't know about the other person.

But take your time to know her and don't rush anything If she feels the same way as you do she would be willing to wait. That's my advise to you since I've been on your shoes.

Good Luck!

[NWSarasota998 0]

Thank you very much for the advice. The visa was not her Idea, it was mine. She doesn't seem to know much about the process as I have to tell her to specifically do everything. She has not prepared for this at all, although she has agreed to it. I have been to her home and met her family. The money I sent her is for a specific purpose for transportation and fees associated with fixing her papers. I still don't know if we will get married but I plan on visiting her again in one month.

[NWSarasota998 0]

Dude this was a summer fling, sand sun & drinks

10 days R U crazy?, U would make a lifetime decisions

after 10 days, with someone accepting money from U

already?, U just became the brand new ATM, it happens

everyday everywhere, its called games, how does a

woman not know or cannot get the proper information

to obtain her own passport in her own country?

If a male or female on vacation then returns home &

begin to wire money to those they met, something's wrong

a nice card snail-mail with even a souvener might be

fitting, money hells no....no telling how many guys passed

thru that summer and is now sending funds for assports...Lets

hope there's no pregnancy that needs to be rid off.....I've

heard it all.....Think smart dude peace out

She couldn't get her passport because her birth certificate was not valid.

It looks like this is less likely to happen anyway. She tells me she will fix her birth certificate but I am giving her one month to do it and will cut this loose if she doesn't accomplish this task.

Thank you for the advice.

Edited October 20, 2013 by NWSarasota998

[NWSarasota998 0]

hold on, did you said THIS PAST AUGUST???

Yes, we met in August.

[Ilovemyman 147]

I am dominican and that isnt truth , for get the passport we dont need the fiance.

[Ilovemyman 147]

Love at first sight DOES exist! BUT the steps you're trying to initiate are serious and binding. You only knew her for like 10 days in person. Os that enough? Be careful not being fooled by someone who just wants a "better life". You mentioned that you do not speak Spanish. Does SHE speak enough English? To be honest ( and I TRULY HOPE I'm wrong) this sounds like fraud! Wishing you the best!

No everybory is a bad person,

Here my story, i am dominican from santiago Dr, i went in a excurtion to punta cana and stay 3 days in a ressort.

I am teacher in a high school and i like to know my country, i went to this excursion alone, at the ressort i met an american man, he was very nice very kind with me we talk for three days, he was there for 8 days and i arrived there for 3 days, his last 3 days , within this 3 days we only talk, no kisses no sex, nothing about be couple, he went back to usa on april 29 / 2013.

In this short period of time we knew that we wanted be together for ever, he knew me on april and we talked every day on skype, and on june 7 he filled out the aplication for k1, tow months later he met me, without has sex with me or touch me.

Then he came back here 5 months later last september.

And this time we ware together and it was wonderful.

Now we are waiting our noa2 .

I am 33 yr and he is 57 yr but i love him

I knew that the first day i spoke with him.

I am younger than him but my love is real.

And dont think that he gives me money, never he has sent me money, he wants to send me but i say no, because i am teacher and i make my own money here and i say him that i dont need his money because my money is eunogh fo me.

I really love him, and when we met we only share 3 days,

And i feel he loves me,

This sotry is real , so i dont think that this man is crazy if he wnats get marry with this woman after share with her 10 days, my fiance only shared with me 3 days and filled out the k1 without touch me.