What's the Difference Between Flirting and Cheating?

[almaty 19]

There's this Asian girl at work, she always dress up really nice, the only problem she likes to attract attention as such

always wear really sexy, tight clothes, tight pans, push up bra that goes right on your face. So most of the time you try to keep your head in another direction so as not to seem you are looking or bring attention to her. So is she flirting, cheaping, or just pure sexual harrassment>???? None of they guys mind i should say the word right after she passed by out of ear

Danmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

hmmmm.... she probably a good time at the office christmas party

[MrMrsKnight 0]

Different couples have different rules. Having sex with a stranger might not be seen as cheating if one is engaged in an open relationship... it all depends.

To me, in my relationship, I think that cheating is anything you do that you feel you have to hide from your SO.

Like my husband he wouldnt know how to flirt if it slapped him in the face, plus hes super shy. when he told me he was flirting with me when we first met, i could of swore he was just being weird he dont worry me one bit

:lol:

[Sonshyne 2]

They both can get you in trouble

so true..so can a harmless titty twister at a party

If you don't want your SO to know about it, it's cheating.

I agree

[rebeccajo 14]

[b]Flirting or Cheating? Hanging out with the women at work?[/b]
Here's the real relationship danger zone: About 50 percent of guys consider having dinner and drinks with an attractive co-worker as cheating. But the more troubling stat for you may be this one: One in five men says that he secretly loves his platonic (for now) coworker. Just look at Jim and Pam on The Office, and you know exactly what I'm talking about. That's not meant to scare you-more just to make sure you keep your eyes open (as if you don't already) and intentions honorable.

I think that once you're in a committed relationship, it changes the rest of your relationships. For example, a co-worker of mine who has been divorced for many years but recently got engaged, he was invited the other day to a Laker's game with two of his female friends. They'd go to games together all the time before and he initially was going to go - even his fiancee said she didn't mind, but he later declined the invitation. He said he just didn't feel it was the right thing to do. When he told his fiancee that he decided not to go, she told him she appreciated that.

Yikes. I guess if the fiancee appreciated it then he must have done the right thing, by Yodrak's definition above, but seriously... how are you going to sustain a relationship that prohibits all social contact with the opposite sex? Sounds a little psycho to me.

I don't think that's what he meant. If he would have gone to the game, that would have been okay with both of them, but perhaps there were several factors that made him decide not to go - maybe he and his fiancee have had little time to go out together, maybe they talked about going to a Laker's game, maybe it's on a night that they normally do something together.

Or....maybe he was picking up some flirty vibes from one of the women and thought ..... hmmmm.... maybe I don't want to go there......

[one...two...tree 2,762]

[b]Flirting or Cheating? Hanging out with the women at work?[/b]
Here's the real relationship danger zone: About 50 percent of guys consider having dinner and drinks with an attractive co-worker as cheating. But the more troubling stat for you may be this one: One in five men says that he secretly loves his platonic (for now) coworker. Just look at Jim and Pam on The Office, and you know exactly what I'm talking about. That's not meant to scare you-more just to make sure you keep your eyes open (as if you don't already) and intentions honorable.

I think that once you're in a committed relationship, it changes the rest of your relationships. For example, a co-worker of mine who has been divorced for many years but recently got engaged, he was invited the other day to a Laker's game with two of his female friends. They'd go to games together all the time before and he initially was going to go - even his fiancee said she didn't mind, but he later declined the invitation. He said he just didn't feel it was the right thing to do. When he told his fiancee that he decided not to go, she told him she appreciated that.

Yikes. I guess if the fiancee appreciated it then he must have done the right thing, by Yodrak's definition above, but seriously... how are you going to sustain a relationship that prohibits all social contact with the opposite sex? Sounds a little psycho to me.

I don't think that's what he meant. If he would have gone to the game, that would have been okay with both of them, but perhaps there were several factors that made him decide not to go - maybe he and his fiancee have had little time to go out together, maybe they talked about going to a Laker's game, maybe it's on a night that they normally do something together.

Or....maybe he was picking up some flirty vibes from one of the women and thought ..... hmmmm.... maybe I don't want to go there......

Maybe. I know a lot of guys who've maintained platonic friendships with their former girlfriends. My last girlfriend lives only about 10 minutes from me and we would meet for lunch or dinner with my kids (she was close to them) even after we broke up, but since I got engaged, I just don't think it would be right and I wouldn't want to distress Jinky over it.