Older American woman Younger Algerian man

[MouadsWife 161]

Bumper cars, my wife is rolling on the couch laughing. That my friend is hillarious.

Yeah. . I liked that too. But don't Moroccans play golf? Not 'putt putt'????

[sandinista! 1,816]

My husband golfs, quite well in fact. That was the whole joke, that I won the kids game of golf. Because that's what we do on eid, stuff with our kids. Which makes it even weirder with you two and the innuendo, because it was more than clear that all that was being discussed was innocuous, family activity.

[MouadsWife 161]

At 645 pm last night, my husband was losing to me at putt putt golf with our kids. No need to mention this, I just feel like randomly bragging about something.

Oh my my.. bad memory. You said putt putt. I'm speaking of golf. And putt putt golf is not golf. Want to keep analyizing?

[Nasturtium 500]

Vocab fail, so a fallback into inane ad hominem. Ok then.

It feels weird, like somehow they think there are points being scored, but no one really is playing a game.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

A number of posts have been removed and several edited due to containing exchanges of insults and personal attacks. I appreciate you can be annoyed with each other but it doesn't give you the right to insult each other or family members. Any more continuation of this type of exchange will result in the poster being thread-banned from further participation.

[JLSBMF 16]

All I can do is laugh at your racist post of older women. You only wish you looked like some of the older women who obviously have the guts to posts there picture here.

Good one - I'm laughing too

What is wrong with that woman ???

We look fabulous for our ages and our men are lucky it have us...

Jen

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

The VJ Folklore Society decrees that "putt putt" shall henceforth replace "doing laundry" in the VJ Lexicon.

[Darnell 8,478]

Dosent croquet require a continuous stroke like when you were playing putt putt.

The strokes are similar. The stances are not. However, the stances COULD be the same, if'n one wanted to have super duper fun at the putt putt course. I know, as I've done it myself, singing the 'I Love Croquet' Song at the top of my lungs, drooling like a loonie.

[MouadsWife 161]

Good one - I'm laughing too

What is wrong with that woman ???

We look fabulous for our ages and our men are lucky it have us...

Jen

Hey Jen wb! It is nice to be older and fabulously looking young isn't it?? My lamb tajine my husband cooked turned out amazing! Now watching a scarey movie... a new twist to Eid celebration. Lol

[Darnell 8,478]

tajine? what? OK - more drooling. There are 3 comfort foods on my list, mutton tajine is on the list, about 9 years now.

[Mithra 1,185]

Like momof1 mentioned, waiting for the visa even if it takes a long while is really nothing in the grand scheme of things. My husband and I are 6.5 years post visa issuance and arrival to the US. We were apart for 2.5 years between meeting each other, getting married, and waiting for the visa. The wait was difficult. I cried and whined and complained. 6.5 years later I look back and think, what the hell was I crying, whining, and complaining about? It seems like forever ago. We've lived so much life since then. We've been through tough times and joyous times. We've lived apart due to work. We've had a child together and now have another on the way. We've almost ended things a few times the first 4 or so years. All of that makes the visa process look like a cake walk, easy peazy. So success is not living in two different countries while waiting for a visa and it's not getting the visa. It's living day to day life and making things work even when it would be easier to go your seperate ways. I'm not saying our life is always hard but there were hard times that certainly blow waiting for a visa out of the water. I'm also not saying our marriage is a success because we're both still breathing and anything can happen at any time to f things up.

And for the record, YOU are more focused on the visa as a sign of success than most others in this thread.

His story if you have read it is very successful. They have been through the ringer for years now, and getting through that is having a successful marriage. It's all of you with the VISA picture in your vocabulary.

Edited October 17, 2013 by Mithra

[Mithra 1,185]

Please quote one post that was degrading to your SO personally. Not one person, aside from yourself, knows your SO so I'm really not sure how it's possible that someone degraded him. If you mean that people mentioned that SOME young Arab guys are scam artists, yes SOME are but that's not degrading anyone that's stating a fact. No one said your guy is a scammer. No one here knows him to say he is. People are simply telling you to be cautious and take your time. I'm not sure how that's bad advice. I would advise someone to do that even with an American guy.

I joined this site to get advice from people that were going thru the same thing. Good or bad, I did want to hear it all. But, some of you have been trash talking others and have been rude and hateful. You can take that ####### somewhere else. Even if you had a bad experience, I am sorry to hear that. If you left a reply, then leave it at that and move on. You can say all you want about MENA men but it won't change my mind about my man. I am sick of hearing you degrade him. You don't know him, you know nothing about him so who are you to pass judgement based on your bad experience?

Edited October 17, 2013 by Mithra

[Madeinmorocco2 15]

Good one - I'm laughing too

What is wrong with that woman ???

We look fabulous for our ages and our men are lucky it have us...

Jen

Thumbs up!

[Madeinmorocco2 15]

Like momof1 mentioned, waiting for the visa even if it takes a long while is really nothing in the grand scheme of things. My husband and I are 6.5 years post visa issuance and arrival to the US. We were apart for 2.5 years between meeting each other, getting married, and waiting for the visa. The wait was difficult. I cried and whined and complained. 6.5 years later I look back and think, what the hell was I crying, whining, and complaining about? It seems like forever ago. We've lived so much life since then. We've been through tough times and joyous times. We've lived apart due to work. We've had a child together and now have another on the way. We've almost ended things a few times the first 4 or so years. All of that makes the visa process look like a cake walk, easy peazy. So success is not living in two different countries while waiting for a visa and it's not getting the visa. It's living day to day life and making things work even when it would be easier to go your seperate ways. I'm not saying our life is always hard but there were hard times that certainly blow waiting for a visa out of the water. I'm also not saying our marriage is a success because we're both still breathing and anything can happen at any time to f things up.

And for the record, YOU are more focused on the visa as a sign of success than most others in this thread.

Really, do you read backwards as well as it seems you've missed the entire thread of what I've been saying what is successful. Where have I said getting a visa is a sign of being successful? From what I've read above in your post, it's there after receiving the visa and living together is a sign of success. So marriage beforehand, living apart for years, spending years of online conversations night after night giving up your freedom so you can spend the evenings seeing the one you love is not making a successful marriage? It's takes two strong willing people to carry on this kind of relationship without literally going insane to stay committed and follow through after years of missing each other.

Getting the visa merely means now you can breath. Almost every person here that posted to the OP has said, THE MAN WILL LEAVE YOU FOR A YOUNGER WOMAN after a period of years basically.

[Ban Hammer 13,275]

having reviewed the thread, two individuals have now been thread banned for continuing to instigate drama after my earlier warning to cease and desist.

more can follow those two out the door if the bickering continues.

Edited October 17, 2013 by charles!