Am I Going Crazy?

[BethAnn and Omar 42]

They look for age difference.... Weight disparagement between the 2. If the petitioner is female and well off financially and the beneficiary a poor man that's a major red flag.

I am 11 years older than my husband. I make 68000 a year and I am definitely not fat lol.

[Confusedtinybird 41]

That is the very first time I have heard weight difference?? I really don't think they look for that.

Age yes. Religion yes. But weight?

[BethAnn and Omar 42]

So is the factiI am 11 years older going to be an issue? Honestly you cannot tell in our pictures.

Also about income, most of the people in Jamaica are poor so if they were to deny based on that then no one would get through.

[Hollyday 122]

So is the factiI am 11 years older going to be an issue? Honestly you cannot tell in our pictures.

...and of course there's no mentioning of dates of birth anywhere in the documents...

Seriously though, i think 11 years shouldn't be such a big deal. From what i've read in other VJ threads it becomes a red flag if the female USC is much older (outside of reproductive age).

[BethAnn and Omar 42]

...and of course there's no mentioning of dates of birth anywhere in the documents...

Seriously though, i think 11 years shouldn't be such a big deal. From what i've read in other VJ threads it becomes a red flag if the female USC is much older (outside of reproductive age).

Wow Ok... I meant that from the outside observer we have never encountered our age difference to ever come up.

[Hollyday 122]

Wow Ok... I meant that from the outside observer we have never encountered our age difference to ever come up.

I know what you mean. Just generally they look at papers too, not only what people look like together.

[chrissyb 27]

Speaking of proving communications on Viber - google how to make screenshots. I'm on Whatsapp with my husband and i've learned to make screenshots with my phone so i just put them into a word document (selection showing date stamps and some innocent chit chat) which i will print for the interview.

You can send your chat from whats app to email and print it it gives dates and time of day,etc.

[Hollyday 122]

You can send your chat from whats app to email and print it it gives dates and time of day,etc.

I know. The quality of the file doesn't satisfy me though. It's a txt, which can be easily altered. Heck, you can even compose your own. Screenshots are a little harder to fake (though of course it can be done, but it's too much bother, i think).

[BethAnn and Omar 42]

Seriously I need some fun or something or I'm going to be institutionalized lol!

[Amorim 0]

Beth I am on the same situation as you lol, me and my wife live together here in Brazil and we got the interview scheduled for november 1 and I got all this paranoid thoughts going through my head + insomnia!!

[BethAnn and Omar 42]

Beth I am on the same situation as you lol, me and my wife live together here in Brazil and we got the interview scheduled for november 1 and I got all this paranoid thoughts going through my head + insomnia!!

I know right!! Itt's like unbearable sometimes. Just when I think I've relaxed something else comes up- age difference, income difference, not enough evidence- it's enough to drive you crazy!! My poor husband... I've been bombarding him with information every day!! The poor guy just wants a break lol!!

[Girl from Celebes 588]

I am 11 years older than my husband. I make 68000 a year and I am definitely not fat lol.

You look fine to me. Based on the picture, you reminded me of young Britney Spears.

[BethAnn and Omar 42]

You look fine to me. Based on the picture, you reminded me of young Britney Spears.

Hardly but thank you!!! That's a terrible picture btw.

The weight comment cracked me up. So I guess I need to hit the treadmill before the interview lol

[janw 4]

You will be just fine..My Danish hubby has embassy apt this Monday so we are excited. We got married here in the us july 2012..rigvght away did the I130 and got a PD aug 6 2012..we have never lived together just a couple visits back and forth..he is only bringing pics we have of each other 2 gether at diff places..he had to go back to Denmark as he had a job so we just skyped most of the time but he isn't going to bother taking any phone logs..we Know each other so well we know even the time we would be ready to open a beer LOL..You will be ok..Honest and relaxed is all you need...

[amituttam82 5]

Check out Vonnage as one way to keep in touch. It also provides you with advanced options to show phone calls like a traditonal phone company which you can print. Vibr is simple:

From Vibr app click on More. Then click on settings then click on E-Mail Message History. It will create a e-mail with a zip (compressed file) with all your messages. Open it in a computer and hit print!!!

In general, remember to take with you all kinds of evidence and multiple evidences for the same point. Nothing you said makes you eligible to be black balled by them. But I would not share monetary transactions with them as it could be misinterpreted.