dont want to wait another 4 or 5 months

[AmyWrites 593]

I know it sucks. But, you'll have a stronger relationship for it. Nothing builds communication skills better than talking on Skype for hours every day....

[David & Diana R 1,005]

I prefer not to call you heartless, Charles may be lurking in the shadows

I just think OP was venting and didn't in any way feel ungrateful especially to others.

GOWAN,

Is Charles, (I prefer to call him Chuck) ever not lurking about?? hahahaha

We love you Chuck...

I know it sucks. But, you'll have a stronger relationship for it. Nothing builds communication skills better than talking on Skype for hours every day....

This is a great point AmyWrites! My wife and I were on skype about 18 hours a day. We would watch each other sleep. It was kinda like being there, but not.

[Darrell&AnA 2]

i am tired of waiting, got my NOA2 , now the earliest embassy date is January. my heart cannot take any more. i am calling it quits. i am making irrational decisions. the loneliness is eating me alive. i wish i never stated this. i wish you all well in your journey.

I understand and feel your pain, I been away from my spouse for way to long. This might or might not help you, but this is how I kept sane in getting everything together and started.

1. Walk- I walked 10 Miles every other day by the water (helps relax me)

2. Mind Blockers- Find something that brings your joy and do it.

3. Mindset control- In my life business I teach my clients how, what and how they think become how they feel. That becomes how their life results to become. I know it’s hard, but keep a positive mental picture of you and your mate together here.

4. Find a Visa Buddy- Find someone that has been through what you are going through to help and relate too.

5. Just Believe it is going to happen.

Loneliness is one of the hardest feelings to think rational with, this is where having a mental picture and a visa buddy comes in at.

I wish you all the best in everything, It will happen...

Darrell.

[David & Diana R 1,005]

I understand and feel your pain, I been away from my spouse for way to long. This might or might not help you, but this is how I kept sane in getting everything together and started.

1. Walk- I walked 10 Miles every other day by the water (helps relax me)

2. Mind Blockers- Find something that brings your joy and do it.

3. Mindset control- In my life business I teach my clients how, what and how they think become how they feel. That becomes how their life results to become. I know it’s hard, but keep a positive mental picture of you and your mate together here.

4. Find a Visa Buddy- Find someone that has been through what you are going through to help and relate too.

5. Just Believe it is going to happen.

Loneliness is one of the hardest feelings to think rational with, this is where having a mental picture and a visa buddy comes in at.

I wish you all the best in everything, It will happen...

Darrell.

Fantastic advice!! Follow it!

[Ericslink 0]

Please don't give up. Love will prevail!

[Alex&Iris 9]

Thank you all for the reality check, i was just venting. the US takes your money for the I-129F, makes you jump through hoops, then you get the NOA2.

then you wait again to get a approval number from NVC/DOS , then you go to the embassy website , to wait another three months.

i forgot when i started this , that i cant go across town to kiss you when i want to. we cant have a romantic dinner and then hold each other all night.

PLEASE FORGIVE ME. I WAS BI@@HING, THINKING I AM THE ONLY ONE. THE REALITY CHECK HAS BEEN GREAT FOR ME.

I WISH WE ALL DID NOT HAVE THIS WAIT.

I saw the list and note how there are many October appointments, small amount in November and a few in December. Im sure that the interviews are by visa type so do not lose faith... GOD and LOVE prevail OVER ALL and your not in this alone!!! Good luck chica!!!

[firegirl1788 4]

i understand that feeling i had to wait 8 months for my noa 2 i have 24 days calling to nvc to see if they received my case and nothing i wouldnt like to wait a long time again. im pregnant and i wanna be with my love.

[clairegie 265]

just glad you got the frustration off your chest. it helps to vent from time to time. the process isn't easy and is even more difficult with the lurking holidays. just hang in there a little bit more. everything goes fast after the NOA2.