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Hopeless and broken hearted 2nd chances????

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TBoneTX   45,522

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Good job! Just do a step at a time. I hope things get even better for you very soon. smile.png

^^This^^, si man. Thanks for your update.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Sandra G.
Sandra G.

Your post you mentioned about second chance, second chance for what? to have by your side a loser,a weak man and scumbag? really? you deserve better. Divorce him and move on.

Darnell
Darnell

You've been used in a 'traditional' Indian Scam. Sorry. He's been a great actor, at times, but has shown his true colors at other times. IMO, folk bring over the entire family, over a coupla decade

verysadguy
verysadguy

Sandranj is right. It is time to cut your losses and run. Go to therapy/counseling if you need emotional support beyond family and friends. I tell my clients this. He never loved you. It was a roman

David & Diana R Experienced

David & Diana R   1,005

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I just want everyone to know, I found an awesome job/career, that will allow me to support myself financially. I closed our joint account, we had no money, he withdrew it. I turned off his phone. It was under my name and was paid for by me. I realized he had ran up the bill, roaming charges were 100 dollars. Ironic how a person left broke he could do such a thing. I'll be honest I've never been religious started attending church regularly. The job I took is 1.5 hours from my parents. I am happily getting situated . Its not easy, but realizing that cutting off the biggest stress in my life was best. I quit taking depression medication, liberating. I dropped my classes. I could not fathom being around so many people that would pull me down. Seems like I ran away from my problems, but I will be honest I Couldn't face them head on, I'd revert back to him.sounds pathetic.

for those of you that can relate my real life situation to a bollywood movie:this isn't a movie. Its my life. These tears, heart break, Humiliation is real..in bollywood films the actor realizes he cant live without his wife and comes home happily ever after...this did not end such a way... ..I would never wish this on anyone. Its time to focus on me...

Thank GOD. Now you're thinking kido!! Congratulations and good luck.

Aloha Ke Akua

 
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