k-1 ? or not? London or Pakistan?

[Girl from Celebes 588]

I really don't want to elaborate this. As a Muslim, agreeing another poster saying is mut'ah as a prostitution, you're really bring this up to offended another Muslim's brothers and sisters. You're mentioned about seeking advise from greater knowledge I would say if you're really truly understood Islam by means, divide between shiah and sunni is not really matter. By reading your reply, Western countries are really not shocked now why there is a torn between shiah and sunni - they are all Muslims after all-.

Difference from other does not mean, someone is higher than everybody else. If you learned it, sunni and shiah are more political view things rather than religious matters. On the top of that, in higher achievement, Sufism or tassawuf override all the differences. But I have should known better since I see the beneficiary comes from Pakistan.

At the end of post, I apologized for bringing up mut'ah to this conversation. I wish you luck and your loved ones!

Wassalam,

[Girl from Celebes 588]

I mean I should not bring up about mut'ah since I see the beneficiary is from Pakistan. Most of them are sunni. Big apologize.

[aamirpearl 47]

I really don't want to elaborate this. As a Muslim, agreeing another poster saying is mut'ah as a prostitution, you're really bring this up to offended another Muslim's brothers and sisters. You're mentioned about seeking advise from greater knowledge I would say if you're really truly understood Islam by means, divide between shiah and sunni is not really matter. By reading your reply, Western countries are really not shocked now why there is a torn between shiah and sunni - they are all Muslims after all-.

Difference from other does not mean, someone is higher than everybody else. If you learned it, sunni and shiah are more political view things rather than religious matters. On the top of that, in higher achievement, Sufism or tassawuf override all the differences. But I have should known better since I see the beneficiary comes from Pakistan.

At the end of post, I apologized for bringing up mut'ah to this conversation. I wish you luck and your loved ones!

Wassalam,

I was leting boiler knw abt shia islam concept as he called Mutah prostitution. I didnt mind wht boiler said since he doesnt knw abt islam he probably googled it nd some sunnis out there wrote blog mutah is prostitution. Iam not shia nr sunni. but being a muslim we must respect everybody's religiouse belief thats it

[Girl from Celebes 588]

I was leting boiler knw abt shia islam concept as he called Mutah prostitution. I didnt mind wht boiler said since he doesnt knw abt islam he probably googled it nd some sunnis out there wrote blog mutah is prostitution. Iam not shia nr sunni. but being a muslim we must respect everybody's religiouse belief thats it

I could not agree more . I hope more Muslims like you and respects others people belief! Wassalam! My reply was to the OP for her previous post on this thread. I am Muslim-born, by the way

Edited September 10, 2013 by Girl from Celebes

[Gulabjamun 0]

Sorry if I offended you celebes.

[Boiler 45,531]

You should only use English in the upper forums anyway, I was talking about sex for consideration, usually financial.

[aamirpearl 47]

Read its history. nd they dont have to pay for this

Edited September 10, 2013 by @@mirpeArL

[Ryan H 3,812]

***Please end the discussion on religion and return the direction of the thread to helping the OP. If you wish to continue the religious discussion amongst yourselves, please do so in the Current Events and Hot Social Topics forum***

[Loveforever143 13]

OP him/herself was enjoying this stupid kiind of conversation

Since she was like hahahhaha

[nadia&sameer 12]

We went through a similar situation. I was also on a tourist visa and he was on a student visa in UK. , After much research, as someone else said on here, if we had a nikkah we are too married for a K1, but bcz it wasn't a legal marriage in the UK we also weren't eligible for a CR1. So we decided to play it safe and not marry so we could file a K-1. I am not sure about having the marriage attested to in Pakistan to make it valid...that was never proposed to us as something we could do since the marriage would have taken place in a country where it would not be considered legal. But if that is possible I wish we had done that!

As for interviewing in UK, I did a lot of research and got different answers, but in the end I found a government form stating that what we could have intervied in the UK. Unfortunately his visa wasn't going to extend long enough for us to interview so he will be going back to Pakistan to interview. We applied for K-1 on 7/1 and are still waiting for the docs to go to NVC so if your husband doesn't get an extension on his student visa I think it would be unlikely that he could interview before his visa expires. That being said. If you do submit everything and plan on interviewing in London the worst that can happen is that you have it transferred to Pakistan and add 1-2 months wait time for the transfer. We wish we could have interviewed in UK. It would have been much easier. Good luck with everything!

[Gulabjamun 0]

Thank you Nadia&Sameer. We have since decided to not apply for the k1 and will work with a lawyer. Our situation is complex. I appreciate your reply and help. Good luck, I pray you can be a family soon.