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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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He yelled at me. He yelled at his dad. I am at my wits end with him now. Today he told me he was having trouble "adjusting" back to life in the U.S. What. The. ######. I'm the immigrant, not him!!! I adjusted to life here on day one.

Maybe he's confused and thinks that he's a Macho, ufff man.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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Well, look at the time, with dishwarsher STILL unemptied, cat unministered, a workday tomorrow, and a She-Who-Must-Be-Obeyed who will again be displeased with a groggy husband, zzz man. Zzz you, man.


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However, you WERE post #1000 in this thread, whee man.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Malaysia
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He yelled at me. He yelled at his dad. I am at my wits end with him now. Today he told me he was having trouble "adjusting" back to life in the U.S. What. The. ######. I'm the immigrant, not him!!! I adjusted to life here on day one.

I usually reserve my opinion here. But in this case, I must criticize......

During this time of your life together, Your husband should be super extra nice/ courteous/ considerate/ respectful etc.....

You're both making a huge transition. But you more so. You're starting a new life, in a new country. And he's not doing his part to help.....

In personal experience, I helped Tiffany adjust to life here with kid gloves. And again when we got married. (Now I only beat her up once a week).

I hope he realizes what he's doing and comes around. You don't deserve this.

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They can be confused for a while, Brother Comrade. Give it a little time to improve.

Yeah, for sure. It's just that initial shock which you have to get over.

"What's yours is mine!"

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Malaysia
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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Canada
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How did he hurt his hand?

He jammed his ring finger at some point while packing meat patties.

He doesn't know because he didn't feel it hurt.

It's a cold area and the patties are frozen, so his hand was probably mostly numbed when he did it.

He didn't realize it until lunch.

I found a tiny lego-type Dalek and I painted him last night and I'm finishing him tonight and he is amazing i love him.

It was this white one:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/thedoctorwhosite/5603082998/

Now he's silver with hand painted scuffed edges and I have to paint all his dots tonight.

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One of my employees entire family's lives might have been saved by a carbon monoxide detector last night. The water heaters exhaust fan stopped working. Do you have one in your house?

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: United Kingdom
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He jammed his ring finger at some point while packing meat patties.

He doesn't know because he didn't feel it hurt.

It's a cold area and the patties are frozen, so his hand was probably mostly numbed when he did it.

He didn't realize it until lunch.

I found a tiny lego-type Dalek and I painted him last night and I'm finishing him tonight and he is amazing i love him.

It was this white one:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/thedoctorwhosite/5603082998/

Now he's silver with hand painted scuffed edges and I have to paint all his dots tonight.

Scary! Lol

One of my employees entire family's lives might have been saved by a carbon monoxide detector last night. The water heaters exhaust fan stopped working. Do you have one in your house?

The family died?

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Department of Revenue? I hope, instead, you came back from Canada and hit a USA Customs and Border patrol Office, secondary or deferred inspection office, and chewed the ear off a supervisor to get the SAVE record properly fixed.

If you went to Department of Revenue - well, that's a Canadien Office, and I not know they cared about or even had access to SAVE there?

I went to a CSB deferred inspection office and they couldn’t find anything wrong with their databases for me and they don’t have access to SAVE. Just our admittance on a system that I can’t remember the acronym or name for.

I did find this though: http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.5af9bb95919f35e66f614176543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=77d3feb9a2ca8210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=01d62363d8928310VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD

The teen’s e-verify went okay though. Phew! She found it creepy when her boss input info on her and her picture came up on the boss’s computer screen.

Hmmm….I just noticed my Visa has me as having a given name of my first and middle names. Maybe it was Montréal or that caused the issue?

Ugh. I really don’t want to go for an InfoPass appointment.

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