Need to file I-751 / Divorce situation.

[Shelly11 14]

To answer you question on whether she can get her 10 year GC without you, the answer is YES. She would need to apply for a divorce waiver.

I am happy she left. You sound like a really nice guy and you need to forget this chic. She has some real issues but you cannot afford to keep making her problems yours. I think she used you to get her papers. I would not do anything else unless she hurt you in some way. I get the feeling she will be back in your life when she needs to use you again. This time, don't be naiive and let her use you all over.

About the mail that was sent to you, you already tried to tell her about this and she cannot be mature about this so treat it like you would mail that is put in your mailbox that is not yours. She got that letter because it is the standard letter that is sent out when its time to apply for the 10 year GC - Removing conditions.

Forget this bioch and move on with your life. You deserve so much better

[jhonster 23]

To answer you question on whether she can get her 10 year GC without you, the answer is YES. She would need to apply for a divorce waiver.

I am happy she left. You sound like a really nice guy and you need to forget this chic. She has some real issues but you cannot afford to keep making her problems yours. I think she used you to get her papers. I would not do anything else unless she hurt you in some way. I get the feeling she will be back in your life when she needs to use you again. This time, don't be naiive and let her use you all over.

About the mail that was sent to you, you already tried to tell her about this and she cannot be mature about this so treat it like you would mail that is put in your mailbox that is not yours. She got that letter because it is the standard letter that is sent out when its time to apply for the 10 year GC - Removing conditions.

Forget this bioch and move on with your life. You deserve so much better

Of course everyone here is dead on the money with this whole situation. I agree mostly with what everyone said.

I actually called USCIS tonight and had to clarify some issues with the I797C's (One I got back for my current wife, and the other for my step daughter I guess got bogged down in the system). I actually got stepped up & managed to speak with an actual agent tonight.. She was very nice and informative. They managed to correct my street name they put incorrectly on my wifes I797C and her wrong birthdate, even though I had put the correct info on the initial I130 applications. Still waiting for the 2nd I797C for my step daughter. They gave me the case number for my daughters I797C so I could track it in the online USCIS system.

In regards to that whole deal with my Korean ex-wife. They agent told me just disregard the letter. She told me I don't need to send it back to them as it's just a courtesy notice they send out to let someone know they're at the 3 month mark and they better do something quick or else they're going to lose their status altogether. She also said I don't need to tell USCIS I'm divorced as well. She said it's up to my ex-wife now to produce any documentation she'll need to try & get her 10 year Green card. And she explained to me my ex-wifes options even though the process for her was no longer my business anymore. She said the same things you guys did. She's on her own now and it's between her and USCIS. I actually wasn't even thinking about it at all until I got that notice here thinking it was my new stepdaughters I797C form.

She said for USCIS to have generated that letter most likely means she hasn't taken any action at this juncture, and without knowing anything about her particular case (nor could she get involved with it since I'm not her) that I should just forget about it & let the chips fall where they may.

In regards to the financial support, I guess I signed an I864 with the Korean immigration specialist along with her boss who also filled out one as well. The USCIS agent told me all this would disappear once she fails to take any action. In other words, the immigration case would be closed and then it would turn into a deportation case.

As someone who believes in what Jesus tried teaching us, I take no joy in knowing that she would have her life turned upside down if she got caught...and everything she worked for (her possessions, her car, etc) would be lost and she would be shipped back to Korea. I don't have any emotional ties to her anymore, and I love my new wife immensely. She is amazing as is my new 3 year old daughter. They are the center of my universe. But would not like to be in my ex-wifes shoes if that happens to her. I tend to visualize these things and how someone would feel if it were to happen to me. But again....she did it to herself. I can't feel sorry for her. She made her bed as the saying goes.

Thanks again all for helping me clear this up. It's for sure been a learning experience.

[Nana098 18]

Come on man!
You need understand that she don't need you and she maybe never love you like you loved her.
You must think you lost your dream job because of her.
Let her go and that she solve their problems!

[whitelotus88 0]

I'm currently remarried to a VERY sweet Filipina lady since March of this year. We're talking night and day between the her and my ex-wife. No plans to go back & help someone who basically abandoned me after I helped her get out of the bad situation she was in being here illegally for 10 years. Yes I "was" in love with her because at 1st she didn't show her immaturity & huge control/anger issues. Not to get too deeply into it, but she was emotionally & physically abused by her 40 year Korean military Father. He messed her up good. I did see enough redeeming qualities in her, otherwise I wouldn't have married her. But the thing that stood out to me originally was she was willing to get some help and work on the problems she knew she had. That to me says a lot. So as a good husband, I was willing to see her through it.

In hindsight I often wonder if the whole thing was a setup. I can' say for sure. But one thing I can assure you of is, I don't owe her anything. Especially after she decided to just up and abandon me after all I did for her.

So.....I hear you guys loud and clear. I was just wondering if there was any chance that she could get her 10 Green card WITHOUT my help. Because I'm not going to do anything for her.

I'm in the process of getting my new wife into the country and just filed the i130 not too long ago. When the letter came, I was actually excited thinking that it was further communication from USCIS. And it was addressed Y Stevenson. I opened it too quickly thinking that I saw J. Stevenson instead. My mistake. So that's how I ended up opening the letter.

But what's strange is.....wouldn't you think that she would have wanted to at least figured out a way to stay in the country and given at least USCIS her forwarded address? It almost seems as if she's given up on doing anything with trying to stay in the country legally. I mean, if I were her....I would be doing anything I could to try to take advantage of what I started for her.

I dunno. Seems strange. But anyways, I'm taping the letter back up and sending another letter with it to explain that our divorce was final in Sept of 2012 along with a copy of the divorce decree. Obviously I've never done this immigration thing before, which is why we paid someone to handle it for us originally.

Anything else I should include before sending this thing back to USCIS?

Thanks again fellas.

[whitelotus88 0]

It's funny that you said you received letter from Uscis address to your name to remind your ex wife to remove her 2 year condition GC .

My greencard was approved 1Aug 2011 We were told by Uscis at the interview office that Uscis do not send reminded to anyone to lifted condition GC we have to remenber ourself and filed it within 90 days before expiration date ourself or else status will be expired and we will have to reapply and pay for for I-145 package all over again

Edited August 21, 2013 by whitelotus88