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olsan3   8

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sigh,

I never thought this would ever happen, but it did.

long story short, got into an argument with the missus, she got really loud and the cops showed up.

I was not taken into custody or none of that, neither was she.

she called to say sorry and i believe its over but i decided to go over to my uncle's for a few days, or weeks.

I just want to know if things like this( arguments, cops, me being away) will have some kind of negative impact on the process.. i already have an AOS interview.

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Tim/Mav   305

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No, I don't think so. What you had was a disturbance not a domestic violence encounter. Lets face it, well all can argue time to time. I think your OK. It takes a Real man to realize he's not going to win and just leave. Now, she apologized so get your butt back home. idea9dv.gif This will not affect your process.

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Be lucky yer not in Texas. When the cops are called, someone is taken away, regardless.

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olsan3   8

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Thanks Tim/Mav!

Be lucky yer not in Texas. When the cops are called, someone is taken away, regardless.

lucky me.

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Tim/Mav   305

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Thanks Tim/Mav!

lucky me.

May I suggest a : Candlelight dinner... A re-run of the "Never ending Story" and a water Pistol.

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The lawyer advice (I am not one) would be not to spend days apart, while AOS is still pending, as it is one of the questions that can come up during the interview, and you do not want to get into a situation where you have to justify that.

The friendly advice would be to go back home, since she has already apologized.

Either way wife > uncle. Go home smile.png

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are both of you Nigerians?leaving apart will raise a red flag during the interview.They will definetely ask the question during the interview now or when u apply for citizenship.U guys need to get your act together.you should be more concerned about fixing your marriage than the interview ahead.what are your piorities in this marriage?is it becoming a green card holder or having a happy married life?

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olsan3   8

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@GreenistheNewblack & Tim/Mav: I took the advice and i will return home..

@Philek: Yes, we both are Nigerians. The incident was not reported neither is it likely to get to that level again. We aren't living apart, there was a disagreement, so i left to cool off and create some space for a bit. We are definitely still living together. Our priorities are in the right place.

Thank you for your opinions.

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7/17/2013 - I-485 status updated to "Testing and Interview".

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8/17/2013 - EAD Received.

8/22/2013 - SSC Received.

9/12/2013 - AOS Interview - Further Review needed.

10/03/2013 - AOS APPROVED!!!
10/15/2013 - GC Received.

.....till 2015.

30/09/2015 - Mailed ROC Package to Vermont Lockbox

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sigh,

I never thought this would ever happen, but it did.

long story short, got into an argument with the missus, she got really loud and the cops showed up.

I was not taken into custody or none of that, neither was she.

she called to say sorry and i believe its over but i decided to go over to my uncle's for a few days, or weeks.

I just want to know if things like this( arguments, cops, me being away) will have some kind of negative impact on the process.. i already have an AOS interview.

Was a report taken by the police? I ask because in some states, just the fact that the police showed up would make it a domestic incident.

Cool off, make sure she is calm, talk about it. And try to go out for dinner or something, forget about this mess, and keep pushing forward.

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Be lucky yer not in Texas. When the cops are called, someone is taken away, regardless.

its the same way in florida......

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olsan3   8

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a report was not taken, they saw that no harm was done.

Its all cool now..she called my mom immediately i left and she really was sorry.

but knowing her, theres no point talking about anything for a week or so. But shes calm.

Was a report taken by the police? I ask because in some states, just the fact that the police showed up would make it a domestic incident.

Cool off, make sure she is calm, talk about it. And try to go out for dinner or something, forget about this mess, and keep pushing forward.

Really, thanks guys.

I went home yesterday and everything seemed fine.

will make sure this will never happen again.

AOS FROM F1

Met -January 8th, 2011

Married - February 1st, 2013

5/29/2013 - Mailed AOS Package to Chicago Lockbox

6/03/2013 - Package Received.

6/06/2013 - Check Cashed.

6/07/2013 - Receipt Date on NOAs - Transferred to National Benefits Center.

6/11/2013 - Received Hard copy NOAs.

6/14/2013 - Biometrics Appointment Notice.

7/08/2013 - Biometrics Done and Successful in Baltimore.

7/17/2013 - I-485 status updated to "Testing and Interview".

8/07/2013 - Interview Notice Received.(online/text).

8/08/2013 - Interview Notice Received.(Mail).

8/09/2013 - EAD Approved.

8/17/2013 - EAD Received.

8/22/2013 - SSC Received.

9/12/2013 - AOS Interview - Further Review needed.

10/03/2013 - AOS APPROVED!!!
10/15/2013 - GC Received.

.....till 2015.

30/09/2015 - Mailed ROC Package to Vermont Lockbox

09/11/2015 - Biometrics Taken in Baltimore

19/08/2016 - RFE received

12/10/2016 - RFE response package sent.

04/11/2016 - ROC APPROVED!!!

25/11/2016 - GC Received.

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del-2-5-2014   1,339

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This is a dangerous precedence that has been set. IMHO, the Cop caller, who was not in the wrong to call by the way, will call again. The Cops won't be as nice if there is a next time, hopefully not next time. That they didn't write a report is a fallacy.

Dinner and stuff is nice and all but personally I think you both should assess this situation as a severe learning lesson. Domestic violence is an expensive proposition both financially and time wise.

You were extremely lucky that one of you wasn't arrested, especially the male actor.

Good luck to you Guys.

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