He abandoned me

[EricaandHafedh 23]

In Islam it is legal for men to have up to 4 wives if they are living in Tunisia

actually polygamy is illegal in Tunisia. It is the only arab country where this is illegal.

[Rich and Wen 101]

Samiha,

So what happened in your situation? I hope everything worked out well for you. Keep us posted, we are all rooting for you!

[Darnell 8,479]

To bad she didn't read other sections of what other women went through by coming here.

Concur, this one point - it is 'to bad'.

[Shiobhan 235]

I understand your hurt shame and lost, but he abandon U & the visa process

U have to provide up to date tax papers and w2 at interview, he does NOT want

this relationship, he may realized the customs are different and want out...so

he stepped out....if its over with some men they'll just walk away, understand

that, why would U continue to chase a visa when U have no one here to love,

receive U & house U upon arrival...I say cancel the interview, and get an

annulment so later down the road this does not affect U visit the USA another way.

stay strong .

Edited August 16, 2013 by Jihana

[samiha 3]

Hi, sorry friends , i'm back, you haven't heard about me for long time, i know you have been thinkng about me and what's going on with me, i'm fine, i have talked to my family(sisters & mom) some of them were with me, some not, but they support me & i feel better, concerning my -husband- i contacted him after the long wait, he answered his phone telling me he will call back, he called back, guess what ! he was upset! for no good reason for more than month & he said he has not received the interview letter ! he call me from time to time, but i feel like i'm not married & i think seriously about some friend's post that maybe i'm lucky to discovered the changement now& not later when i will be with him in USA, i'm going to withdraw my visa process at my interview, may be i will let him know what i will do, may be not,i may be just send a letter to IV unit at the embassy, what do you think?

[Tebessa1111 16]

Samiha....

Glad you are doing okay. I noticed your interview date was 09/09/2013....How did it go? What did you decide? Keep us posted please...

Blessings

[john gibbs 17]

Hi, sorry friends , i'm back, you haven't heard about me for long time, i know you have been thinkng about me and what's going on with me, i'm fine, i have talked to my family(sisters & mom) some of them were with me, some not, but they support me & i feel better, concerning my -husband- i contacted him after the long wait, he answered his phone telling me he will call back, he called back, guess what ! he was upset! for no good reason for more than month & he said he has not received the interview letter ! he call me from time to time, but i feel like i'm not married & i think seriously about some friend's post that maybe i'm lucky to discovered the changement now& not later when i will be with him in USA, i'm going to withdraw my visa process at my interview, may be i will let him know what i will do, may be not,i may be just send a letter to IV unit at the embassy, what do you think?

just withdraw the visa petition and wait for the right guy to come along.

[HoussemAnna 20]

I am reading this topic and my heart goes out to you. It is so difficult to begin with when you go against your family's wishes and put your 100% trust in someone, just to have them hurt you. I know this is sometime later and I hope in your case everything is resolved to your satisfaction.

[Jawaree 718]

Oh well....the man is not been honest, you says you

don't like his ex, you wonder about telling your family

the situation, and there's selective understanding/speech

in your writing.

The man has shown you he does not care about you, move

on my dear girl, unless its bout a visa.