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I don't know. She's overprotective a bit because he is her only son, and her husband passed away many years ago when my fiancé was just a child. So I understand why his family is SO close.

This kind of stood out to me because some years ago my second daughter moved back in with me and her dad (my first hubby). Daughter and I went everywhere together, like best friends. When she married and moved to Australia I was crushed (but I didn't tell her). Your MIL could be feeling that about her son...maybe.

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22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 explaining the Service Request is currently being reviewed by an officer.
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 with Interview appointment for both of us for 28-Sep-2016
28-Sep-2016 Interview, both of us, separated, not hard, 10 min. each, result---said hubby will get GC in about 10 days
26-Oct-2016 *****STILL WAITING*****
02-Nov-2016 Card is being produced!!!
08-Nov-2016 Card is mailed
10-Nov-2016 Card is Delivered!!!! YAY
CITIZENSHIP: 

Biometrics appointment for 2020-03-27 has been cancelled until further notice as all field offices are closed because of COVID-19.

***NOA dated 12/10/2020 USCIS stated they are able to reuse previous Biometrics***

Interview was easy. My hubby's Oath Ceremony is scheduled for February 25th. I can't watch >sad< but happy he is getting his certificate!

25-FEB-2021 Oath Ceremony! My hubby is a Citizen!

 
 
 
 
 
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Jacque67
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Don't bother. Mother in laws are a pain in the a¥¥

Calypso
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What does your fiance have to say about his mom's attitude? Did he give you tips to make it easier for you and his mom and family to interact? I agree with the other posters. Once you take her son aw

Jacque67
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It is great that you are learning French, but I would stay clear of her , especially when you have children.

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I was looking for this link.... maybe this will help. You can choose the language you want to learn and download the lessons. You get 100 MP3s for free, listen anywhere http://www.goethe-verlag.com/book2/

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AAD1m5.pngThankYouUSA-Kosova.jpg

See my Timeline for details of our visa journey
17-Aug-2011 Our Wedding Day in Kosovo 
07-Nov-2011 Filed I-130
21-Nov-2011 NOA1
23-Aug-2012 NOA2 Approved 276 days
10-Jan-2013 Case complete via email

28-Feb-2013 Interview, result AP
11-Apr-2013 Embassy appointment - VISA APPROVED and issued in 4 hours
30-Apr-2013 POE Chicago O'Hare - He's home!

04-Sep-2014 Moved to northern California

12-Mar-2015 Filed ROC
16-Mar-2015 Documents delivered
18-Mar-2015 Check cashed
19-Mar-2015 NOA1 dated 03/16/2015 received in mail
13-Apr-2015 Biometrics completed
02-Feb-2016 Contacted USCIS about case, was told it's on hold because of security checks (email)
04-Mar-2016 Moved to Wisconsin
12-Aug-2016 New Biometrics appointment
14-Sep-2016 Contacted USCIS again about case (email said we should hear from them by Oct 6)
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 explaining the Service Request is currently being reviewed by an officer.
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 with Interview appointment for both of us for 28-Sep-2016
28-Sep-2016 Interview, both of us, separated, not hard, 10 min. each, result---said hubby will get GC in about 10 days
26-Oct-2016 *****STILL WAITING*****
02-Nov-2016 Card is being produced!!!
08-Nov-2016 Card is mailed
10-Nov-2016 Card is Delivered!!!! YAY
CITIZENSHIP: 

Biometrics appointment for 2020-03-27 has been cancelled until further notice as all field offices are closed because of COVID-19.

***NOA dated 12/10/2020 USCIS stated they are able to reuse previous Biometrics***

Interview was easy. My hubby's Oath Ceremony is scheduled for February 25th. I can't watch >sad< but happy he is getting his certificate!

25-FEB-2021 Oath Ceremony! My hubby is a Citizen!

 
 
 
 
 
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This kind of stood out to me because some years ago my second daughter moved back in with me and her dad (my first hubby). Daughter and I went everywhere together, like best friends. When she married and moved to Australia I was crushed (but I didn't tell her). Your MIL could be feeling that about her son...maybe.

Honestly, I think she is feeling that way. He has been away from France for about 5 years now for his M.S. degree and PhD, and this summer is his first time back home in a long time (well, for more than just Christmas anyway). So I can imagine that she is really wishing that he would just stay in France. But everybody knows that he is just here while we do our immigration process (and/or until he finds a job somewhere).

I know that she doesn't dislike me... but I wish she would show more kindness while I am here for such a short period of time before he and I get married next year (to receive her "blessing," I suppose). But maybe it's like somebody said in a previous reply... the bonding aspect of relationships is different in France vs the US vs anywhere else.

Anyway, I'll keep a smile on my face and hope things get better once I learn more French. But the truth is that I just feel awkward being here because I feel like the American girl who is stealing her child away.

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