The best way to look at the passing of time int he visa process

[yabasta 0]

Each day or second or week or month or whatever it might be is like hell if you think of it like another day in exile or another day alone. Think of it as a day closer to nirvana. A day nearer your goal. A day closer to happiness.

We will all be there someday. It might not be soon but our day will come.

Good luck to you all.

this is my regular pep talk that i like to give as it boosts my spirit and hopefulyl helps others. You know you are nto alone even if it feels that way. There is not only your lover across the border/ocean/whatever, but there are also many other couples in the same situation.

Yes it sometimes feels like prison and it is wrong for governments to impose such insane cruelty but you will overcome this and be stronger for it. You will be that bit more apreciative of each other. If you really are meant to be together this si the ultimate test.

Think positive all of you and if you ever feel down just rant on here and let off steam.

peace

[Bella 0]

you are so sweet clyde.

[aussiewench 9]

Nope we are not alone.....thats the beauty of VJ. I know I would of gone absolutely stir crazy without all the support here. Looking at it positively as one day closer does help enormously.

Nice post thank you. I hope your visa journey ends soon and you are reunited with your love