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My Fiancee is 15yrs older than me. She is petitioning for me as she is the US citizen. As from the people around us we have had no support in this. We are just worried that would this be considered a Red Flag for the K1 visa approval?

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Yes, you need to look at YOUR consulate's reviews, because MENA countries are known for young men shopping for older females and visa fraud. People from other countries just can't compare to theirs.

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Unless your fiancee makes several trips to visit and spend time with you while you are there, the age difference is a huge red flag. You might want to research further in all the portals about stories

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You seem to have hit all the buttons.

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what country issued your passport ?

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what country issued your passport ?

I am orginally from pakistan but I have lived in Dubai all my life. So yeah Technically I hold a Pakistani passport.

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Is she also of Pakistani origin, child bearing age, Muslim etc.

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Is she also of Pakistani origin, child bearing age, Muslim etc.

Naa isn't. She is American, past the age of having kids (Has 2 from her past marriage) and she is a Unitarian.

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My Fiancee is 15yrs older than me. She is petitioning for me as she is the US citizen. As from the people around us we have had no support in this. We are just worried that would this be considered a Red Flag for the K1 visa approval?

Unless your fiancee makes several trips to visit and spend time with you while you are there, the age difference is a huge red flag. You might want to research further in all the portals about stories with age difference. It tends to make a CO's eye brow go up with specific countries which it is out of the norm to marry an older woman.

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Unless your fiancee makes several trips to visit and spend time with you while you are there, the age difference is a huge red flag. You might want to research further in all the portals about stories with age difference. It tends to make a CO's eye brow go up with specific countries which it is out of the norm to marry an older woman.

Best of luck!

Its been a little over an year that she had to leave but we have been together for almost 8yrs and have enough to prove. Do you think that helps?

Can you please suggest any other portals?

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Naa isn't. She is American, past the age of having kids (Has 2 from her past marriage) and she is a Unitarian.

You seem to have hit all the buttons.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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How much time in person have you spent together?

Do you have proof of time spent in person?

Do you have proof of communication throughout your entire relationship?

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How much time in person have you spent together?

Do you have proof of time spent in person?

Do you have proof of communication throughout your entire relationship?

Oh yes, all of it. We have even vacationed in other countries together too. We have compiled and submitted the record of our relationship from day one to present.

Emails, Chats, Facebook conversations, Cell phone chats, Pictures, Etc.

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Its been a little over an year that she had to leave but we have been together for almost 8yrs and have enough to prove. Do you think that helps?

Can you please suggest any other portals?

Has she lived with you for several of these years ? If not, do you have proof that you have continually communicated those 8 years ?

If yes then the age difference should not be a problem. Eight years is a long time but you have to back it up with evidence.

Curious...why file after 8 years and not sooner ?

Sorry, just posted at the same time you answered.

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Has she lived with you for several of these years ? If not, do you have proof that you have continually communicated those 8 years ?

If yes then the age difference should not be a problem. Eight years is a long time but you have to back it up with evidence.

Curious...why file after 8 years and not sooner ?

Sorry, just posted at the same time you answered.

Agreed with Ebunoluwa. age difference shudnt be a problem, but i dont get it you guys've been in relation for 8years but filing for K-1 just nw ?wht took you so long to do this? im really sorry iam not trying to be mean nr im trying to be CO but he/she can ask you anything at the interview you have to be prepare for everything and forget abt the age diff i've seen ppl getting approvd on 40+ age differences.. Good luck on your journey :)

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