proof of relationship

[me & her 2]

we've been emailing each other since the first time we met amounting to thousands of messages,we've been talking on phone almost on a daily basis,,sent afew gifts via DHL,.........will those be enough to prove an ongoing relationship?

we got our NOA2 and now just trying to gather important information in preparation of the interview,

chime in good people!

[Pitaya 2,577]

~~Moved from K-1 Process to K-1 Progress Forum~~

[St&Sv 33]

I'm just chiming in with that I would do in your situation, since mine is a little different as I was fortunate enough to visit my Fiancee one last time after submitting the I129f. In your shoes I would probably break my emails down into 3 groups, right after you submitted your documents, the middle, and present. I would include ones where we talked about our future together, and what we will do when we are together. I would also find a few that had light-hearted conversations that show how well we interact with each other. Then get a copy of my phone record, and if you have the slips from DHL still I would send them along as well. This to me would show the officer that yes we still are together, we talk everyday, I send her gifts, and we have a relationship. Also vise versa, if she has sent you anything as well. Like I said these are just my personal thoughts, and maybe someone with experience with your consulate office will chime in.

I would also check out: http://nairobi.usembassy.gov/immigrant_visas.html if you haven't already

Best of Luck and may your journey be paved out of smooth stone.

Edited July 24, 2013 by St&Sv

[Ryan H 3,812]

Returned to Process & Procedures after discussion via PM with A&B.

[baron555 934]

we've been emailing each other since the first time we met amounting to thousands of messages,we've been talking on phone almost on a daily basis,,sent afew gifts via DHL,.........will those be enough to prove an ongoing relationship?

we got our NOA2 and now just trying to gather important information in preparation of the interview,

chime in good people!

It's not quantity but quality and content of the communications that can prove a relationship.

I ended up drafting about a three page letter the could have been tited "Evolution of our Relationship". This letter described how our relatonship began and grew and blossomed, incorporated our trip to meet in person and how our discussions moved from talking about ourselves to our future lives together and how the little one would and could fit in and what plans were being made for his future (preschool and future education, etc).

Your communications should show the usuall flow and evolution of a real relationship, from getting to know each other to later talking about the fine details of life together and their life in a new country.

[me & her 2]

ST&SV

thanks so much for those great ideas,i dont have "quote option" to quote some highlights that i wanna thank you for.

i do so much appreciate what you have told me,i will do exactly that!

GOD BLESS

[Neema 4]

Just have the pictures, if u have given her a ring or necklace she should have it too, your letters of communication as described above, call logs, skype logs, receipts and envelopes of any letters you sent (proof that letter was sent), and she should know everthing about you.....If your interview date is close, let her ask you any questions that she might need answers to. Because of the age difference more questions might come her way. That was my experience. Hope hers will be better. All the best.