Fradulent husband married for a visa

[Hollyday 122]

Update: My soon to be x husband told my parents he feels uncomfortable leaving with them now, and would prefer to move to Texas and live with his cousin. He told my family he wanted them to side with him when this divorce trial came forth. I called my family and agreed to give him a second chance. He did not ever imagine that would occur. He was hesitant and when he was holding back it made my parents suspicious. That he was the one that has been pushing for a second chance since I left, and now when I agreed, he decided other wise. When my brother pushed me to come inside, my family was glad to see me. But it didn't go so well with my x.....Instead he called extended family and left the house. Which proved to my parents that maybe I wasn't entirely at fault...But I refused to remain at my residence, I don't need to deal with added stress, my parents disagreed, but am grown.

Good job Taal! Be strong, you're doing the right thing. You should be free to choose your life and not stay with this manipulative abuser. I'm totally with Darnell on this.

[nirshd47 10]

Hi Taal,

First of all, what culture are u talking about? The hell with culture, especially Indian culture!! You are living in 2013.

GO AHEAD AND FILE YOUR DIVORCE with the BIG TIME FRAUD PIECE OF SH*T JERK!!!!!!

Get him stuck royally. Every action has a reaction and getting him stuck and pay for all the hardships he gave you HAS TO BE YOUR REACTION.

He should be taught a lesson.

Tell ur parents, that the so-called 'embarrassment' is just in their mind. Also, ask your parents, 'what culture are you talking about?' The culture that got you to this point?? This excuse is nothing but TOTAL NONSENSE. They will get over it within a few months and you will be free.

If that FRAUD JERKSTER that tricked you is acting smart, YOU NEED TO BE UP SMART.

Start gathering evidence. Maybe set up a mini recorder and keep it under the sofa or above the cabinet around where he sits. You can come up with better ways to out smart him. Keep writing here to more tip, etc. I am sure all of us here can help you with this.

Just keep the culture ####### out of this situation since it does not apply to your case and definitely does not help you at all.

Also, you dont be sad to be an 'indian girl', because you can be however you wana be without that label.

[rawas 13]

Divorce him, leave him,

[nane1104 146]

I am really sorry for what has happened to you but as I was continuing to read through all your posts, I am thinking you will come out of this as an even stronger woman than you already are. You are very smart (giving him a "second chance"? genius!!) and you are doing the right thing to persue your happiness!!!

In this long line-up of people who get scammed and can't let go, I am so happy you are standing up for yourself. I wish you only the best and all the happiness in the world!!! I can only admire your attitude!

[CaizLurol 36]

Very depressing. My parents told me divorce would be the biggest embarrassment I could bring them....Hurts....

If your parents told you that divorce would be the biggest embarrassment then f**k them.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Avoid beating yourself up. Sometimes, we simply get snookered.

OMG this is the best POST EVER!