Why are so many American Men connecting with Filipina's

[G. Simoun 3]

I think Blue Bunny has overestimated this forum. She should just get the hell out! It's a lost cause, Blue Bunny! Run away! Run away, or you'll get the stupidcootiez!

Thank you Blue Bunny for taking 3 days to write all of that.

[actob99 156]

Maybe use... "some" "most and not all"... when addressing characteristics... will resolve some arguments.

Anyway, majority of USC men think that most Filipina are easy to deal with and easy to control compare to USC women.

Tsk! Sadly this doesn't apply to me and my husband. So, I think we're part of those minority. LoL.

I see quite the opposite in my big circle of friends, which includes about 10 couples living in the Phils. The wife has just as much control, if not more. Come on, you can't control a filipina!!!

[Blue Bianchi 77]

Another great example of dissonance reduction!

Thank you Blue Bunny for taking 3 days to write all of that.

[jhonster 23]

I am working on that !!!! :-)

Cheers

cjmc

If you don't mind me asking. How did you guys meet and where is she from? Have you filed for a fiance' visa or gotten married already?

[cjmc 10]

If you don't mind me asking. How did you guys meet and where is she from? Have you filed for a fiance' visa or gotten married already?

We meet over 9 years ago through a good friend of mine that is married to her older sister...it is just in the last year that we reconnected :-)

We are on the path of the fiance' Visa, our interview in Manila is next Thursday. We plan on getting married here in Seattle on September 28th if the rest of this process goes ok. She is from Angeles City North of Manila.

cjmc

[adiiann 163]

LoL. Sure you can, to most. Seen it several times to most Filipina I've met here in US. Most Filipina won't admit it. Haha. Sometimes, trying to fit with them, have to act like one which makes my husband laugh. I just told him... bear with me... I've been here for 4 yrs and all my friends are American. :-D

I see quite the opposite in my big circle of friends, which includes about 10 couples living in the Phils. The wife has just as much control, if not more. Come on, you can't control a filipina!!!

[G. Simoun 3]

Uh oh, she's from Angeles.

We meet over 9 years ago through a good friend of mine that is married to her older sister...it is just in the last year that we reconnected :-)

We are on the path of the fiance' Visa, our interview in Manila is next Thursday. We plan on getting married here in Seattle on September 28th if the rest of this process goes ok. She is from Angeles City North of Manila.

cjmc

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I see quite the opposite in my big circle of friends, which includes about 10 couples living in the Phils. The wife has just as much control, if not more. Come on, you can't control a filipina!!!

In the end, not really, not without a lot of anguish. The best you can hope for, is to mitigate the damage as much a possible.

We manged to establish her own credit, and no more joint credit cards. The other day, a debit card arrives in the mail.

"Honey, what this? Another credit card?"

"I don't this so....oh wait! That is a debit card I ordered."

"Why do you need a debit card? You already have two credit cards!"

"I want to save money for my trip to New York next year."

"How much did you put on the card?"

"Twenty dollars."

"How much did they charge you for that?"

"Three dollars."

"So, you paid three dollars so you could spend you own money?"

"I guess so."

[X Factor 1,112]

They are just too sweet to not like.

So true

[cjmc 10]

Uh oh, she's from Angeles.

What does that mean...I am trying to understand....is there something wrong with Angeles City ?

cjmc

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

What does that mean...I am trying to understand....is there something wrong with Angeles City ?

cjmc

https://www.google.com/search?q=Angeles+city+sex+workers

[Darnell 8,478]

Why are so many American Men connecting with Filipina's

Cause the womens use the sticky glues... Who can break away when there's sticky glues?

[DavenRoxy 1,073]

Some real dumbasses on here, still, and and prolly always will be. Sorry, Charles, but it's true.

The Philippines is a MATRIARCHAL society. Look that up, read it, and understand it before you think they are a subservient group of women. Some may be, but most aren't. My wife isn't. And I don't know very many who are.

But dedicated, loving, and jealous? Yes. Mine is. And most I know are. Also, harder working than most of the men in their society.

Why am I with mine? What attracted me? First, it was the glance across a crowded room. Then a conversation. Then a kiss I remembered for months afterwards, though it wasn't a sexual kiss at all. But very sensual. She kissed my core. And then there's the scent... my wife doesn't seem to understand, but her smell without perfume draws me to her like no woman before.

Lots of things. The beauty. The hair. The brown eyes that can be at once so full of love, and yet drip venom. It's not about a race, nor a country. I wasn't looking for love when I found my Pinay. But I'm thankful that our paths crossed, and very glad she saw something in me worth keeping. She's no better than a woman from any other country, except.... she loves ME. And that makes her one of a kind.

[cjmc 10]

Uh oh, she's from Angeles.

I think what might be going on with your comment is a generalization based on information that is pretty negative about the area of Angles City....

From my understanding, because of the influence of Clark Airbase filled with the American military during WWll that prostitution and easy women was very prominent.

If you actually think about most cities, there are good area's and bad area's and the influence of military bases all over the world certainly has created some negative identities in the culture of those area's.

That does not mean that those areas in general have not changed and are still that way.

I have made 4 trips to Angeles City in less than 9 months and have seen the good and the bad......but in general.....I see a nice place with lots of ambition, new construction and more worldly change for the good.....

Please do not generalize your thoughts like this.....it is not fair to the people that are good and really understand.

Just my thoughts....

Cheers,

cjmc

[cjmc 10]

Some real dumbasses on here, still, and and prolly always will be. Sorry, Charles, but it's true.

The Philippines is a MATRIARCHAL society. Look that up, read it, and understand it before you think they are a subservient group of women. Some may be, but most aren't. My wife isn't. And I don't know very many who are.

But dedicated, loving, and jealous? Yes. Mine is. And most I know are. Also, harder working than most of the men in their society.

Why am I with mine? What attracted me? First, it was the glance across a crowded room. Then a conversation. Then a kiss I remembered for months afterwards, though it wasn't a sexual kiss at all. But very sensual. She kissed my core. And then there's the scent... my wife doesn't seem to understand, but her smell without perfume draws me to her like no woman before.

Lots of things. The beauty. The hair. The brown eyes that can be at once so full of love, and yet drip venom. It's not about a race, nor a country. I wasn't looking for love when I found my Pinay. But I'm thankful that our paths crossed, and very glad she saw something in me worth keeping. She's no better than a woman from any other country, except.... she loves ME. And that makes her one of a kind.

Very well spoken !!! Thanks for your comment..... :-)