What problems have I caused myself?

[niceguy 0]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

[Mike and Lily 13]

Did she get her visa and come to the USA?

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

[jamrok 0]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

So, you are dumping this girl because she has a medical problem?????? Trading her in for another????

[pj1959us 0]

Sooooo...what happened after the K-1 visa was approved? Was she actually given the K-1? What is the status now?

[payxibka 10,047]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

IMBRA waiver will be required upon third petition filed regardless of time lapse or if a previous petition was approved and it has been less than two years time.

[niceguy 0]

Did she get her visa and come to the USA?

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

No she never used the visa.

[jamrok 0]

Did she get her visa and come to the USA?

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

No she never used the visa.

You are the very reason why we have IMBRA. This girl is not a commodity to be bartered and traded. EXPLAIN yourself SIR.

[Savanphil 3]

Did she get her visa and come to the USA?

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

No she never used the visa.

You are the very reason why we have IMBRA. This girl is not a commodity to be bartered and traded. EXPLAIN yourself SIR.

:lol: yuh not easy atall

[Dean iWait 0]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

So, you are dumping this girl because she has a medical problem?????? Trading her in for another????

Apparently.

[niceguy 0]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

So, you are dumping this girl because she has a medical problem?????? Trading her in for another????

Yes but I have good reason! I have small children and the problem was a mental issue and it was a serious one but I managed to clear her name at the embassy. I just dont want to make a mistake with my kids! If it were just me and didnt involve my kids it would have been different...im sure you would have question this yourself if you were in my shoes.

[gupt0014 0]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

So, you are dumping this girl because she has a medical problem?????? Trading her in for another????

Yes but I have good reason! I have small children and the problem was a mental issue and it was a serious one but I managed to clear her name at the embassy. I just dont want to make a mistake with my kids! If it were just me and didnt involve my kids it would have been different...im sure you would have question this yourself if you were in my shoes.

No need to explain anything to anyone. If you are not comfortable with this or her, you are making the right decision. Your children come first. Period!

[niceguy 0]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

So, you are dumping this girl because she has a medical problem?????? Trading her in for another????

Yes but I have good reason! I have small children and the problem was a mental issue and it was a serious one but I managed to clear her name at the embassy. I just dont want to make a mistake with my kids! If it were just me and didnt involve my kids it would have been different...im sure you would have question this yourself if you were in my shoes.

No need to explain anything to anyone. If you are not comfortable with this or her, you are making the right decision. Your children come first. Period!

Exactly....thanks....i knew there would be those to be quick to judge me but hey I still support her there, I also sent her to nursing school in hopes she can get a better means to support herself. I just didnt dump her and this was not an easy decision ether!

[no name 1]

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn’t know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I’m wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

So, you are dumping this girl because she has a medical problem?????? Trading her in for another????

Yes but I have good reason! I have small children and the problem was a mental issue and it was a serious one but I managed to clear her name at the embassy. I just dont want to make a mistake with my kids! If it were just me and didnt involve my kids it would have been different...im sure you would have question this yourself if you were in my shoes.

No need to explain anything to anyone. If you are not comfortable with this or her, you are making the right decision. Your children come first. Period!

Exactly....thanks....i knew there would be those to be quick to judge me but hey I still support her there, I also sent her to nursing school in hopes she can get a better means to support herself. I just didnt dump her and this was not an easy decision ether!

It's not that you dumped her, you went ahead with the visa when you shoulda called it off, and now you are ready for a new model (true love does not fade so quickly), one that's illness free! God, think about how callous your post sounds.

[Yodrak 7]

niceguy,

The law of unexpected consequences - another example of why people should not be so quick to dismiss the idea of having a consultation with an immigration attorney before making important decisions.

Yodrak

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn't know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I'm wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

[niceguy 0]

niceguy,

The law of unexpected consequences - another example of why people should not be so quick to dismiss the idea of having a consultation with an immigration attorney before making important decisions.

Yodrak

I have broken things off with my fiancée because of something that became known thought the medical testing during the K1 process that I didn't know before I started. I allowed the visa to be processed because I do care for this person even though I choose not to marry her because of this. I thought that if I canceled the petition It would have left her in a bad spot with the embassy (Manila) and she would have even a harder time getting approved if she finds another or even attracting another if they knew what they were up against to get her. Believe me It wasnt good!! Anyway when I found out about the problem it caused me to have to fly to Manila three times this year to deal with it. I jumped through all the embassy hoops to clear her name so she would be ok in the embassy eyes. It was difficult but she was cleared and approved but by getting her approved I never thought about the problems it could cause me.

Since then I have met another that I'm interested in so I'm wondering if I petition this person in the near future will this cause me a problem even though I never fulfilled the visa of my X-fiancée? This has all happened over the last year and I figure if things go well I will petition a K1 again next year.

Yodrak,

Your right I defiantly should have started with a consultation with an attorney but at the time my thoughts were about what was right for her and not me. If I had canceled the petition I’m sure it would have been worse for her and I’m sure I can deal with the problems it will cause me....so I made the right decision.

I know everybody wants to make me out to be this bad...heartless person but I am not that and like I said if it didn’t involve my kids my decision would have been different but this is a person I’m trusting with the most important part of my life...."MY KIDS"! So it was my fiancée or my kids....I choose to make sure my kids would be ok. Maybe others would have made a different decision. It’s easy to say you would have done it different and I didn’t come here to be judged anyway....nobody here is in my shoes or knows the full extent of this problem. The embassy doesn’t ether….if they would have found out everything she would have been totally ineligible for a visa.

So if your here to judge me pls keep your comments to yourself.