The SteveAndTiff Identity

[dwheels76 5,469]

Debbie... some people are just stupid, they don't want to learn. Others think they have it all figured out. Let them be. You can only help someone so much, and if it's not the answer they want to hear, they're being closed minded so no answer will work for them except the one they want to hear.

People say that it's the people that don't take no for an answer that get what they want. But it's a misunderstood concept. When you hear no, that doesn't mean keep smashing your head into the wall until that person says yes. That's insanity (doing the same thing over and over but expecting a different result.) It means to take a new route, find a new way, to get what you want. Just because you can't jump from A to Z doesn't mean that you can't go from A to C to Z or A to C to J to T to Z. There generally is a route, but people are inherently lazy. Progress is made because people are lazy but the person who makes whatever it is easier, that has found an interest that keeps their brain moving and are NOT being lazy. Not everything should be made easier though. The harder it is, the better you feel about obtaining the goal! Someone who loses 5lbs probably doesn't feel the same joy in their accomplishment as someone who loses 50, or 150!

Basically you can only help someone who is actually willing to help themselves.

Niki girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll preach. I mean in my groups on facebook I am known to ummm know a little bit. These women are dealing with Nigeria now and they are looking at post and such of well UK, Canada and say "they say you don't front-load you bring to interview and this and that".

I have been helping folk for over 2 years and have not yet got a denial. The ones who came to me after a denial (yep didn't submit nothing) we got that reaffirm NOID evidence together hubbies are home.

Honestly of the women i deal with every month a husband has been coming home. It's bitter sweet but its all good because I had a part. My day will come. In the meantime i get to hang with ya'll and hear your adventures.

I so need this job so I can buy this cheapo house across the street from my grandkids where I live now. I have interviewed with director (nothing like lying in bed drinking wine watching Disney. I swear we talked like old sorority sistahs reconnecting. So now its a interview next with the company CHEVRON baby.

A little about my new job because its mine i claim. I will be based in Houston but I will fly back and forth to (wait for it) New Orleans. Like a week there a week back a week there and oh I will be flying on the (wait for it) company jet. All expenses paid everything. Very excited. So I am so ready.

So in your daily to do's think of Debbie here (dwheels to ya'll) and through up a prayer, some deuces (Steve do you know what that means) LOL

I am very very happy, and joyous lately and well soon all will know why I am full of joy and happiness. My breakthrough has come and well I am receiving the blessing of God. All the months of tears have been counted. My heart is healing and well I am over the moon happy........Lord I am going on

[SAT 9,609]

Deb Good Luck !

and whadaya mean deuces? like victory?

I need my afternoon coffee...

[dwheels76 5,469]

Deb Good Luck !

and whadaya mean deuces? like victory?

I need my afternoon coffee...

Throwing up deuces is the peace sign.

[SAT 9,609]

That's victory to me

[Darnell 8,479]

wot to do with a seperated Phils lass on an immigration web portal? aiyo.

[NikLR 13,232]

Why? Why do people choose to combine income with a household member? Why? Do you share taxes with this person? Does he depend on you? Do you depend on him and he claims you on your taxes? Why?

I never understand why people choose to do the household member route, it's like they completely misunderstand the meaning of "household member."

I think there are a great many people on this site that should be using a service or lawyer. Hey Debbie, maybe we should open one up part time? LOL!!! Since you'll be busy flying on company jets, though, maybe I should...

Niki's new job... NIKIR IMMIGRATION SERVICES - not a lawyer but I'm good at paperwork! LAWL!!!!

[SAT 9,609]

in the state of NY, all you need is like a 10,000 dollar surety bond and you're an immigration consultant

You can make 1 million dollas

[NikLR 13,232]

So why don't you do that? Sounds like a better 1 million dolla plan than some of your other ones. Especially the TOS removed one!

[KayDeeCee 4,896]

Why? Why do people choose to combine income with a household member? Why? Do you share taxes with this person? Does he depend on you? Do you depend on him and he claims you on your taxes? Why?

I never understand why people choose to do the household member route, it's like they completely misunderstand the meaning of "household member."

I think there are a great many people on this site that should be using a service or lawyer. Hey Debbie, maybe we should open one up part time? LOL!!! Since you'll be busy flying on company jets, though, maybe I should...

Niki's new job... NIKIR IMMIGRATION SERVICES - not a lawyer but I'm good at paperwork! LAWL!!!!

YES! "What is the difference between the i-864 and I-864A? Doesn't the joint sponsor fill out an I-864A? Well, we DO live together so they have to fill out the I-864A!" Argh....and an ugh too.

Along the same lines... I do not mind people asking me for help. I will gladly help them. However, I do mind when I provide a link to information that answers their question and they apparently do not bother to read it and ask me the same question again 5 minutes later. Help is help. It is not holding your hand and doing it all for you.

[Darnell 8,479]

part of the DIY thingie on an immigration web site, covers reading.

I'm so convinced there's a demographic o folk who just flat out refuse to read.

[SAT 9,609]

So why don't you do that? Sounds like a better 1 million dolla plan than some of your other ones. Especially the TOS removed one!

Now why would I wanna go and do a thang like that dear......I don't even wanna talk about immigration here lol.....

There are many "Notarios" here that pump out I-130s all day long for these poor saps that come across them. It's lucrative. I won't get into it. BTW, Tax-preparers fall into the same category.

Congratulations Niki. You're an Immigration consultant and a Tax preparer

part of the DIY thingie on an immigration web site, covers reading.

I'm so convinced there's a demographic o folk who just flat out refuse to read.

I refuse to read......

[SAT 9,609]

44 years ago today....

"That's one small step for (a) man, one giant leap for mankind"

(worth the honorable mention)

[NikLR 13,232]

I told my husband "apparently 44 years ago we landed on the moon."

I got "ok"

*giggle*

I am neither of those things Steve. I prefer to be helpful when possible, which occasionally means forceful if necessary and then finally good at ignoring when needed. (I'm sorry I can't tell you what you want to hear... but that's not my problem.) I think people forget this is all free and I share my time with them. It's the few grateful ones that make it worth the effort.

We went to Red Lobster for lunch. I have so much food left over but I REALLY enjoyed the crab legs. Hubs asked why we can't raise crabs in captivity. Now I have to google that.

[SAT 9,609]

You can catch 1 million crabs at my marina. Then sell them for 1 dollar each.....

What does that make? About 700 grand?

[SAT 9,609]

Ah the heat wave is over.....thunder storming now.....

I'm going outside to fly my Apollo 11 commemorative kite now....