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LmmL   46

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Thanks guys! Maybe he's not the one for me. He was just a little bump along the way. He didn't cancel the rfe coz he said that what if things would work out between us in the future. He doesn't wanna start all over again. For now he just don't know what to do, of what he really wants. (But i think i don't want it anymore, i should never be an option. I deserve someone better). By the way i'm sorry about the month march what i mean is we had rfe on may then got approve on june.

Is he married before he met you? if he was, you need to understand that his feeling is not steady yet. From the way he didn't cancel the RFE shows that actually deep inside he's still love you. But, if he wasn't married before he met you then you need to forget about him, he's not the one for you. (believe me!)

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Ebunoluwa
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Never make someone a priority that only makes you an option. Move on with your head held high and make it clear that you have zero tolerance for games. Know your value, know your worth. He sounds v

Confusedtinybird
Confusedtinybird

I'm so sorry. The only thing postive is your found out now!! You will find someone much better who will love you. You can get through this!

Northbeauty
Northbeauty

No one deserves that, and i am really sorry to hear what happen. If he is your it does matter what he feels, thinks ,or decide,he will come back. And if he dose"nt return.This way you know he is not

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Ebunoluwa   6,136

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Never make someone a priority that only makes you an option. Move on with your head held high and make it clear that you have zero tolerance for games.

Know your value, know your worth.

He sounds very lost and unstable.

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I-129F Sent : 3-31-2014, NOA2: 4-6-2014

NVC Received : some dinkelsberry yehoo in the house of clingons send our petition to the wrong consulate.

Consulate Received : July 30,2014 Transfer to right embassy complete.

Interview Date : Oct 22, 2014

Interview Result : AP , requesting another PC (not expired) and certified divorce decree (was submitted)Stokes interview via phone for petitioner 4 hrs after interview.

Oct 23 email notification visa approved.
Visa Received : Nov. 3 , 2014 VISA IN HAND.

US Entry : Nov. 21, 2014

Marriage : Dec 27, 2014

AOS send : May 12, 2015, received May 14, 2015 USPS priority

Email &text : May 18, 2015, check cashed May 19,2015, return receipt May 21, 2015 stamped USCIS Lockbox, NOA1 (3x) May 22,2015

Biometrics : June 1, 2015 letter received for appointment June 8, 2015, successful walk-in June 1, 2015

RFE : June 12, 2015 for income not meeting guideline. Income does ( ! ) exceed guideline.

RFE response : June 26, 2015 returned with a boat load full of financial evidence.

UPDATE: July 5, 2015 updated on all 3 cases, RFE received June 30, 2015.

Service request : Aug 12, 2015, letter received that it will be processed within 90 days from receipt of RFE.

UPDATE: Aug 24, 2015, EAD card being produced/ordered. ( 102 days from AOS receipt day and 55 days from RFE response received.) Thank you Jesus !

Emails : Aug 24, 2015, EAD approved, EAD card ordered.

I-797 EAD/AP approval notice received : Aug 27, 2015

EAD/AP combo card mailed : Aug 27, 2015, EAD/AP combo card received: Aug 31, 2015

Renewal application send for EAD/AP : May 31,2016 (AOS pending over 1 year). Received June 2, 2016,Notice date June7, 2016, emails,texts, NOA1 hard copy

Service request for pending AOS April 21, 2016, case not assigned yet.
Service request for pending AOS June 14, 2016, tier 2 said performing background checks.
Expedite request for EAD/AP Aug 3, 2016, Aug10 notification >request was received, assigned, completed. RFE letter requesting evidence for expedite, docs faxed Aug18

*Service request for I-485 Aug 3, 2016, Aug11 notification> request was assigned. Service request Dec 2, 2016.
AOS Interview letter received Aug 12, 2016

AOS Interview September 21, 2016.

Second Biometrics appointment letters received for EAD and AOS on Aug 15, 2016 for Aug 17 ( 2 day notice).

Second Biometrics completed Aug 17, 2016

Third Biometrics appointment letter received Aug 19, 2016 for Sept. 1, 2016. WTH ?!

EAD/AP (renewal) approval Aug 22, 2016, NOA2 received Aug 25, 2016

Renewal EAD in production notification text and online, expedite successful 4 days after RFE request response was faxed, Aug25mailed,Aug29received.

Sept. 21 Interview, 2 hour interview, we were separated and asked about 50 questions each for an hour each. IO was firm but professional, some smiles.
Several service requests made, contacted Senator and Ombudsman. Background checks still pending.
July 21, 2017 HOME VISIT.  Went well. Topic thread in AOS forum.
Waiting to skip ROC and get 10 yr GC due to over 2 year while pending AOS
AOS APPROVED Oct. 4, 2017 * Green card in hand Oct 13, 2017 !!!!!

First K1 denied after 16 month of AP. Refiled. We are a couple since 2009. Not a sprint but a matter of endurance.

 

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India23   22

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So sorry! Like you said.. You should not be an option. He is NOT worth your time. Trust me when someome really loves you they love you through everything & a little thing like long distance wouldnt stand in the way! Be strong & the perfect guy for you is out there.. Just cut all communication with him (but after making sure he cancels the petition incase u need to file again someday) & give yourself time to heal. Good luck to you. Just remember that you are a good person & good things will come your way. :)

raizzing Newbie

raizzing   1

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Hi guys! I just saw a picture. He's already going out with the girl, it's not even 2 weeks since the breakup. This just tells me more that i need to move on. Just hurts a lot coz now everybody asking me what happened.

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kalusha   21

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stay strong, heal up and pick your self up and move on. The journey is a long one and it is a good thing to gear before you hit the road. Sometimes you need to repair things and i guess this is one of the things that needed repairs, it is good you found out now than down the road. I am sorry for you.

Timeline for N-400   
Package Sent ----> 3/13/17

Package Received ---> Friday, March 17, 2017 @ 3:50 am

CC Charged ---->  3/20/2017
NOA ----> 3/23/17                                                                                
Finger Prints ---> 4/14/2017 --> Early FP 4/12/17!!
Inline for an Interview notice received ---> 4/14/17
Interview Scheduled ---> Waiting for letter in the mail to see the actual date.  8/30/17
letter in the mail arrived ---> 9/5/17
Interview Date ---> 10/05/17
Oath ---> 10/12/2017
 
 
FherJess Community Regular

FherJess   15

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Hi guys! I just saw a picture. He's already going out with the girl, it's not even 2 weeks since the breakup. This just tells me more that i need to move on. Just hurts a lot coz now everybody asking me what happened.

Wow how incredibly INCONSIDERATE and terrible of him to do. Have pics of him with the other person.

I really am sorry.

Please DON'T wait around for him to decide what HE wants to do.

Decide for yourself that this person is the wrong one and move on.

If you start to feel sad, as much as it's going to hurt, just remind yourself that he's out there not thinking of your feelings.

Remind yourself that you are special and deserving of REAL TRUE UNBREAKABLE LOVE.

I wish you all the best and please stay strong.

KazuriSana Community Regular

KazuriSana   324

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You are very lucky that this happened at the stage it did. Much better than 3 or 4 or 10 years down the road. Your best life wasn't meant to be with him. Take heart

AOS, ROC, N-400, & PASSPORT, FOR HUSBAND TO USC

[02/23, 2012]  - DAY 001  (day 0001) (AOS) Mailed package to Chicago Lockbox via USPS overnight
[06/01, 2012]  - DAY 099  (day 0099) 2-year Conditional GC in hand
[05/05, 2014]  - DAY 001  (day 0802) (ROC) Mailed package to Vermont Service Center via USPS overnight

[05/14, 2014]  - DAY 009  (day 0811) Received NOA1 (GC Extended for 1 year)

[01/14, 2016]  - DAY 620  (day 1421) 10-year GC in hand

[02/22, 2017]  - DAY 001  (day 1826) (N-400) Mailed package to Lewisville, TX, via USPS overnight

[01/10, 2018]  - DAY 323  (day 2149) (N-400) Naturalization Oath Ceremony (5 years, 10 months, 19 days)

[01/10, 2018]  - DAY 001  (day 2149) (US Passport) Applied for US Passport, regular processing

01/25, 2018]  - DAY 015  (day 2164) (US Passport) Passport in hand (5 years, 11 months, 3 days from start of Journey.)

 

AOS, N-400, & PASSPORT FOR DAUGHTER [OF HUSBAND TO USC]

[06/14, 2013] - DAY 001 Mailed package to Chicago Lockbox via USPS overnight
[11/21, 2013] - Day 153 SSN and 10-year GC in hand

09/01, 2021]  - (day 3001) (US Passport) Passport in hand (8 years, 2 months, 18 days from start of Journey.)

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Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain. Psalm 127:1

Juan & Nan Community Regular

Juan & Nan   12

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We got approved by noa2 a week after he told me that he's developing feelings for another girl. How awful that would be right? Feeling so sure that he's finally the one for you.. And here you are hoping that he will really never live you, build your dreams with him, a life with him but for just waiting just for 3 more months he can't do it?? How could somebody say that he loves you and hurt you at the same time.. By the way, we started january 30,2013. Had rfe around march then got approved on june... Enjoy your life guys!! I don't know where to begin from here but i'll live.

I am very sorry to hear that, but better to find out now than later when you are married. Good luck!

K-1 TIMELINE11/03/2010 Mailed I-129F Petition to USCIS VSC
11/15/2010 Received NOA1 in the mail
02/04/2011 Requested expediting of case for military deployment
02/11/2011 Expediting request approved
02/22/2011 Received expediting request approval letter in the mail
02/28/2011 NOA2 Document Received in the mail
02/28/2011 NVC received and case # assigned
03/01/2011 Case sent to Embassy
03/04/2011 Case received at the Embassy
03/09/2011 Embassy sent Packet 3 via mail (we did not wait for it, downloaded forms online)
03/15/2011 Sent Packet 3 to the Embassy
03/18/2011 Embassy received Packet 3 in the mail
03/28/2011 Received Packet 4 from Embassy
04/20/2011 Embassy Interview Date (APPROVED)
04/27/2011 POE JFK, NY
AOS/AE/AP TIMELINE
06/24/2011 Mailed the AOS/EA/AP
07/05/2011 Received NOA1's for the AP/AE/AOS dated 06/27/2011
07/08/2011 Received NOA for biometrics appointment
07/25/2011 Biometrics appointment
08/24/2011 Received AP/AE card in the mail
09/08/2011 AOS interview APPROVED
09/09/2011 Card in production
09/19/2011 Green card on hand!

I-130 TIMELINE - STEPDAUGHTER I-751 TIMELINE-WIFE

04/07/2013 Mailed I-130 petition 06/10/2013 Mailed I-751 petition

04/14/2013 Received NOA1 inthe mail 06/19/2013 Received NOA1 in mail

05/04/2013 Requested expediting due to military deployment %

Luke417 Rookie

Luke417   3

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Never make someone a priority that only makes you an option. Move on with your head held high and make it clear that you have zero tolerance for games.

Know your value, know your worth.

He sounds very lost and unstable.

Excellent, excellent advice.

And my sincere sympathy for you. People like your ex-fiance really need to get it together, and you certainly don't need that especially if you would be the one to moving far from home. I have always said (in past experiences) that if I am just an option, I will make your decision easy and reduce your options for you. I will never make someone number one on my list if I am only playing second fiddle on theirs. You are much, MUCH better off moving on, and lucky that you know as early as you do about his "confusion" let's just say.

Find yourself a better "option" - you most certainly deserve it. cool.png

Fiancee visa phase:

03 November 2012: I-129F Sent

09 November 2012: I-129F NOA1

15 May 2013: I-129F NOA2

? May 2013: NVC Received

31 May 2013: NVC Left

03 June 2013: Embassy Received

06 June 2013: NVC Case # received (called NVC)

07 June 2013: Letter from NVC received

13 June 2013: Visa fee paid at BPI

17 June 2013: Interview scheduled online

19 June 2013: Medical (day 1)

20 June 2013: Medical (day 2)

02 July 2013: Interview (Approved!)

Moving to the States:

05 July 2013: Visa status updated to "issued" (CEAC online)

09 July 2013: Visa/passport retrieved at 2GO (MOA)

25 July 2013: CFO counseling session

25 July 2013: CFO registration session

30 July 2013: POE (Detroit, DTW) - no problems at all

05 October 2013: Married!!!

Adjustment of Status:

22 October 2013: I-485, I-765, I-131 Sent (AOS, EAD, AP)

28 October 2013: I-485, I-765, I-131 NOA (AOS, EAD, AP)

21 November 2013: Biometrics

27 December 2013: EAD and AP Received

11 April 2014: RFE received

19 April 2014: RFE sent

01 May 2014: Green Card Received

Rob Page Rookie

Rob Page   3

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Hi guys! I just saw a picture. He's already going out with the girl, it's not even 2 weeks since the breakup. This just tells me more that i need to move on. Just hurts a lot coz now everybody asking me what happened.

I am so sorry that must be tough, break ups can be really hard on you mentally so remember to take some time for yourself to sort through your feelings before you move on. Make sure you deal with it now so you don't have to come back to it later. I hope things get better for you!

loladolly Rising Star

loladolly   51

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Wow I am sorry but what an a**hole !

Why starting this whole process when he was not sure of his feelings or knew he would not be able to stand the distance.

I feel so sorry for you but like other said, it is better now than once you are married to him.

Make sure you cancel the petition

K1 Journey:

NOA1: 08/21/2012 (CSC)

NOA2: 04/24/2013 (8 months ClockWatch2.gif )

NVC received: 05/02/2013

NVC sent to Embassy: 05/06/2013 (only took 4 days !!)

Packet 3 received: 06/01/2013 (our son's 2nd birthday !!).Packet 3 response leaving in the mail on the next business day (06/04)

Medical: 06/11/2013

Interview: 06/18/2013. No packet 4 received, interview notice given on the phone the day before.

APPROVED !!

POE Chicago: 07/05/2013

AOS (EAD/AP) Journey:

NOA1: 07/30/2013

Biometrics: 09/09/2013

EAD/AP: 10/09/2013

Received a "potential interview waiver case" letter on 11/23/13.

GREEN CARD APPROVED AND IN PRODUCTION ON 03/17/2014

ROC I-751:

Sent: 01/09/16

NOA1: 01/11/16

Approval and Production Notice: 07/29/16

 
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