messed up situation with I 751 interview coming.

[Christi85 86]

I agree. Get a competent lawyer's advice. I'm not trying to sound dramatic, but there's a fairly high chance you could be denied over this.

Lying does not fly well with USCIS, but neither does the fact that your wife had a baby with another man while married to you. They will find it hard to believe you are in a genuine marriage, so definitely seek an immigration attorney's advice on how to prepare for the interview and how to handle this situation with USCIS.

Also, unless your case has other red flags that you haven't mentioned, I find it hard to believe that it is a coincidence that they requested an interview, given that most people don't have interviews at ROC stage.

You said you got an RFE and responded. What did they RFE you about and what evidence did you send in response?

Good luck!

[AnotherLostSoul 167]

Ok, I may get degraded for my answer here, so I apologize in advance, but from my perspective, have you talked to your wife? Have you ever asked her (since her daughter was born) if she still loves you? If so, are you guys willing to go to marriage counseling? Your status on USCIS's eye depends on these. If you love here, that is great, but if your wife does not love you and does not want to fix the situation than you have slim chances. On the other hand, if you guys would go to marriage counseling, and you honestly told the USCIS that yes, you had a point in your marriage when it was a bit shaky and yes, your wife cheated on you and now have a daughter from another man, but you forgave her, and you would like this marriage to last, and so does she, then USCIS might understand your situation. But for that your wife has to want to change, and fix things and go to marriage counseling with you. I wish you the best, man! I really do. Or if things are sour as lemon, divorce here, and then file a waiver when filing for ROC. Good luck!

[Rushton50 10]

Ok, I may get degraded for my answer here, so I apologize in advance, but from my perspective, have you talked to your wife? Have you ever asked her (since her daughter was born) if she still loves you? If so, are you guys willing to go to marriage counseling? Your status on USCIS's eye depends on these. If you love here, that is great, but if your wife does not love you and does not want to fix the situation than you have slim chances. On the other hand, if you guys would go to marriage counseling, and you honestly told the USCIS that yes, you had a point in your marriage when it was a bit shaky and yes, your wife cheated on you and now have a daughter from another man, but you forgave her, and you would like this marriage to last, and so does she, then USCIS might understand your situation. But for that your wife has to want to change, and fix things and go to marriage counseling with you. I wish you the best, man! I really do. Or if things are sour as lemon, divorce here, and then file a waiver when filing for ROC. Good luck!

By the sounds of it, they have already filed for ROC and not sure how that would go down as they have been called for an interview.