Fiance Visa Problem... Help!!!

[julitathomas0810 30]

I use a company called Tawagpinas which is a calling card . You purchase minutes online and then call a local number and pin then dial the Phil number . The great thing is its fairly cheap . You have an account which shows the purchases and can print your calls . Which shows the length of call and the number you called . In fact I just emailed them and they sent me a PDF file of my calls from 08/12 to 06/13 . I also use this to send load from Globe and Smart . I love it and you should take a look at it .

I have a similar situation to yours . Remember God is always with us . If God is for us who can be against us ? Keep the faith and God with you always and you will stand with confidence at the interview .

God Bless

Edited June 25, 2013 by julitathomas0810

[ArianneChris 6]

Hi, I'm a newbie here.

Here is my story...

My Fiance(EJ) & I had been dating since 2009. But we broke up early of 2011 & I met a guy(LEE)& we've been dating for a few months until he got me pregnant. & when I told him about my pregnancy he told me straight to my face that he wasn't ready to settle down. He will just support our child. Then we parted ways.

...It was my 3rd month of pregnancy when EJ called me up asking me how I was & I told him everything (that I had a boyfriend after him, I got pregnant but Lee wasn't ready thats why we broke up)... EJ was said he was sad... But still wish me goodluck about my pregnancy after almost an hour of talking he said goodbye...

1 month had passed... Its was my fourth month of pregnancy... When EJ called me again he told me that he was deeply hurt after he learned that I was pregnant, he said he can't sleep at night because he's thinking of me after a month of sleepless night he realized that he still love me & told me he want me back he even wanna marry me. Even though I got pregnant with somebody else. He is willing to take the responsibility of being a father to my child... But I turned down his offer because I felt that time It wasn't right... It's so not fair to him... It's like I'm being dishonest to him even though we're not together anymore when I got pregnant... But he said will do whatever it takes to win me back. (believed me I still love him too)... But it's just sooo not fair to him... After a months of pursuing me I finally gave in. We got back together on my 7th months of pregnancy.

He' calls me often especially on his Day Off. Calling is our number 1 means of communication. After a month when i gave birth he ask me the most important question in my life he said if "I can be His Wife?" he said he is willing to be a father to my child"... & i said YES! With a tears of happiness... But we decided that he will file the Fiance(e) Petition after a few months because ge wanted me to take care of my child first...

He filled the Petition March 2013...

My question is how long will I wait to have my Interview?

Problem(s):

I only have 2 snail mails that he send me because we talked a lot on the phone. But we dont have a call history of telephone bills to show because he use call cards. & we a few email to each other because I don't have internet at home & he is not into "using computers" until now told me that he ask his kids to teach him the basic (BTW he is already divorce with his former wife)

Will I have a problem with the CO about the proofs? What should I do? Please help...

He's coming this July 2013 to see me&my child...

Have you considered getting married when he comes over in July and filing a CR-1 instead? Since you will have to re-file the K1 anyway, and it seems that you two are sure you want to get married, this might be the better option.

[Hawaiianosfiancee 0]

Thank you guys for the advice.

[Jawaree 718]

How does the real father feels about this man taking over his baby, will it b a prob, what when asked by CO if the fiancée is the childs father

[Hawaiianosfiancee 0]

How does the real father feels about this man taking over his baby, will it b a prob, what when asked by CO if the fiancée is the childs father

[Hawaiianosfiancee 0]

The last time I talked to my child's father I told him that EJ & I got back together. & We're planning to get married soon. He doesn't have a problem with that because he have a girlfriend now plus he's the one who broke up with me. I dont wanna remove his right to our child even though we didn't end up together. But I have to tell him about my plan of taking my child with me. I know he will understand because he knows I love our child so much.

I use a company called Tawagpinas which is a calling card . You purchase minutes online and then call a local number and pin then dial the Phil number . The great thing is its fairly cheap . You have an account which shows the purchases and can print your calls . Which shows the length of call and the number you called . In fact I just emailed them and they sent me a PDF file of my calls from 08/12 to 06/13 . I also use this to send load from Globe and Smart . I love it and you should take a look at it .

I have a similar situation to yours . Remember God is always with us . If God is for us who can be against us ? Keep the faith and God with you always and you will stand with confidence at the interview .

God Bless

Thank you so much... God bless you

Thank you so much... God bless you

[skiptex 225]

check into the laws there about how a child leaves the country with one bio. parent and the other stays in homeland.. each country is different on how the father gives approval or what happens if he does not..

[Hawaiianosfiancee 0]

check into the laws there about how a child leaves the country with one bio. parent and the other stays in homeland.. each country is different on how the father gives approval or what happens if he does not..

Thank you