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If you would like you can get his ex-wife to make a statement (affidavit) that she has notarized as to why the marriage failed.

However, YOU need to know why his previous marriages have not worked. You also need to know what you are both doing differently to make your marriage work when the others did not. The consular officer needs to know that you and your husband talk to each other about your past, about your present and about your future.

They want to know why you have been married for 4 years and haven't tried to have children. Explain why! Either you don't want to have children, can't have children or just haven't been able to thus far. Theres no law saying you have to have children. My husband and I are NEVER having children together. But you need to be able to explain why.

They want to know how you are trying to be husband and wife, even though you live far apart. Even at my interview the officer asked me how often I see my husband and how we keep in touch if we only see each other every 3 months. Do you skype? email? text message? phone calls? The consular officer needs to see the proof that you are trying to have a life together despite being far apart.

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If you would like you can get his ex-wife to make a statement (affidavit) that she has notarized as to why the marriage failed.

However, YOU need to know why his previous marriages have not worked. You also need to know what you are both doing differently to make your marriage work when the others did not. The consular officer needs to know that you and your husband talk to each other about your past, about your present and about your future.

They want to know why you have been married for 4 years and haven't tried to have children. Explain why! Either you don't want to have children, can't have children or just haven't been able to thus far. Theres no law saying you have to have children. My husband and I are NEVER having children together. But you need to be able to explain why.

They want to know how you are trying to be husband and wife, even though you live far apart. Even at my interview the officer asked me how often I see my husband and how we keep in touch if we only see each other every 3 months. Do you skype? email? text message? phone calls? The consular officer needs to see the proof that you are trying to have a life together despite being far apart.

Dear yes we can take statement from his ex wife stating why there marriage failed,I know his second wife told me by her self that because there is serious lack of understanding and both of them get tired of daily fight(verbally),We use to talk to each other daily on phone sometime about an hour or more i use to even talk to his mother on and of we exchange gifts,we keep sending emails ,chat on skype as much as possible i can say some time 3 or some time 4 days a week more then hour ,No i dont want to have kids before i start my married life he is dying to have kids but i am not,we both express our emotions how much we miss each other every passing mint,At the time of interview we show them a bundle of emails as proof but all in vine,and i call him sometime when i need him three time a day,i can show call log,skype call log,emails,his both visit photo,gifts that we exchange,pics of our honeymoon but our honeymoon was occurred after our interview.And we have even sex i mean we slept together ,I know each and every thing regarding his previous marriage but i want to know that why they mentioned my previous two marriage in that yes my previous marriage didn't work twice.Its to hard for us to live apart now.

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Dear yes we can take statement from his ex wife stating why there marriage failed,I know his second wife told me by her self that because there is serious lack of understanding and both of them get tired of daily fight(verbally)

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I know each and every thing regarding his previous marriage but i want to know that why they mentioned my previous two marriage in that yes my previous marriage didn't work twice.Its to hard for us to live apart now.

That is not how you answered in the interview:

5.Do you know why he left his both wifes ?
Ans. He always ready to tell me about that but i am not intrested in knowing the reason.

As someone said, write each question separately and answer them. Stick to facts, but be detailed. Use supporting documentation when available.

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As to why they state you as the beneficiary have been married twice - probably want to know details about length of those marriages, why two marriages and how come both of you divorced two people.

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That is not how you answered in the interview:

As someone said, write each question separately and answer them. Stick to facts, but be detailed. Use supporting documentation when available.

Yes Ivy i didn't answer this in my interview i answer this here and i even not said that i give this reply in interview i told them that yes he is always ready to tell me but i dont want to know .

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As to why they state you as the beneficiary have been married twice - probably want to know details about length of those marriages, why two marriages and how come both of you divorced two people.

I told them in interview the reason of failure of my both marriage there length is not more then 3 months each and i told them the reason but they still want to know what i cant understand.

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I told them in interview the reason of failure of my both marriage there length is not more then 3 months each and i told them the reason but they still want to know what i cant understand.

My guess is they want more information. If you answered the way you wrote your answer, it may not have been enough. Now, it sounds as if both marriages were painful for you, but in your answer on paper, go into more detail about the events that occurred that ultimately led to the dissolution of the marriages.

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In no country a man 12 yrs a womans senior is a red-flag, nor is it double your age

did U get interviewed in your language, u said No to wedding night , then further U said yes U spent 2 mths together

this to CO will seem like U R not being truthful (just saying)

When asked about previous marriages, seem your answer were flippant, "I don't want to hear when he tried to tell me"

His marrying and bringing over all these wives smack of immigration fraud, staged proofs of pictures phone calls & visit

will not prove a bonafide relationship and marriage especially with no sex. Speak to an atty.

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My guess is they want more information. If you answered the way you wrote your answer, it may not have been enough. Now, it sounds as if both marriages were painful for you, but in your answer on paper, go into more detail about the events that occurred that ultimately led to the dissolution of the marriages.

Yes you are 100% right that both of my previous marriages were seriously painful to me and i go again in the pain when ever i discuss on this topic but for my love i will tell the truth once again.

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In no country a man 12 yrs a womans senior is a red-flag, nor is it double your age

did U get interviewed in your language, u said No to wedding night , then further U said yes U spent 2 mths together

this to CO will seem like U R not being truthful (just saying)

When asked about previous marriages, seem your answer were flippant, "I don't want to hear when he tried to tell me"

His marrying and bringing over all these wives smack of immigration fraud, staged proofs of pictures phone calls & visit

will not prove a bonafide relationship and marriage especially with no sex. Speak to an atty.

yes i chose to give my interviewed in my language the two months which i am mentioning is after interview not before .no i was serious why i do flippant,how come these can be fraud while he has proof of legal wedding and legal divorce in the houston court in front of judge ,and in his both visit after interview we have sex .yes we are planning to have an atty.

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In no country a man 12 yrs a womans senior is a red-flag, nor is it double your age

did U get interviewed in your language, u said No to wedding night , then further U said yes U spent 2 mths together

this to CO will seem like U R not being truthful (just saying)

When asked about previous marriages, seem your answer were flippant, "I don't want to hear when he tried to tell me"

His marrying and bringing over all these wives smack of immigration fraud, staged proofs of pictures phone calls & visit

will not prove a bonafide relationship and marriage especially with no sex. Speak to an atty.

I think there is a miscommunication here between what the OP is trying to say with english being a second language and probably how she responded at the interview in her native language. She also seems to be unaware that the CO was asking if she was intimate with her husband in which she has later stated she was but misunderstood the question being asked.

There is no reason to think the OP was flippant or was anything but serious during her interview just that she was unaware she should go into greater detail. To me she is obviously she is a private person who was nervous and not inclined to go into detail at the interview and has since realized her mistake and is looking for help to correct that.

Actually in many countries where there is a large age difference there is a red flag. Please don't generalize, this is something that is country specific.

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Okay bottom line is you got a NOIR and you are running out of time.

Like everyone has stated you need to go over each item they mentioned in letter and address it with solid evidence. Get all affidavits notarized also.

Your biggest issue is you didn't know about husband and stated you didn't want to know. That screams not a bonafide relationship. Even though you may have one. You are to know everything and all things if possible.

So again go over each item on the NOIR list and gather your evidence quick. You only have one shot at this.

They ask us to submit answer in 30 days there objection were following:

.The petitioner is 12 years old then beneficiary,why?
.The petitioner and benifecry were married twice.
.The petitioner were married twice before to foreign nationals whom he petition for immigrant to us both time under spousal category.
.The beneficiary could not credibly answer any question in regards to the petitioners life style and general preference.
The petitioner married to beneficiary after 10 months of his divorce to his second wife and they live for 4 year and still dont have any child why?

The beneficiary stated that their marriage has not been consummated.

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if your marriage was not consummated before you filed for the I-130, then you are not eligible for a visa; and you stated in your above post that the marriage was not consummated at the time of the interview.

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This is not generalization but a 40 & 52 yr old

are practically playmates, maybe at 10 & 22 its

definitely a no,no but come on can someone name me

few countries, that this would be a prob. or the

fact there's no babies, the man have done this B4

and the CO is not believing...hope things work out

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It is common in Islamic Countries for the male to be older than the female by 10 or more years. As to the rest of it I have no idea how someone is married for four years and never has sex. My problem was I am almost 10 years older than my spouse and this is a big no-no in his country. Second was I already had three children and he had none. We made it through it.

This case has big red flags all over it. Two prior marriages and immigration for both, her not knowing a lot about her spouses history, a four year marriage and she didn't seem to know much about him. All I can say is good luck.

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