Fiance betrays me

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

Meet Laura. She's a 31 yr. old woman from Colombia who's looking for a sincere, honest, affectionate, simple, hard worker.

Just as I would have guessed.

Does Jinky know you're scanning these type profiles?

I Googled her...nothing else, scouts honor.

You don't have to convince me, you know.

You can fry an egg on that stomach.

Honestly, looking at that stomach, that wasn't the first thing that came to mind.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Honestly, looking at that stomach, that wasn't the first thing that came to mind.

Go wash your hands brother and forgive me for straying you to the dark side.

Edited November 27, 2006 by Steven_and_Jinky

[mybackpages 0]

Honestly, looking at that stomach, that wasn't the first thing that came to mind.

Go wash your hands brother and forgive me for straying you to the dark side.

Is this an example of Boys will be boys?

[mRx 16]

Meet Laura. She's a 31 yr. old woman from Colombia who's looking for a sincere, honest, affectionate, simple, hard worker.

Just as I would have guessed.

Does Jinky know you're scanning these type profiles?

I Googled her...nothing else, scouts honor.

You don't have to convince me, you know.

You can fry an egg on that stomach.

Honestly, looking at that stomach, that wasn't the first thing that came to mind.

if i hadnt met the love of my life, and if i was a single man then id hit it in a minute.

[PlatyPius 5]

*shrugs*

I think she's hideously ugly.

The over-done lipstick, the cheesy "bracelet", the stupid-looking jeans.... No thanks.

I wouldn't "hit dat".

[trey 0]

Well that sucks Mike.

They always say "what goes around comes around"

I think 30 years is too big of an age difference in MO.

I dont see how you could have anything in common.

Best of luck what ever you decide. In my OP she is just to young for you. That is my brutal honest comment. She is probley just in a place where she is beginning her life as an adult and you have too many years on here to understand that. You have already done what she is just starting to explore.

I'm sorry but I totally disagree with this response entirely. Age is not the issue and I know there are many members on this site who have wives/fiancees 20-30 years younger who have been happily engaged/married for several years; I for one.

She forgave you for lying. Could you forgive her for being honest?

You know her better than any of us here in VJ. You are old enough to assess your relationship to determine if her feelings for you are true. Love is a gamble at any age but trust is a prerequisite to any successful relationship.

We wish you the best!

[mRx 16]

Well that sucks Mike.

They always say "what goes around comes around"

I think 30 years is too big of an age difference in MO.

I dont see how you could have anything in common.

Best of luck what ever you decide. In my OP she is just to young for you. That is my brutal honest comment. She is probley just in a place where she is beginning her life as an adult and you have too many years on here to understand that. You have already done what she is just starting to explore.

I'm sorry but I totally disagree with this response entirely. Age is not the issue and I know there are many members on this site who have wives/fiancees 20-30 years younger who have been happily engaged/married for several years; I for one.

She forgave you for lying. Could you forgive her for being honest?

You know her better than any of us here in VJ. You are old enough to assess your relationship to determine if her feelings for you are true. Love is a gamble at any age but trust is a prerequisite to any successful relationship.

We wish you the best!

Call me immature, but im in my early 20s, and i still find farting absolutely hilarious. And im gonna speak for all young people on that one. So tell me pops, do you think thats funny?

[garya505 2]

Well that sucks Mike.

They always say "what goes around comes around"

I think 30 years is too big of an age difference in MO.

I dont see how you could have anything in common.

Best of luck what ever you decide. In my OP she is just to young for you. That is my brutal honest comment. She is probley just in a place where she is beginning her life as an adult and you have too many years on here to understand that. You have already done what she is just starting to explore.

I'm sorry but I totally disagree with this response entirely. Age is not the issue and I know there are many members on this site who have wives/fiancees 20-30 years younger who have been happily engaged/married for several years; I for one.

She forgave you for lying. Could you forgive her for being honest?

You know her better than any of us here in VJ. You are old enough to assess your relationship to determine if her feelings for you are true. Love is a gamble at any age but trust is a prerequisite to any successful relationship.

We wish you the best!

Call me immature, but im in my early 20s, and i still find farting absolutely hilarious. And im gonna speak for all young people on that one. So tell me pops, do you think thats funny?

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Edited November 27, 2006 by garya505

[trey 0]

Well that sucks Mike.

They always say "what goes around comes around"

I think 30 years is too big of an age difference in MO.

I dont see how you could have anything in common.

Best of luck what ever you decide. In my OP she is just to young for you. That is my brutal honest comment. She is probley just in a place where she is beginning her life as an adult and you have too many years on here to understand that. You have already done what she is just starting to explore.

I'm sorry but I totally disagree with this response entirely. Age is not the issue and I know there are many members on this site who have wives/fiancees 20-30 years younger who have been happily engaged/married for several years; I for one.

She forgave you for lying. Could you forgive her for being honest?

You know her better than any of us here in VJ. You are old enough to assess your relationship to determine if her feelings for you are true. Love is a gamble at any age but trust is a prerequisite to any successful relationship.

We wish you the best!

Call me immature, but im in my early 20s, and i still find farting absolutely hilarious. And im gonna speak for all young people on that one. So tell me pops, do you think thats funny?

Do you really think you're speaking for ALL the young people? I won't call you immature. I'll call you narrow minded. My wife is in her early 20's also. She calls your attitude disrespectful and immature.

[mRx 16]

Well that sucks Mike.

They always say "what goes around comes around"

I think 30 years is too big of an age difference in MO.

I dont see how you could have anything in common.

Best of luck what ever you decide. In my OP she is just to young for you. That is my brutal honest comment. She is probley just in a place where she is beginning her life as an adult and you have too many years on here to understand that. You have already done what she is just starting to explore.

I'm sorry but I totally disagree with this response entirely. Age is not the issue and I know there are many members on this site who have wives/fiancees 20-30 years younger who have been happily engaged/married for several years; I for one.

She forgave you for lying. Could you forgive her for being honest?

You know her better than any of us here in VJ. You are old enough to assess your relationship to determine if her feelings for you are true. Love is a gamble at any age but trust is a prerequisite to any successful relationship.

We wish you the best!

Call me immature, but im in my early 20s, and i still find farting absolutely hilarious. And im gonna speak for all young people on that one. So tell me pops, do you think thats funny?

Do you really think you're speaking for ALL the young people? I won't call you immature. I'll call you narrow minded. My wife is in her early 20's also. She calls your attitude disrespectful and immature.

wow no sense of humor. Narrow minded? For laughing at farting? or calling you pops?

[LuzyC 0]

been thru this process as everyone else here, i know for a fact, jealousy has nothing to do with it. its not the other persons fault for not being there with their fiance to "fit" to their needs. and if you really love someone, you dont go searching for another persons comfort. if thats the case, what do you really need your fiance for? if you can easy search for comfort in another person while seperated then you will easily do it when your together as well. and anyone ok with their fiance or wife/husband cheating, is just not in a mature relationship to start with IMO.

Well you see I could just hop on a plane any time I wanted -- but many people can't.

Regardless of how much you think "you love" someone, the time apart can put a serious

strain on any relationship. Let's face it, a "fiancé(e)" is nothing but a glorified boyfriend

or girlfriend. None of that means anything until you sign those marriage papers.

Oh my goodness Mark I hope that is your opinion only and you dont speak as a men in general

As for me Im Gary's wife even we dont have the contract sign yet..we treat and do what a husband and wife does and what we just need is the formality to be legally Mr and Mrs C...

[mRx 16]

Oh my goodness Mark I hope that is your opinion only and you dont speak as a men in general

sadly alot of people think like that in USA (but not everyone). That is why we have outrageous bachelors/bachelorette parties in the USA.

[Jenn! 918]

*shrugs*

I think she's hideously ugly.

The over-done lipstick, the cheesy "bracelet", the stupid-looking jeans.... No thanks.

I wouldn't "hit dat".

Ugh, me either!

[mRx 16]

*shrugs*

I think she's hideously ugly.

The over-done lipstick, the cheesy "bracelet", the stupid-looking jeans.... No thanks.

I wouldn't "hit dat".

Ugh, me either!

oh cmon.... your looking too much at the face...

[trey 0]

wow no sense of humor. Narrow minded? For laughing at farting? or calling you pops?

Apparently, your foot in your big mouth prevented you from seeing my response, so here it is again:

Do you really think you're speaking for ALL the young people? I won't call you immature. I'll call you narrow minded.