Vawa part 4

[bambi5 2]

Merci beaucoup DieuEst+FortKeTou (j'adore ton nom qui est Glorieux)

Que DIEU nous facilite le reste de notre dossier.

Je n'avais pas encore depose pour i-485, je le ferai dans les 2 prochaines semaines. C'est juste que je ne savais pas que ca prenait aussi longtemps apres que le I-360 ait ete approuve.

Mais bon, je suis si heureuse et reconnaissante a DIEU que le vawa a ete approuve.

[Sandra G. 5,047]

bambi 5 if you can't afford to have a new medical exam right now then submit form I-485 without form I-693, and after a while you will get an RFE asking you to submit the medical exam ok, If you already have had your vaccinations done and can prove it then the physician won't vaccinate you again.

[finally26122012 20]

dont be panic. i totally understand how do you feel it. But at least you know they are having an action for looking for your case in Vermont right now. relax, and wait for 7-9-2013 news.

thanks a lot my sister I call uscis today and the immigration officer said I should be getting something in the mail I a couple of days I don't know what but am patiently waiting

[Noresponse123 0]

My work permit was approved 2013. i never received it. contacted office and they never resent it. my 360 was approved april. 485 is still pending. Recently, I was asked rfe to submit medical exam. Submitted medical exam. The rfe notice states that a work permit will be issued if one was submitted. Since I never received work permit, will another one be issued or do I need to apply for a new one?

[Jessy_L 7]

Totally down today.

Went to psychological evaluation. Drove 6 hours to be there ((

So called psychologist with PhD and clinical experience, who supposedly working with VAWA cases a lot, told that it is not sexual abuse, if the husband make you have sex with him, even after you say no, by threats it is not sexual abuse. "If he would physically hold you down" that would be abuse. But if you did not run blah-blah ....

So frustrating.

He also said that your emotional abuse is too subtly, if only it was violence, it would be better. Of cause it would be, but than why would we need psychologist?

Now he said that he needs to read all the papers, documents for shelter etc. and only next week will perform the tests. Meaning, 6 hours drive again (( and hotel charges and car rental charges (((((

Crying (((((

Edited July 2, 2013 by Jessy_L

[Jessy_L 7]

guys,

suggest me, please, psychologists in CA, who had experience with mental abuse and who can write the evaluation and do tests. (better female dr.)

I just think that that psychologist has not training in domestic abuse, even though his site states otherwise. (((

[Sandra G. 5,047]

Jessy L I don't know who is your psychologist but I read hundreds of psychological evaluations and many of the evaluations stated that who participated through coercion and/or threat in unwanted sexual activity which the person finds disgusting is considered victim of sexual abuse . Your psychologist is talking about rape, sexual abuse is NOT JUST RAPE for God sake.There are 3 types of sexual abuse : verbal, visual and physical.

Vawa Unit considers sexual abuse:

-Not allowing you to take birth control pill;

-demanding sex using threat of making public photos e films the abuser videotaped ( my Vawa case approved last week );

-fondling you in public places, in front of your family and friends;

- using threat or coercion to make you watch pornographic films when you don't want to watch;(one of my Vawa approved)

- prohibiting you to breast feed, through threat or coercion;

- demanding you to have a breast argumentation, using threat or coercion;

-demanding you to have sex with others using coercion and/or threat(base of one of my Vawa and it was approved);

-threatening someone into unwanted sexual activity;

ETC.

[bambi5 2]

Hi Jessy_L,

If I can help in any way , let me know.

My case was sexual and mental abuse, and with GOD's mercy, I didn't have any psychological evaluation, nor hospital statements or anything.

I just had a declaration that was well-written and 2 statements from a friend and a family member. A true miracle as I almost went crazy to try to prove my story...

Please PM me if I can help in any way.

[bambi5 2]

bambi 5 if you can't afford to have a new medical exam right now then submit form I-485 without form I-693, and after a while you will get an RFE asking you to submit the medical exam ok, If you already have had your vaccinations done and can prove it then the physician won't vaccinate you again.

Thank you Sandranj!

[bambi5 2]

Bambi5, tous mes documents ont été envoyés dès le début au centre de Vermont. Mon avocat m'avait suggéré de la faire ainsi car c'est plus rapide de la sorte.

Une fois de plus merci

Merci beaucoup DieuEst+FortKeTou (j'adore ton nom qui est Glorieux)

Que DIEU nous facilite le reste de notre dossier.

Je n'avais pas encore depose pour i-485, je le ferai dans les 2 prochaines semaines. C'est juste que je ne savais pas que ca prenait aussi longtemps apres que le I-360 ait ete approuve.

Mais bon, je suis si heureuse et reconnaissante a DIEU que le vawa a ete approuve.

[bambi5 2]

Totally down today.

Went to psychological evaluation. Drove 6 hours to be there ((

So called psychologist with PhD and clinical experience, who supposedly working with VAWA cases a lot, told that it is not sexual abuse, if the husband make you have sex with him, even after you say no, by threats it is not sexual abuse. "If he would physically hold you down" that would be abuse. But if you did not run blah-blah ....

So frustrating.

He also said that your emotional abuse is too subtly, if only it was violence, it would be better. Of cause it would be, but than why would we need psychologist?

Now he said that he needs to read all the papers, documents for shelter etc. and only next week will perform the tests. Meaning, 6 hours drive again (( and hotel charges and car rental charges (((((

Crying (((((

Hi Jessy_L,

If I can help in any way , let me know.

My case was sexual and mental abuse, and with GOD's mercy, I didn't have any psychological evaluation, nor hospital statements or anything.

I just had a declaration that was well-written and 2 statements from a friend and a family member. A true miracle as I almost went crazy to try to prove my story...

Please PM me if I can help in any way.

[godisgreat23 4]

Jessy L I don't know who is your psychologist but I read hundreds of psychological evaluations and many of the evaluations stated that who participated through coercion and/or threat in unwanted sexual activity which the person finds disgusting is considered victim of sexual abuse . Your psychologist is talking about rape, sexual abuse is NOT JUST RAPE for God sake.There are 3 types of sexual abuse : verbal, visual and physical.

Vawa Unit considers sexual abuse:

-Not allowing you to take birth control pill;

-demanding sex using threat of making public photos e films the abuser videotaped ( my Vawa case approved last week );

-fondling you in public places, in front of your family and friends;

- using threat or coercion to make you watch pornographic films when you don't want to watch;(one of my Vawa approved)

- prohibiting you to breast feed, through threat or coercion;

- demanding you to have a breast argumentation, using threat or coercion;

-demanding you to have sex with others using coercion and/or threat(base of one of my Vawa and it was approved);

-threatening someone into unwanted sexual activity;

ETC.

Hi Sandranj,

I have seen here people talking that it takes about 10 months to an year for the AOS interview date after approved VAWA.

CAn you please throw some light that how long it usually takes in majority of the cases for the AOS date after VAWA approval if applied concurrently ?

The word of the GOD shall never depart my mind.

[Cielo14 2]

Hi everyone!

Sandra how long it usually takes uscis for send the permision of wok card after uscis recived the I-765 aplication.

Sandra is truth that any person with a residence for vawa just need wait 3 years for become a cizen of unite state of american.

(any person wives of cizen or lpr) That is truth?

[anajnic 87]

Hi Sandranj,

I have seen here people talking that it takes about 10 months to an year for the AOS interview date after approved VAWA.

CAn you please throw some light that how long it usually takes in majority of the cases for the AOS date after VAWA approval if applied concurrently ?

The word of the GOD shall never depart my mind.

Yes Sandranj, please shed some light. Hi Godisgreat.I pray all is well

[Hypnos 6,576]

is truth that any person with a residence for vawa just need wait 3 years for become a cizen of unite state of american.

(any person wives of cizen or lpr) That is truth?

If you were married to a green card holder and received your green card through VAWA then you have to wait for five years to be able to file for citizenship; if you were married to a US citizen and received your green card through VAWA then you can apply for citizenship after three years.