Vawa part 4

[anajnic 87]

Yeah anajnic, sometimes if the father wasn't in his life he could even decide to change his name and not bear his fathers name at all. But then he will always tell his girlfriend/wife about it.so she knows! I don't what was the case with kitty's situation but I hope it alll get sorted out.

me too, i don't understand no husband birth certificate. I have it and know his social by heart.

[Kittykitty1234 2]

Ahh. This is why i do not like to post things here anymore.

Girl. If you dont know other's story, dont assume. I dont know my husband's father's first name because he was abandoned right after he was born and raised by his biological mother and step father. My husband doesnt even know his own father's name. Not all ppl use their fathers name as their middle. Yes i do know his all other family and friends name. So please if you dont know anything then hush.

I don't know my fathers last name, meaning, he probably dent even know his father. You don't know, I don't know.Could be many factors.I don't know my husbands father last name , he wasn't around in his life. so there. But I do have my soon to be ex birth certificate and so forth

[anajnic 87]

Ahh. This is why i do not like to post things here anymore.

Girl. If you dont know other's story, dont assume. I dont know my husband's father's first name because he was abandoned right after he was born and raised by his biological mother and step father. My husband doesnt even know his own father's name. Not all ppl use their fathers name as their middle. Yes i do know his all other family and friends name. So please if you dont know anything then hush.

You have missed what i try to say. I said there are many factors as to why a persons fathers last name is not readily available. my ex dint know his , i don't even know my own fathers first and last name because he was not in my life at all. As for not wanting to post here , thats on you but u have totally missed what I was trying to say. As for " hush" Really!!!

[Kittykitty1234 2]

Anajnic,

Sorry, but YOU missed what i was trying to say because i wasnt talkting to u. I quoted and replied to someone else. Yes i know what u were saying and i really appreciate that you trying to understand my situation. As you said, his boiologic father never were in his life whatsoever. He and his mothe hated talking about the father. Then why would I have to ask my mother in law for the father's name ? If course not to my ex because he has no idea what's the father's name or how he looks like.

Anyway seriously.. I wasnt talking to u. Sorry if you tought that i said hush to u.

You know what, my bad. I had qouted urs. But didnt mean to.

Sorry about that. I tried to reply to bestgirlever

Edited December 6, 2013 by Kittykitty1234

[anajnic 87]

Anajnic,

Sorry, but YOU missed what i was trying to say because i wasnt talkting to u. I quoted and replied to someone else. Yes i know what u were saying and i really appreciate that you trying to understand my situation. As you said, his boiologic father never were in his life whatsoever. He and his mothe hated talking about the father. Then why would I have to ask my mother in law for the father's name ? If course not to my ex because he has no idea what's the father's name or how he looks like.

Anyway seriously.. I wasnt talking to u. Sorry if you tought that i said hush to u.

I understand, we all going through a lot. One word of encouragement is that i believe you will get through this time. Just hurry and get the process started. It will work out its just a setback. Hang in there

[bestgirlever 12]

Lmao kittykitty. SMH

You were saying hush to me huh? Your attitude got you what you wanted anyway. Telling someone hush for asking questions, then don't post anymore like you said. LMAO at you

[Kittykitty1234 2]

Thank you for your support

I understand, we all going through a lot. One word of encouragement is that i believe you will get through this time. Just hurry and get the process started. It will work out its just a setback. Hang in there

[Back&Brighter 1]

Back&brighter did you submit your VAwa or not yet?

Not yet Sandra, i'll be starting soon.

I'll be in your touch once I start.

Thanks a lot for keeping me in mind !

[Sandra G. 5,047]

Panama guy come here to tel us the whole story about your arrest.

Where is younge Seattle member?and

MAcbook any news of your appeal?

[Kittykitty1234 2]

Dear sandra

Is there an email address that i can contact u or can i send u a PM?

Panama guy come here to tel us the whole story about your arrest.

Where is younge Seattle member?and

MAcbook any news of your appeal?

[Sandra G. 5,047]

kittykitty i just sent you a pm with my email, but let me know through pm when you email me, because sometimes I don;t receive some emails.

[BelieveinVawa 0]

Thanks for all the posters sharing their experience, we have learnt a lot by just read other's story. Here is mine.

Start to live with my wife since Feb 2013, got married in May. Filed I130 I485 and EAD and AD in July, got my EAD and AD. Start to have big problems with my wife, and she kicked me out of the house, threatened to withdraw my case and deport me out of the country. Missed/rescheduled our AOS interview. I filed I360 on Nov, and got the prima facie notice. Today, at the rescheduled AOS interview, while we waiting, she threatened me again, and decided to withdrawl her petition. I asked the IO to put a hold on my I485 since I have a I360 pending, the officer said they cannot do it, because it is filed under the wrong categary, and my wife already withdrawl her I130 ( 5 mins ago, she was called in first, then my turn), they have to make a decision on my case, which is denial. Do I still have any chance to do something to keep my old EAD so that I will not lose my job．If I have to reapply for the I485 and EAD, can I ask for fee wavier.

Edited December 6, 2013 by BelieveinVawa

[anajnic 87]

Thanks for all the posters sharing their experience, we have learnt a lot by just read other's story. Here is mine.

Start to live with my wife since Feb 2013, got married in May. Filed I130 I485 and EAD and AD in July, got my EAD and AD. Start to have big problems with my wife, and she kicked me out of the house, threatened to withdraw my case and deport me out of the country. Missed/rescheduled our AOS interview. I filed I360 on Nov, and got the prima facie notice. Today, at the rescheduled AOS interview, while we waiting, she threatened me again, and decided to withdrawl her petition. I asked the IO to put a hold on my I485 since I have a I360 pending, the officer said they cannot do it, because it is filed under the wrong categary, and my wife already withdrawl her I130 ( 5 mins ago, she was called in first, then my turn), they have to make a decision on my case, which is denial. Do I still have any chance to do something to keep my old EAD so that I will not lost my job．If I have to re apply for the I485 and EAD, can I ask for fee wavier.

So to understand clearly, you filed Vawa but still was gonna go through with AOS interview knowing that you made a claim of abuse against your wife? Not only that, Vawa was gonna be a back up just in case, and as a result , you told IO to wait to see if VAWA come though before decision??? .. More and more confused

[BelieveinVawa 0]

So to understand clearly, you filed Vawa but still was gonna go through with AOS interview knowing that you made a claim of abuse against your wife? Not only that, Vawa was gonna be a back up just in case, and as a result , you told IO to wait to see if VAWA come though before decision??? .. More and more confused

Not to be a back up. She has threatened me before the first interview, and I cannot believe her anymore. So I filed Vawa. But she still contacting me and tell me to go to the interview. now I know she was playing with me. I need to see the IO and tell them I filed Vawa, that's why I went to the rescheduled interview. But the IO said if she did not appeared in the interview, they can put a hold on my I485, but she did attend the interview. they cannot hold my I485.

Edited December 6, 2013 by BelieveinVawa

[anajnic 87]

Not to be a back up. She has threatened me before the first interview, and I cannot believe her anymore. So I filed Vawa. But she still contacting me and tell me to go to the interview. now I know she was playing with me. I need to see the IO and tell them I filed Vawa, that's why I went to the rescheduled interview. But the IO said if she did not appeared in the interview, they can put a hold on my I485, but she did attend the interview. they cannot hold my I485.

Ok, what proof did you have for abuse?