Vawa part 4

[ishka86 1]

My husband had no parents they died and we did a wedding without parents and my parents aren't present therefore we had a modest wedding only with friends, I had a dress wedding the cheapest shopping mall at us there was no money, we had a wedding very modest on 15 people. We the church didn't choose us to him directed.

[citragirl 25]

I perfectly understand your point Sandra but this is a former husband person to which we exchange vows and for some of us, father of our children. I don't understand very clear the several points ishka86 tried to make us aware of but the officer might have tried to "read between the lines"

I am sure for those getting married in good faith got details stuck in our memories not to remember for the interview but because your talking of a major life event.

Let's say an officer asks why did you get married at such place or such time of day or pick such Judge... I could tell you how and why I pick the Judge I did and how many jewelry stores we went before we found the rings and why...

[bestgirlever 12]

Your right to condemn me, but I wrote it for this purpose that someone didn't make my mistake.

Ishka86

I'm NOT condemning you, didn't I just mention that I don't even know the name of the hall or address of the place I used as the reception venue? So where does the condemnation come in? What I'm simply letting you know is that if I was aksed that question I most likely would have been stucked just like you cos honestly I know the curch but not the reception that 70% of a wedding took place like cutting cake, wine and dine and dancing. Those officers should understand all these.Stay positive no one is condemning you. At least NOT me

[citragirl 25]

Maybe is just an honest wrong selection of words like "make mistake" you don't make mistakes when you don't remember and there's no need to study answers either. And not judging you, like I said maybe it just sounded different.

Edited October 14, 2013 by citragirl

[ishka86 1]

In it and sense I told that it was in court house, that it was in DNTWn and i told her the main street but I didn't know the exact address

[bestgirlever 12]

In it and sense I told that it was in court house, that it was in DNTWn and i told her the main street but I didn't know the exact address

Atleast you told them the main street, better than not having any idea at all, cos there are a lot of court houses

[citragirl 25]

Many people receive very quick surprises in the mail (gc)

Who knows, you might receive yours soon.

[bestgirlever 12]

Maybe is just an honest wrong selection of words like "make mistake" you don't make mistakes when you don't remember and there's no need to study answers either. And not judging you, like I said maybe it just sounded different.

Exactly, you can't study answer in this situation, its either you know it, remember it, forgot it or you just don't have any idea. If I had a special power to permanently erase everything that has to do with my Ex from my head? Trust me I would.its a painful memory to remember so this officers has to take it easy with all of us

[ishka86 1]

Thanks, at me died the grandmother a day before my interview and to me is very sick that I couldn't see it at all, I really was grieved.

Edited October 14, 2013 by ishka86

[Hypnos 6,576]

Some of the questions they ask at the interview will vary from person to person and from adjudicator to adjudicator.

I was not asked where I was married, for example, although I was married in my bedroom due to my wife's illness and we married three weeks before she died. That was never even mentioned by the adjudicator.

[citragirl 25]

Really sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences, grandmothers for some of us are very, very special.

You are very brave, I would have gone blank too. I apologize if my words sounded harsh.

Thanks, at me died the grandmother a day before my interview and to me is very sick that I couldn't see it at all, I really was grieved.

[ishka86 1]

thanks for a condolence

[bestgirlever 12]

Thanks, at me died the grandmother a day before my interview and to me is very sick that I couldn't see it at all, I really was grieved.

So sorry about your loss ishka86.. You know If you had told the interviewing officer that you just loss your grandmom, it'll be a perfect explanation for your being stucked on answering the questions you were asked.. Just saying. But hope for the best

[ishka86 1]

I wanted to tell but was afraid that my interview can transfer and I will wait again, I hoped that I will receive the answer at once and I will go home, but made worse,But I can't already do anything, I want to see the parents to them too now difficult. I will hope for the best

[Faithkeeper 25]

The PF is a little confusing, I just received my 3rd prima facie(60 days only compared to 180days normal) but all I've been able to do with it renew my DL. I was denied foodstamps, financial assiatance for rent or anything cos 1:I haven't lived in the US for atleast 5years and 2:I don't have a green card. So to me the PF is useless as I can't even afford a car insurance so why do I need a DL renewed for 60days? This whole process is so depressing