Is there any couple went through this?

[nabil77 0]

I am still in my Morocco .. the agreement with my american citizen wife was that she comes to Morocco to have a great marriage ceremony on june 2013 and then leave together for the US .. meanwhile my wife whose the temper is bad and the mind is changeable and most of time depressed .. fighted and accused me that i married her for visa.. ( if i married her for visa i would not wait for her in Morocco from March 5,2013 date when they granted my visa till now june 5,2013) so she decided to call the homeland which contacted US consulate in my country to revoke my IR1 visa .. So yesterday US consulate in my country convoked me .. i tried to convince them of the nature of my wife but in vain .. they stamped over my visa this " cancelled without prejudice" At present my wife is regretting what she did .. she said that it was at a moment of panic she behaved this way. How could i and my wife remedy to this situation. And we want to get acquianted to any couple went through this.Regards

[Golden Gate 530]

I am still in my Morocco .. the agreement with my american citizen wife was that she comes to Morocco to have a great marriage ceremony on june 2013 and then leave together for the US .. meanwhile my wife whose the temper is bad and the mind is changeable and most of time depressed .. fighted and accused me that i married her for visa.. ( if i married her for visa i would not wait for her in Morocco from March 5,2013 date when they granted my visa till now june 5,2013) so she decided to call the homeland which contacted US consulate in my country to revoke my IR1 visa .. So yesterday US consulate in my country convoked me .. i tried to convince them of the nature of my wife but in vain .. they stamped over my visa this " cancelled without prejudice" At present my wife is regretting what she did .. she said that it was at a moment of panic she behaved this way. How could i and my wife remedy to this situation. And we want to get acquianted to any couple went through this.Regards

I am sorry you are going through this. I can't really help you with the same experience. Perhaps if she moved there for an extended period of time to develop your relationship. Sounds to me like there isn't any trust on her end. Also, not sure how much I would trust a person like her, and I am American. She doesn't sound very stable.

Edited June 8, 2013 by Golden Gate

[stevie b 141]

I am still in my Morocco .. the agreement with my american citizen wife was that she comes to Morocco to have a great marriage ceremony on june 2013 and then leave together for the US .. meanwhile my wife whose the temper is bad and the mind is changeable and most of time depressed .. fighted and accused me that i married her for visa.. ( if i married her for visa i would not wait for her in Morocco from March 5,2013 date when they granted my visa till now june 5,2013) so she decided to call the homeland which contacted US consulate in my country to revoke my IR1 visa .. So yesterday US consulate in my country convoked me .. i tried to convince them of the nature of my wife but in vain .. they stamped over my visa this " cancelled without prejudice" At present my wife is regretting what she did .. she said that it was at a moment of panic she behaved this way. How could i and my wife remedy to this situation. And we want to get acquianted to any couple went through this.Regards

this process is extremely stressful

stressful situations bring out the true nature of the person inside

you might want to ask yourself if this really is the right kind of relationship for you.. I couldn't imagine what would happen in the future.. this claim was false - yes? what other false claims might be in your future??? abuse? adultery? green card accusations?

sorry to hear about this unfortunate situation, but better to know now than later

[aaron2020 11,651]

I am still in my Morocco .. the agreement with my american citizen wife was that she comes to Morocco to have a great marriage ceremony on june 2013 and then leave together for the US .. meanwhile my wife whose the temper is bad and the mind is changeable and most of time depressed .. fighted and accused me that i married her for visa.. ( if i married her for visa i would not wait for her in Morocco from March 5,2013 date when they granted my visa till now june 5,2013) so she decided to call the homeland which contacted US consulate in my country to revoke my IR1 visa .. So yesterday US consulate in my country convoked me .. i tried to convince them of the nature of my wife but in vain .. they stamped over my visa this " cancelled without prejudice" At present my wife is regretting what she did .. she said that it was at a moment of panic she behaved this way. How could i and my wife remedy to this situation. And we want to get acquianted to any couple went through this.Regards

Sorry about your situation.

As far as an immigration visa is concerned, the case ended when your visa was revoked. No way to revive it.

If you want an immigration visa, your wife has to file a new I-130 and start all.

[Cathi 5,784]

I'm thinking if she accused you of fraud, whether or not it's true, and they cancelled your visa, the chances of you being granted another visa with her, or with anyone else for that matter, isn't very good.

Edited June 8, 2013 by mimolicious

[The Mean Lady 604]

I'm thinking if she accused you of fraud, whether or not it's true, and they cancelled your visa, the chances of you being granted another visa with her, or with anyone else for that matter, isn't very good.

If this is the case, I suggest his wife try and contact the embassy/consulate/NVC whatever it is that she contacted and try to explain her mistake.

Regardless of the fact that they won't re-issue the visa, the least she could do is try to undo the allegations against him.

OP, honestly, I don't think being in a relationship with someone that accuses you of such a thing, and then slanders you is a good thing, but that's your decision to make.

This wasn't just a rash decision, it was an INSANE decision.

Make sure you two both spend some time together and talk about this and work through your issues before you try to move forward filing again.

You don't want to go through that happening a second time, it would DEFINITELY be a no forever if it happened again.

[Golden Gate 530]

If this is the case, I suggest his wife try and contact the embassy/consulate/NVC whatever it is that she contacted and try to explain her mistake.

Regardless of the fact that they won't re-issue the visa, the least she could do is try to undo the allegations against him.

OP, honestly, I don't think being in a relationship with someone that accuses you of such a thing, and then slanders you is a good thing, but that's your decision to make.

This wasn't just a rash decision, it was an INSANE decision.

Make sure you two both spend some time together and talk about this and work through your issues before you try to move forward filing again.

You don't want to go through that happening a second time, it would DEFINITELY be a no forever if it happened again.

This is good advice.

[jilliannep 13]

Along with what KDH said, the government is all about letters. If you truly want to continue with your wife, when she refiles, have her include a letter with the petition explaining her mistake and that it should have never happened.

But, please for your sake, have a long conversation with her.

[Shoot Em Straight 385]

This couple sounds like the closest to your volatile relationship. ( could even be you right?)

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/430454-you-are-not-welcomed-in-my-home-where-i-alone-pay-my-bills/

IF u still feel the Visa process is for you both, Maybe she could spend some time there in Moroccoo to see if you can work things out?

[Inky 1,111]

Moved from spousal visa process to effects of major family changes forums as your issue is best suited for this forum.

[yorubaqueen13 28]

I am still in my Morocco .. the agreement with my american citizen wife was that she comes to Morocco to have a great marriage ceremony on june 2013 and then leave together for the US .. meanwhile my wife whose the temper is bad and the mind is changeable and most of time depressed .. fighted and accused me that i married her for visa.. ( if i married her for visa i would not wait for her in Morocco from March 5,2013 date when they granted my visa till now june 5,2013) so she decided to call the homeland which contacted US consulate in my country to revoke my IR1 visa .. So yesterday US consulate in my country convoked me .. i tried to convince them of the nature of my wife but in vain .. they stamped over my visa this " cancelled without prejudice" At present my wife is regretting what she did .. she said that it was at a moment of panic she behaved this way. How could i and my wife remedy to this situation. And we want to get acquianted to any couple went through this.Regards

I recommend getting a divorce n marrying somebody sain!!! Wow! Sorry this happened to u! Ur wife sounds like she suffers from Bipolar disorder!!! Very unfortunate but theres meds to control that good luck

[batallion9 50]

I would recommend trying to make up and calm her fears. Get her to write another letter to rescend her accusations. Once things are good Run, don't walk., Drop her like a hot potato!

[Lonelywithouthim 5]

I'm sorry for you. Remember, you are leaving behind your job, family, friends and home to make a life with her. Considering her personality and her actions (life changing ). Do you still trust her enough to go through this difficult process and life in America with her? If I was you, I would not start the process again with her until she move to your country and live with you. She needs to prove to you and immigration, if you do the process again that she wants to be with you.

Good luck

[shayma 22]

Im so sorry for u i hope everything works out for u allah ysehil

[CaroSL 68]

I would recommend trying to make up and calm her fears. Get her to write another letter to rescend her accusations. Once things are good Run, don't walk., Drop her like a hot potato!

Are you suggesting that he should stay with her until he gets a green card and then dump her? It highly seems like visa fraud.

If the OP got maried for love and not for the GC, like he says (and I have no reason to doubt that), he has no reason to stay with her until he gets a GC if he has no desire to stay with her any more.

I believe it is against the policies of this forum to suggest and encourage visa fraud...