Wife charged with check fraud and 2 years not up til next may (merged)

[eni001 0]

Hello everyone im need of help.

My wife(she is the US citizen) is in custody and her charge is check fraud. she has a serious drug addiction(pian killers such as Oxycottin and others also) problem and it has gotten worse. i knew about this before we got married and she had a similar charge prior before we met. We got married Last year in january and i made sure she got her prior charges dismissed so she can start fresh and made her go back to school as she wanted to do nursing. We lived together till about summer last year when leece was up. i graduated last summer so we moved to her parents and also my aunts. We were going back and forth visiting each other and i loved her as i was helping her to get her life on track and leave the past. But few months after we married i started seeing suspicious old habit of her getting text messages from people who were into the drugs saying they have the pills for sale. She claimed it was people sending out txt to everyone they refer to as clients. I believed her but also wasnt buying it but had to give her a benefit of doubt cause i thought she was strong enough to handle such situations. She relasped in about august so she claims because for the first 6 months i would randomly drug test her but because of funds and plus she was a little dirty and not so strong on the results showed she wasnt using. but funny thing started happening as i checked our joint accnt and noticed where she was withdrawing money from i confronted her about her habits and she denied it. i was suspicious but didnt have no evidence. So were her parents who she has been stealing from. i got calls from our bank saying of overdraft fees and i knew it was her and called her out and she denied it. I was losing trust with her so i close the accnt. She has stolen from me many times before we got married and stole a check of 1200 also but she has been robbing her parents dry especially and friends also. She always told her friend dont like her which i believed at the time but later on i doubt that. Her dad calls me up about shes acting up i confronted her seriously and threatend to leave then she tells me she relapse n august or spetember last year but i can see it in her eyes that she wasnt telling the entire truth and she didnt care. Daddy and mummy will always pick up her mess and i was really hurt from that. now she is in custody of another check fraud and i cant take this anymore its just feels like a cycle all over again. By the way she didnt call me when she was locked up i had to find this on my own time.

I have been through a lot with her. Helped her dismissed similar check fraud coniviction she had in 2012. Help and made her pay all drug dealers and friend she owed money to. Help her go back to school when she wasnt doing anything and this was hard and stressful for me especially in my final year of my undergraduate school. I feel this coming back all over again. My cousin suggests to wait it out because my 2 year condition will be up in may. he says if i divorce her i might not green card. I do not know what to do. Do i have enough evidence. Pls i need advice on what to do. She has been stealing her parents identity to open new accnts and also putting her name on their accnts and directing it to her email. I know i need to talk to an attorney but i want some advice. I just got admitted to a graduate school and start in fall. If i do get a divorce it has to be done before school starts and i dont want to be doing this during school. should i wait to play this out or do i have a strong case with a divorce?

Evidence for now:

I have pics of my parents meeting her parents for my graduation.

i had a leece of us living together till about summer time last year then moved to her parents for a while and to my aunts in sacramento. We were seeing each other every weekend plus she claimed she was taking lots of classes coming to find out she wasnt enrolled spring 12 and fall 12. she started college on fall 2011.

i have pics of us before wedding, during wedding and after weddings.

car insurance together for now.

had joint account together till we closed it because of her overdraft and repeated calls from bank.

she is in custody right now. she got arrested last monday.

I have letters written to her telling her i love before we got married stating she has to change her habits.

i closed my accnt of when she stole checks but hopefully i can get a letter from the bank stating reason why the accnt was closed. this happened in january 2011.

[eni001 0]

Hello everyone im need of help.

My wife(she is the US citizen) is in custody and her charge is check fraud. she has a serious drug addiction(pian killers such as Oxycottin and others also) problem and it has gotten worse. i knew about this before we got married and she had a similar charge prior before we met. We got married Last year in january and i made sure she got her prior charges dismissed so she can start fresh and made her go back to school as she wanted to do nursing. We lived together till about summer last year when leece was up. i graduated last summer so we moved to her parents and also my aunts. We were going back and forth visiting each other and i loved her as i was helping her to get her life on track and leave the past. But few months after we married i started seeing suspicious old habit of her getting text messages from people who were into the drugs saying they have the pills for sale. She claimed it was people sending out txt to everyone they refer to as clients. I believed her but also wasnt buying it but had to give her a benefit of doubt cause i thought she was strong enough to handle such situations. She relasped in about august so she claims because for the first 6 months i would randomly drug test her but because of funds and plus she was a little dirty and not so strong on the results showed she wasnt using. but funny thing started happening as i checked our joint accnt and noticed where she was withdrawing money from i confronted her about her habits and she denied it. i was suspicious but didnt have no evidence. So were her parents who she has been stealing from. i got calls from our bank saying of overdraft fees and i knew it was her and called her out and she denied it. I was losing trust with her so i close the accnt. She has stolen from me many times before we got married and stole a check of 1200 also but she has been robbing her parents dry especially and friends also. She always told her friend dont like her which i believed at the time but later on i doubt that. Her dad calls me up about shes acting up i confronted her seriously and threatend to leave then she tells me she relapse n august or spetember last year but i can see it in her eyes that she wasnt telling the entire truth and she didnt care. Daddy and mummy will always pick up her mess and i was really hurt from that. now she is in custody of another check fraud and i cant take this anymore its just feels like a cycle all over again. By the way she didnt call me when she was locked up i had to find this on my own time.

I have been through a lot with her. Helped her dismissed similar check fraud coniviction she had in 2012. Help and made her pay all drug dealers and friend she owed money to. Help her go back to school when she wasnt doing anything and this was hard and stressful for me especially in my final year of my undergraduate school. I feel this coming back all over again. My cousin suggests to wait it out because my 2 year condition will be up in may. he says if i divorce her i might not green card. I do not know what to do. Do i have enough evidence. Pls i need advice on what to do. She has been stealing her parents identity to open new accnts and also putting her name on their accnts and directing it to her email. I know i need to talk to an attorney but i want some advice. I just got admitted to a graduate school and start in fall. If i do get a divorce it has to be done before school starts and i dont want to be doing this during school. should i wait to play this out or do i have a strong case with a divorce?

Evidence for now:

I have pics of my parents meeting her parents for my graduation.

i had a leece of us living together till about summer time last year then moved to her parents for a while and to my aunts in sacramento. We were seeing each other every weekend plus she claimed she was taking lots of classes coming to find out she wasnt enrolled spring 12 and fall 12. she started college on fall 2011.

i have pics of us before wedding, during wedding and after weddings.

car insurance together for now.

had joint account together till we closed it because of her overdraft and repeated calls from bank.

she is in custody right now. she got arrested last monday.

I have letters written to her telling her i love before we got married stating she has to change her habits.

i closed my accnt of when she stole checks but hopefully i can get a letter from the bank stating reason why the accnt was closed. this happened in january 2011

[Ryan H 3,821]

Moved from Removing Conditions on Residency Discussion to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits forum.

[Sandra G. 5,057]

You don't have enough proof of bonafide marriage,pictures and and affidavits do not count that much, you need to prove commingling finances submitting joint bank account statements (spanning the last 2 years), lease agreement in name of both,jointly tax return,credit card in name of both etc, and you have to prove commune residence showing utilities bills in name of both etc...

Edited June 9, 2013 by sandranj